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Pam

I am here for Friends

About Me



I am a 33 year old WAHM to three wonderfully beautiful children- Emily (8) and Twins Christian and Maria (3). I am a woman who has made her mistakes time and time again. I am also a woman that will not apologize to anyone for them. They have made me who I am today. Don't like me? My point of view? My beliefs? Oh well, I'm not here to impress you. I also do not fight to keep friends and family in my life-- if I have to fight-- you were never really there in the first place.

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself. ~~Leo Tolstoy

My Interests

Being irrational is NOT a part of the "cause"-- it's simply a part of the problem. It's not until a person opens their eyes, ears and mind to all aspects (facts and opinions) of their cause that they can truly inspire action. Just as in the Turtle and the Hare--- "slow and steady wins the race."

"I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief" -Gerry Spence

I'd like to meet:

Friends- ones I've lost, ones I've reconnected with, and ones I've never met before. I would also like to meet people that can think logically, rationally and completely. I lean towards total education, myself, and tend to place myself amongst others like me that strive to learn all aspects of an argument-- whether we agree with them or not.

Movies:



"It is better to have enough ideas for some of them to be wrong than to be always right by having no ideas at all."

Television:

AMERICAN IDOL!!! and House-- Sopranos--- to name a few

My Blog

Said goodbye to a very dear friend.....

"The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken." --Samuel Johnson So, last night at 10 PM EST, I said goodbye to a very dear, old friend.  This friend had be...
Posted by Pam on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 09:42:00 PST

Questons-- this one is really long.. be prepared.. lol

People that know my waivering faith issues often ask me why I don't believe in God aymore.  While there are many, many reasons for my disbelief, one stands out clearly in my mind.  Why does ...
Posted by Pam on Fri, 18 Jan 2008 07:54:00 PST

Frustration

What a hell of a couple of months it's been.  I've tried to keep my head on straight, keep focused on my goals, work my two jobs just about every single day of the week, keep my family happy, and...
Posted by Pam on Sun, 13 Jan 2008 09:12:00 PST

Nutshell

We chase misprinted liesWe face the path of timeAnd yet I fightAnd yet I fightThis battle all aloneNo one to cry toNo place to call homeOooh...oooh...Oooh...oooh...My gift of self is rapedMy privacy i...
Posted by Pam on Sat, 15 Dec 2007 09:41:00 PST

I, alone.

I start each morning rolling out of bed alone.   I stand in scalding hot water washing away a day barely begun.   I imagine yet another day spent waiting, wishing  hoping you'l...
Posted by Pam on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 06:52:00 PST

Its absolutely amazing....

..how just one conversation with someone who knew you back when you actually liked the person you were can make your whole week.  One of those infamous 'blasts from the past'.  I was having...
Posted by Pam on Wed, 14 Nov 2007 11:24:00 PST

My new profile picture.....

I have gotten a lot of messages about my new profile picture: 1. Why are you so sad? 2. Why aren't you smiling? 3. Why is it so dark and dismal? 4. It's absolutely beautiful. 5. Are you losing weight ...
Posted by Pam on Wed, 07 Nov 2007 05:52:00 PST

Spread Hope....

It is from the numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal or acts to improve the lot of others or strikes out against injustice,...
Posted by Pam on Wed, 03 Oct 2007 11:11:00 PST

A Poll of sorts....

I'm terribly bored with the cd's in my car.  I'm sitting here burning cd after cd-- and even the new ones are boring me.    So-- I'd like some input, if you wouldn't mind! What's your ...
Posted by Pam on Mon, 01 Oct 2007 08:30:00 PST

Update of sorts?

I've been trying, for weeks, to come up with something to blog about.  It's unlike me to have nothing at all of which to type!  I guess you could say I'm in another funk.  I used to ha...
Posted by Pam on Wed, 19 Sep 2007 10:13:00 PST