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Tammy & Alexis have many Friends that support them in their effort to be reunited !!!>Alexis misses her Mommy !!>.. PLEASE take the time to listen to my daughter, ALEXIS NICOLE SEARLE cry for help.. YOUR HELP!www.SaveAlexis.com PLEASE HELP US TO PROMOTE THE ALEXIS ALERT SYSTEM - FOR PARENTAL KIDNAP PREVENTION !!..MySpace IconsAre you a SWIMMER?Today I was talking to a dear friend of mine who like me, is asked by many for assistance in their custody cases. He is overwhelmed with the amount of people that seek his help and quite honestly – so am I !So I had to ask him – are your surrounding yourself with swimmers? He of course had no idea what I meant so I went on to explain.Let’s just say you are at an outdoor event. You hear screaming and come to find out there are several people out in the middle of a lake yelling for help. You know how to swim, in fact you are a magnificent swimmer – BUT there are several people out there and you simply cannot save them all at once.So you yell over to a group of people on shore – they come running up to you to see what is the matter. You start asking them one by one – Can you swim? - some answer YES right away and jump in to start swimming to help the others in need. Others reply – “Well, I used to swim, not really good at it though….” – OUT OF THE WAY you must tell these people. After all time is of the essence here … others tell you “Well, I always wanted to learn how to swim, if you could teach me, I would swim and help you.” … again, OUT OF THE WAY you must tell these people. Others tell you "I would help, but do not want to ruin my clothing. … again, OUT OF THE WAY you must tell these people. After all time is of the essence here.You simply must decipher in a very limited amount of time as to who your team of people is going to be – after all, you don’t want to be on your way out there to discover that someone that you chose to help you now is in need of help because they do not know how to swim.So – as you go through this journey with your child custody case or any other journey for that matter, continually ask yourself when taking on new friends, attorneys and others into your life – Are they swimmers?As you seek assistance from others, ask yourself – Are YOU a swimmer? In order to get what you are seeking you must help others along the way to achieve what they are trying to achieve…. You must surround yourself with like-minded people.My purpose of this guide is to share my knowledge on becoming a magnificent SWIMMER . Then you can attain what you want while mentoring other swimmers along the way.Please grab your favorite blanket, make that cup of tea, grab a red pen and highlighter and get ready to learn how to become a SWIMMER !!SWIMMERSurround yourself with like-minded peopleWinners are sometimes losersInstincts are to be trustedMentor others along the wayMake a difference in the worldEvery day countsRemain true to yourself