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Ray

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me


About me? Humm..... Well, I am a type of person, that does not follow the crowd. I am a type of person who will love you to death, & will do everything for you, If you have won my trust. But, I am a person that when the trust is gone, it's gone. I am a person that does not need BS to open up as a friend. I believe that action, speaks louder than words. I believe that in all good things and bad things that happens in my life, that their is lesson to be learned, that shapes & molds my character. I am a type of person, who pays attention to details, and values effort. Quality, not quantity. I am at peace with my self, & know who I am, so I do not want drama! I have enough things to do in my life, that I do not need negative attention. Pretty heavy Huh? But, that is what I am composed of. I have just been around the block, and know what makes me happy is all the reason that I need to wake up each morning, and say thank you God for another day to find happiness! Oh, Yah I love to dance, I love to do unplaned, out of the Norm things, I Love My Family and Friends, I am a hopeless Romantic, that believes that when I find the missing half of my heart, that my life will finally begin and be complete.

My Interests


Biking, walking, hiking, anything out of the NORM, Eating good food that melts your taste buds, Hanging out @ d house, club n beach, love to dance salsa, and Of Course Dj, take video's and photo's of parties, I love life and I want to capture each moment, because nothing else really matters, their was once a wise man who said, "It doesn't matter how hard you play, but how you played the game":) by Ray Cua 10/18/04

I'd like to meet:


The Question that in every singles mind and thoughts, what are we looking in the opposite sex. Well, as for me, all I am looking for in a women is someone who uses her heart, and not their mind. I want to meet a women, who through her actions, show what is in her heart. I have met girls, that uses a relationship, as a means to fix their problems and finances. Well, If that is what they think a relationship is, that is good for them. But, wouldn't it be nice to meet a women who is in a relationship because they want to lose and give themselves completely as you will. A women, who will match your all, 100%, and not expect financial gain. But expect, to capture your heart and soul. A lady who wants to build something with you, and have the gratification that both off you together accomplished something. Not by your own strength or her strength, but by joint hearts agreeing, to a common goal. Yes, I am looking to meet someone, who knows the lost art of how to feel. Someone who breaths life, and someone who will give color to my life.

What Is Love?
I don't know what love really means, but to me love is a feeling. A feeling so intense that makes my whole being quiver in retribution. An amerce feeling that my earthly vessel cannot contain or hold within. A feeling that defies gravity, all logic, and reasoning. Love is that gut feel that you get when you are at the cross roads of uncertainty and practicality. Meaning that you know that practical is what everybody expects you to do, but you dig deep within your heart, and let your heart lead you to uncertain ground. Even though, it may cost your life, heart, and you're very soul. You put everything on the line, because "It is all or nothing" or not love at all. Love is the pinnacle, the high, the peek, and the very absolute purest form of emotion, that gives chills to your spine and talks to your very soul. Love, Philosophers try to define it, but cannot give a defining, definition. So, you say, who am I to try to tackle such a tremendous task. Well, I am just a simple person who is sharing what love has shown me. Love has blessed me and painted me endless portraits of marvelous treasured memories of life events. That I myself cannot comprehend the magnitude of purity that it offers. Love has shown me that everyone is beautiful with in. It is just sometimes, life throws situations in our path that covers the beauty from within us or blinds us momentarily. Sometimes it is hard to see the beauty and potential that we have in our hearts to love. Because it is easier or more convenient to act blind. But to me, to find love, real earth shattering love, "One needs to lose his or her self to find love". Love, each and every generation tries to question, tries to analyze, and even try to find an answer that consist of its root or essence. But, no matter how hard they try to look for it or search for it. No one person will ever find the answer for love, because love will only happen if two or more people share it and have it in common. Well you say, "How do I know what love is". Well I say to you, that I do not know the answer, to that question. The one thing that I do know and am certain of is that what I feel justifies that love is marvelous, indescribable, and uplifting. Love, has shown me that you need to feel and stir different emotions all at once, that love contradicts the meaning of words. For example, Love is not jealous, but in some situations or events, it is jealous. Love contradicts, in the sense that if you pin point it word for word or meaning for meaning, you will lose all sanity, because you cannot comprehend or define love, love is a feeling. So, if love comes your way, open your heart and let it in? Be ready to cherish each second and each moment that is gives you, because the time that it allows you to have, is very precious. So, "What is love?" love is you and you alone can define it.
Ray Cua
11/20/02

Music:


Hip Hop, R&B, Old School Slow Jam Like Surface, Babyface, atlantic starr & international, salsa, merenge, cumbia, cha cha cha, barachata, punta, samba, regaton

Movies:


Sweet November, Gone In 60 seconds, Biker Boys, Kate & leopold, International Movies

Television:


Hdtv, bet, mtv, food network, monster garage, filipino network "a thousand winds may whisper of your beauty, but none tells the tale such as a single breath from your lips"

Books:


Super Street, Home & garden, 1, 001 seductive foods
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Heroes:


My Heroes are my Grand Parents, Parents, Brother, Sisters, Aunt's & Uncle's, Some Friends, My be Jose Rizal & Lapu Lapu who are brave filipino's who die for their country.

My Blog

LOVE 4 THee HoliDay

Yah Love what a funny word. People long for it, people hunger for it, but it is just one of those hard and almost impossible things to attain. You can look far and wide, look on the depth of the sea, ...
Posted by Ray on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST