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benny.james

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships and Friends

About Me


"He has a way of making everyone around him feel important, even if that person isn't close to him.
He has come a long way from being the new boy in town who awkwardly walked the hallways at a new school. You can call him anytime, anywhere, and he will try his best to get to you if you need him. He has a sort of charm that can captivate anyone, and while he tries to give the spotlight to other people it is naturally placed on him.
While he is generally shy at first around new people, he is quick to warm up to them and start building a friendship. He has a habit of pacing when talking on the phone and looking at his feet when he walks. He has a few friends that are very dear to his heart and he will take actions to try to protect them, even if those actions are misunderstood.
He is an artist that tries to express himself with the clothes he wears and the scribbles he writes on small papers that he keeps in his desk drawer. He would rather sit on a porch and strum a guitar and talk about old times and people he cares about than go to a party full of people he doesn’t know well.
He is very much a farm boy at heart, yet the city intrigues him. Not many people can understand or enjoy the simple things like he does. He is original, yet he feels he must try to be something different for everyone.
Riding in the car with music blasting on his iPod or playing catch in a parking lot is what he would call a good time. When listening to music he pulls apart every sound and listens to the lyrics; every song means something to him.
He will accept you the way you are, even if you are a complete mess. Instead of him following one path, I see him walking down many; doing just about anything he has his heart set on and excelling at whatever he wants badly enough.”
- Kara Rae Churchfield..

My Interests

passions

+ art
+ beauty
+ The Bible
+ blankets
+ books
+ Christianity
+ chucks
+ coffee
+ collages
+ drawing
+ friends
+ honesty
+ love
+ music
+ nature
+ old buildings
+ organic food
+ people
+ photography
+ piano
+ pillows
+ poetry
+ prayer
+ rain
+ saving our planet
+ simplicity
+ singing
+ stars
+ swings
+ tattoos
+ tea
+ thinking too much
+ thunderstorms
+ traveling
+ trumpet
+ words
+ writing

I'd like to meet:

someone who loves me, is honest, and who deserves all the love i have to give.

Myspace Countdowns at WishAFriend.com

Music:

what's playing

+ Ace of Base
+ Action Action
+ A.F.I.
+ Alanis Morrisette
+ Anberlin
+ Ani Difranco
+ The All-American Rejects
+ Armor for Sleep
+ Artificial Joy Club
+ Avril Lavigne
+ The Beatles
+ Between the Trees
+ Billy Joel
+ Blindside
+ Bowling for Soup
+ Boys Like Girls
+ Breaking Benjamin
+ By the Tree
+ The Carpenters
+ Castledoor
+ Cat Stevens
+ Chevelle
+ Chiodos
+ The Classic Crime
+ Coldplay
+ Copeland
+ The Cranberries
+ Creed
+ Cute is What we Aim For
+ Dashboard Confessional
+ Daughtry
+ Death Cab for Cutie
+ Decyfer Down
+ Disciple
+ Earthsuit
+ Emery
+ Evanescence
+ Ever We Fall
+ Everybody Else
+ Fair
+ Fall Out Boy
+ Falling Up
+ Flyleaf
+ The Fray
+ Fuel
+ Further Seems Forever
+ Goldfinger
+ Good Charlotte
+ Goo Goo Dolls
+ Green Day
+ Harvey Danger
+ hellogoodbye
+ Hoobastank
+ Howie Day
+ Jars of Clay
+ Jewel
+ Jimmy Eat World
+ Keane
+ Kids in the Way
+ Kina Granis
+ The Killers
+ KT Tunstall
+ Kutless
+ Leeland
+ Lifehouse
+ Linkin Park
+ Lisa Marie Presley
+ Lovedrug
+ Mae
+ Maroon 5
+ mewithoutyou
+ Monday Morning
+ Morningwood
+ Motion City Soundtrack
+ Mute Math
+ My Chemical Romance
+ New Found Glory
+ Nickelback
+ One Republic
+ Panic! At the Disco
+ Paramore
+ Patsy Cline
+ Pink
+ Plain White T’s
+ Project 86
+ This Providence
+ Queen
+ RED
+ Red Umbrella
+ Relient K
+ The Ride
+ Sanctus Real
+ Simple Plan
+ Sister Hazel
+ Sixpence None the Richer
+ Skillet
+ Spoken
+ Starfield
+ Stars of Track and Field
+ Stellar Kart
+ Taking Back Sunday
+ Thousand Foot Krutch
+ The Offspring
+ Plumb
+ The Police
+ The Postal Service
+ Project 86
+ The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
+ Rise Against
+ The Secret Machines
+ Stellar Kart
+ Straylight Run
+ Third Day
+ Three Day’s Grace
+ Thrice
+ Tracy Chapman
+ Train
+ Tree63
+ Until June
+ Waking Ashland
+ The Wedding

