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~YoLiS~

If YoU JuDgE PeOpLe ToO mUcH, YoU HaVe No TiMe To LoVe ThEm...img src=http://i70.photobucket.com/alb

About Me

***Que cosa que en este mundo lo que mas sobra es gente malagradecida que creen que se lo merecen todo, que pena me dan, gente ridicula...asi mismo, ellos solos se cierran las puertas, por idiotas que son.******The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.******Some people are so good at pretending to be the nicest, sweetest things, when in reality are more bad than a rotten apple...I can't stand it when I meet fake people, but then again, they can be gone without even noticing them but the worst thing is to have lived among the fake kind...those who think that it's all about them but they omit the fact that nobody actually cares or better yet, the ones they want the attention from, are so far away like their unattainable dreams******Once someone has my heart, whether it's a family member, a lover ;) or a friend, I can assure you that it arises from my most sincere sentiment as I am as authentic as the word itself.*** ~YoLiS~***ONE OF THE CHARACTERISTICS OF A STRONG WOMAN IS HER ABILITY TO SAY F*CK LOVE AND MOVE ON WHEN FACING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, WHETHER THE ABUSE IS PHYSICAL, VERBAL, ETC. ~YoLiS~***THIS IS MY LITTLE CHAT…IF YOU WANT TO WRITE ME SOMETHING, JUST WRITE IT IN THE SPACE PROVIDED, IT AUTOMATICALLY GIVES YOU A NAME BUT YOU CAN SWITCH IT BY CLICKING ON IT, YOU CAN ALSO SWITCH YOUR PIC.***I LOVE MY LIFE***Hi! I didn’t intend to write about myself but being that people ask about the way I am…Here it goes…I’m 29 years old, I’m a very down to earth person…I love life, even the bad experiences that you encounter, because they only make me mature…I try not think about death but rather enjoy life to the fullest ‘cause you never know…I don’t consider myself pessimistic, but realistic instead…I love hanging out…I can be very nice and friendly, but if you talk behind my back, I don’t consider you an enemy, I just simply ignore you, I can’t deal with drama. I don’t like judging people by the way they look ‘cause you never know. However, sometimes I can’t help but get a bad feeling towards someone without even knowing them but I give them the benefit of the doubt and get to know them and that’s when I make a decision on whether or not I want them around me. I try to respect people’s way of thinking and at the same time expect people to respect my point of views but at no point I try to impose my views to others as if I was right about them… I think it’s all based on individual opinions, not realities. I buy things because I like them, but not because they are expensive, I can buy a $20 pair of jeans and as long as they fit me nice, I’m happy…I truly believe that someone can be happy by doing whatever they love doing without worrying about what others have to say, as long as it doesn’t involve hurting others in the process of reaching that happiness…I think that everyone has a little bit of everything such as good, bad, jealousy, compassion, etc…even if it’s only 1%…of course some people have certain traits more developed than others and that’s how let’s say jealousy turns into being a hater…When it comes to relationships, what I’ve learned so far is that one should show the other person that you care, but not to the point of letting them know that they are the world to you ‘cause that’s when they take advantage, I don’t like going out with someone whose intention is to change the way I am, that’s just not going to happen…I think that some people cheat because it’s nature…just the same way animals do it, that’s the same way people are, the only reason why some people are restrained from doing it, it's because of society’s rules…one last thing…please, if you happen to see your ex, man, or hubby on my page, don’t be sending me