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jill

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...my name is jill, i am 32 years old.I am divorced and I have 2 wonderfull kids that live with me ages 12 and 4 - and a 16 year old daughter that i gave up for adoption when i was 15-i have since found her on myspace -she is an awesome young lady - and i love them all so much.I have been through many traumatic experiences in life-thus far -but have chose to grow from them -instead of them getting me down.I am family and friend oriented-i have aquired some very close friends most within the past year-and I wouldnt trade any of them 4 anything-they are awesome-also known as the crew(u will notice in my bulletins).I am very loyal and passionate yet silly at times- i love to make people laugh -and I LOVE to karaoke- especially with my crew.I am a hairstylist-I love the beauty industry.I am getting ready to train-to be an educator for Paul Mitchell-hopefully specializing in updos.I am excited for that journey to embrace me.I am very trendy and wont leave the house without makeup very often- I have a very creative side and do not get caught up in the needing or wanting of expensive things-thank god because i love to shop!especially in thrift shops and cheap stores:)that sell old furniture!!! I just bought my first house. A very big 6 bedroom older home.It will take me years to get it how i want it.and then i will probably want to change it again:) I am not afraid of change.I know who I am and what I stand for.more so now than ever in my life- i guess good things really do come with age.if u want to know more- or join the friendship of our crew- just send me a request tata 4 now!!

My Interests

karaoke

I'd like to meet:

My daughter Rachel in peson.and jesus someday when that time comes.

Music:

anything i can sing 2


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Movies:

diary of a mad black woman,john q and anything my brother directs or plays a role in

Television:


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Books:

IF A MAN WANTS YOUIf a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. ! He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Heroes:

jesus and my parents

My Blog

I got this from Coleman

Let it go for 2008.. By T.. D. JakesThere are people who can walk away from you.And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.I don't want you to try to talk anot...
Posted by jill on Wed, 14 Nov 2007 03:03:00 PST

starting fresh.......

Hi friends and family..... Just to  let you know - that i have finally put my words into actions and we signed our dissolution of marriage today.You all know that this has been a long time c...
Posted by jill on Thu, 30 Aug 2007 07:42:00 PST