Movies:

on the tube
+ airplane
+ alice in wonderland
+ back to the future
+ beauty and the beast
+ center stage
+ christmas with the kranks
+ cinderella
+ clue
+ the devil wears prada
+ edward scissorhands
+ e.t.
+ finding neverland
+ freaky friday
+ girl, interrupted
+ harry potter
+ i am legend
+ the illusionist
+ the invisible
+ the little mermaid
+ little rascals
+ lord of the rings
+ the notebook
+ mean girls
+ monty python
+ the mothman prophicies
+ mrs. doubtfire
+ norbit
+ the parent trap
+ the patriot
+ the phantom of the opera
+ pirates of the caribbean
+ the polar express
+ the prestige
+ the princess diaries
+ raise your voice
+ red eye
+ rent
+ return to oz
+ the ring
+ the secret garden
+ schindler's list
+ the shawshank redemption
+ stranger than fiction
+ the tenth kindgdom
+ titanic
+ twister
+ v for vendetta
+ what's eating gilbert grape
+ the wizard of oz
+ you've got mail

My Blog

there is a light that never goes out

[I can't believe in you anymore]   You tried so hard to lose yourself that when you went to find the pieces, someone has swept them up and thrown them away.  You've all but put me out Some...
Posted by benny.james on Mon, 26 Feb 2007 08:25:00 PST

do.something

Global warming is not too big of an issue for you to tackle. There are tons of small things you can do on your own or encourage others to do to help stop the threat of global warming. The important th...
Posted by benny.james on Wed, 03 Jan 2007 04:31:00 PST

this.is.where.i.draw.the.line

It was on that one way street where we pretended to be astronauts that I first saw the faint glimmer of hope through the keyhole of your front door.   Both loners, we were surreptitiously ...
Posted by benny.james on Thu, 21 Dec 2006 05:04:00 PST

i am sir benjamin and this is a time for confessions

I have learned recently that I try too hard in life. I am confused over many things and I have finally found a heart I long thought was lost. Yes, I will finally admit, I still have feelings that you ...
Posted by benny.james on Sun, 26 Nov 2006 10:40:00 PST

learn to pretend theres more than love that matters

just like i knew it would it's happening againthe mask over your imperfections is failing miserably she is so repetitive hiding self-realizations in the folds of her skirt and i wish her insight.&nbs...
Posted by benny.james on Sat, 15 Jul 2006 10:31:00 PST

[distractions.and.exhalations]

is it so hard to use your head? we draw pride from imperfections posting its glamour on bathroom stalls and on billboards for our children to see   we're forced to inhale blindly absorbing a f...
Posted by benny.james on Thu, 08 Jun 2006 12:13:00 PST

to.those.who.judge

We often become hypnotized by society.   It becomes socially and morally acceptable to hurt others in ways that you would never want to be hurt.   There are circumstances when this type of...
Posted by benny.james on Tue, 09 May 2006 06:02:00 PST

Oh God, Oh God I needed you

It's funny how some people's faith gets smaller as they get older. It's funny how you don't think twice about breakting my heart. It's funny how you make me cry myself to sleep at night. humanity see...
Posted by benny.james on Wed, 12 Apr 2006 07:18:00 PST