messages, asking me whether or not I know them...there's no reason to get all psychotic on myspace...at least my "myspace" and my real life is drama free.I DON’T NEED ANYONE’S APPROVAL ABOUT HOW I LIVE MY LIFE…IT’S NOT A SENSE OF THINKING THAT I’M BETTER THAN ANYONE, IT’S A SENSE OF KNOWING WHO I REALLY AM.I GOT THIS MESSAGE ON 12/5/06: "dont u have respect 4 ur self knowing that a nigga have a fam... and kids tying 2 talk to them... a nigga is going to say what he wants but its to the girl but i see what kind of girl that u r do ur self a favor and dont even reply back"LMAO!!! WWWWOWWWWW, FIRST OF ALL, I'M NOT TRYING TO GET WITH ANY GUYS IN HERE...BUT COME ON, WHY WOMEN HAVE TO LOWER THEMSELVES LIKE THAT? I WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO MYSELF... IT'S JUST NOT MY STYLE...FOR THOSE WOMEN OUT THERE WHO ACT LIKE THIS, I HAVE TO SAY THAT I FEEL SORRY FOR THEM...THEY GOT THEMSELVES INTO THEIR LITTLE DRAMA, THEY SHOULD DO THEMSELVES A FAVOR AND KEEP THEIR MAN, PROBLEMS AND WHATEVER DRAMA THEY'RE IN, TO THEMSELVES, that's one of the reasons why I'm single, no need for this...even though this may look like I'm creating some drama, well I'm not, just want to set things straight...so please losers, get a life!!!When it comes to relationships, I think that the reason why I’d rather be single sometimes, it is because I don’t force anything on others, Life is too beautiful to be stressing over anything that may not have any meaning at the end of your trail. Just like everyone else, I have flaws and one of them being that it’s hard for me to show emotions (well, when I’m drunk that can be a slightly different story lol). I don’t like calling guys, not even when I have a “boyfriend”, I can however send them text messages and it’s solely because I respect people’s privacy. I guess in a way, it’s a good thing because some guys don’t like girls checking up on them, however there are those guys who like that type of attention in their life, it’s a way for others to show them that they care, but one thing I can tell you for sure, they won’t be getting that from me, I don’t feel the need to be checking up on guys, I mean if they are or will cheat on you, they’ll do it regardless no matter how “on check” you got them, so why bother. I love kids, I have several nephews and nieces, but when it comes to me having kids, Let’s just say that I don’t want to rush into that right now or ever LOL, I mean, I won’t have a kid just because I feel that this certain someone will “stay” with me forever or that at least we’ll be always connected through the kid, Nope, I think about myself and I’m so glad about my way of thinking. Also, I don’t think that “my clock is ticking” like some people infer, they feel that I’m ready to have a “husband, kids, etc.” because otherwise your life is meaningless, you are somehow “INCOMPLETE” and this is when I say, “according to who?” but I do respect their way of thinking, however it’s definitely NOT the way I want to go on with my Life…my Life is more like watching myself flipping through pages from a magazine, for some reason when I do that and let’s say, I skip pages 3 and 4, I don’t go back to it, I just keep on reading the other pages and that’s pretty much how I see Life, if I don’t get to experience certain things in Life such as “having kids” “getting married” “get a puppy” lol well, I guess I wasn’t meant to see them but I keep on living my life to the fullest…Besides, I can see myself being happy either way...I DO THANK MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS FOR PROVIDING ME WITH AMAZING GIFTS...THAT OF HAVING MY LOVELY NEPHEWS AND NIECES! LOVE YOU ALL
Create your own Friend Quiz here IF YOU HAPPEN TO SEE ANY OF THE SEXY MEN BELOW, PLEASE CALL ME ; ) LOL
The girls
Alma
Luzzy
Mayra
Jennifer
Erika
Jera
Yolanda
Larry
Alison
Jackie
Nagelie
Priscilla
Greisse
Melissa
Ms. Ivy
*C*
Josie
Lorena
Flymama
April

My Interests

EMOTIONAL, LOVING, INTUITIVE, IMAGINATIVE, SHREWD, CAUTIOUS,PROTECTIVE & SYMPATHETICNever apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, or move across country, always do what you really want.Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn't work out.Never apologize for being successful. Only enemies want to keep you at their level.Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself.Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're cheap.Never apologize for being a single mom. Babies are a blessing.Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation.Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority.Never apologize for keeping the ring even if wedding bells won't chime.Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.Never apologize for saying NO. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a reason they've been your friends from day one.Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's your style.Never apologize for changing your mind...Never apologize for being YOU! "ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!" A friend is a person who knows all about you and still loves you just the same."Anyone can catch your eye,but it takes someone special to catch your heart. ."
INDIFFERENCE: THE BEST REMEDY TO GET RID OF PEOPLE YOU DON’T WANT IN YOUR LIFE ~YoLiS~ATTENTION PLEASE!!!I DON'T FEEL LIKE MEETING NEW PEOPLE...I DON'T WANT NUMBERS, I DON'T GIVE OUT MINE...I DON'T LIKE TO BE ON AOL, YAHOO OR MSN MESSENGERS SO PLEASE DON'T ASK FOR IT...THERE'S NOTHING WORST THAN GETTING THE FEELING LIKE SOMEONE IS DESPERATE. IF I WAS INTERESTED, I WOULD OFFER MY NUMBER OR ANY OF THE MESSENGERS TO SOMEONE, BUT IT'S NOT THE CASE AT THIS POINT!...ALSO, IF YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE AND I DON'T REPLY TO IT, IT'S ONLY BECAUSE I'M BUSY, SO DON'T SEND ME OTHER ONES AFTER THAT...THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING.I LIKE GOING TO STRIPBARS...to see women of course, I don't think a man is able to pull it off in a thong, at least is something I wouldn't want to see LOL

I'd like to meet:



The guys

Octa

Jon

Jhoell

Mauri

Ray

Mike

Bobby

Amain

Edwin

Joey

Chanchi

Charlie

Sniper

Peter

Charlie

Kenny

Franklin

BkYankee

Paul

J.Skeem

Music:

I listen to different types of music, of course I listen to some more than others, but I appreciate music in general...I think that life would be boring without music, at least it's what keeps me going...I listen to Reggaeton, rock, bachata, heavy metal, salsa, merengue, etc.

Movies:

Courtesy of my nephew Damian...thank you Damian! I love you!I LOVE DONALD!!!

Television:

I enjoy watching Hannah Montana...my version of Hannah's best of both worlds is me being an adult but never forgetting that I was once a child myself and there's nothing wrong with conserving that child mentality within me ;)I ALSO LIKE "FRIENDS" AND "SEINFELD"

Books:

THALIA...The most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
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Heroes:

MY BROTHER DANNY...I LOVE HIM SO MUCH...HE'S JUST THE BEST!

My Blog

Ready to have kids?...

I’m not a mother but I know how hard it is to have kids and I didn’t even need to have kids of my own to realize it .  There are many reasons why women may end up ...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Tue, 08 Apr 2008 11:54:00 PST

Just blogging...

I like to analyze people because I've always been a fan of questioning human beings, in general.  I must say that I am amazed by the things human beings have been able to create and/or accom...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 03:11:00 PST

TRUE FRIENDS?????

Sometimes, one has to think about the impact someone causes in your life. I think about the fact that I'm not a person who likes to look for friends, perhaps the reason why is because I've always...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Mon, 26 Nov 2007 01:37:00 PST

TO MY MOTHER AND SIBLINGS ; )

As I'm sitting on my bed, I'm thinking about the way I am...in general about the way my mother and siblings are.  I feel that we don't like to judge people; of course sometimes we hear gossi...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Thu, 25 Oct 2007 03:29:00 PST

DEDICATED TO MY BROTHER DANNY...

My brother Danny is the best I have!!! I can't believe how sometimes not even I can reason the way he does...Regardless of the things that happen, he's always there for the family and he has never let...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Sun, 04 Mar 2007 02:56:00 PST

IF ANYONE WHO PERSONALLY KNOWS ME, THOUGHT...

...that I actually care about whatever decisions you make in life, you're wrong.  I have more than enough with my life and my own choices, which I happen to like and be proud of; the rest is mere...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Thu, 08 Feb 2007 09:39:00 PST

An ideal MAN according to Yolis

These are some of the things that I look for in a man: 1. He must be smart.   2. Looks are important, but to a certain extent&you don't want a good looking guy who's a total ass with you just b...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Wed, 31 Jan 2007 11:05:00 PST

HATIN' TOPIC.

What kind of people create the "hatin" mania?&I really don't see why people would post things such as "You know ya hatin", "You wish you were like me", "You can't have this",  "Don't hate, congra...
Posted by ~YoLiS~ on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 08:21:00 PST