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The Queen Of Everything

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About Me

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"The Queen of Quite A Lot Shall Love Forever the Mayor of Simpleton, This One Thing I Know As Well!"
Get a Clock for your page! Being the proud mum of an ambitious golden locked nearly four year old princess-of-quite-a-lot,and the more than undeserving wife of a humble and ever loving Godly husband, I can truly say that I am blessed beyond measure, but have my days full of adventure. I have been battling a systemic illness for that past three years now and endured over a year of Chemotherapy with no remission thus far. It is very hard for me to not want to operate at full strength, just like the "entire" Vanessa should be able too, but with time, God will restore my vessel. Not only to the state it once was was, but better, thinner, stronger, and more capable of serving! There is no thievery here, that is what I have come to realize, the enemy has not taken anything from me; for I will not give him that satisfaction. And John and I will not be "restored" or reach a point of "where we were". We will be taken high above that status, and rewarded for our faithfulness in those midnight hours, for praying for those that have come against us, for reaching through the darkest of hours and holding strong to the One and only Prince of Peace. I truly feel that every person in my family has been affected by our trying of faith, from the moments of question when heart trouble could have been life or death...or just minor affects of my condition, to touch and go diagnosis' that could from one minute to the next change our lives. I thank God for a family that has supported and loved us through it all, no matter the cost. A Mom (even if she is not by blood) that loves me so much that she looked me in the eye and said "Honey, none of us will ever understand the pain that you have and are going through". That may seem like nothing to you, it may seem like comforting words on a whim, but knowing that my family cares and thinks that deeply is enough. Enough energy to make it through the next excruciating moment.My husband is my life, and caretaker of it... of course, God is the Giver of it all. He has been an absolute knight in shining armour...my prophecy come true! Katie, my daughter, is a vision of beauty and handful of drama. You truly cannot be in a state of depression or downheartedness around this child. She just doesn't seem to allow it. So my solutions for keeping my somewhat normal mind, yet not so normal body going is...well I've just let God have my mind and the Holy Spirit has filled it with unbelievable peace and joy that honestly seems like I've let the cheese slip off my cracker at times to some folks. But God does what He has to, to sometimes cleanse and purify us, heal and transform, and that journey is not always understood by those closest to us. On the light hearted side of things, I have plunged into my art which primarily was graphic design, but I decided that with using that as my medium, I have really become an avid scrapbooker. AND, NO! I AM NOT A CRAFTER! I hate that. I love creating artistic, archival worthy pages for legacy that will live, that allows me to use one of my other favorite arts, creative writing. Journaling the moments of our life, painting those memories with lavish language and witty banter (something my Hubbie enjoys contributing too, that and his unbelievable gift of photographic excellence, & thank you Leica) I am also going to start making a line of cards that I have been planning on for a long time. I am not sure if I am going to sell them via the internet or place them at some small boutique type shops around town. I have some ideas for marketing, I just want to pray about it and see where God leads. I teach Scrapbooking, Papercrafting as well as, "Praisebooking" crops when my body allows such. I love music, movies, trivia and truly love learning; just the mere absorption factor. We have been truly blessed by God's hand leading us to our new "Church Home". I have only been a member of 2 other church families that I can call home and still go back Home today, but I am so amazed by my church. It has been so long since we have been in the presence of such anointing and freedom for the presence of the Holy Ghost. Praise God for His Everlasting Love and Never Failing Grace, for without it...I would be nowhere!"The Proud Queen of Drama and the Mum of The Drama Princess"

My Interests

LUPUS & SYSTEMIC DISEASE AWARENESS BREAST CANCER AWARENESS CUSHING AND ADDISON'S DISEASE AWARENESS
Myspace Princess Diva Comments & GraphicsMy family (I just love old fashioned parlor visitin'), Graphic Design, Scrapbooking and PaperCrafting, Event Coordinating(parties and weddings, etc.), Assisting my Husband with his Photography(kid wrangling and such), MusicWant to check out some of my Scrapbooking, Papercrafting & Cardmaking; Click here:Love Scrapbooking or maybe would love some ideas & great friends who share! Shop for great deals, display Your pages or even win prizes for your favorite pastime, Scrapbooking! Click on the link below:

I'd like to meet:

Vincent D'onofrio He is a brilliant actor and I would love to meet him and talk shop, but I also kinda think I would like his weird and unusual behavior...and as my husband knows full well; I admire him in many ways. Holy Heavens this is a FINE Specimen of Male Creation!!!!! (and yes, I now have an entire album dedicated to this brilliant actor! But why not, he is absolutely worth the mention and the attention!!!!)Kirk Olmsted (my husband's best friend since high school, I have not yet had the privilege and I think that I will be greatly honored when the time finally comes to meet him)Ms. Lilly Pulizter, herself. I have read her 2 entertaining bibles and believe me, Martha is something of a Betty Crocker after delving into this leisurely Palm Beach Pleasantly Partied world of Lilly. Everyone is a friend once you meet her and her tables and parties are pretty much open to all. But that is just the worryfree Prepolitocally correct socialite in her (please reference the Preppie Handbook, out of print, but available in some antique book shops and e-bay). I haven't scratched the surface of her design of clothing. So much to say...maybe one day I will have the privilege of being small enough to wear one of her shifts and meeting her at a trunk show...now that is a goal I can hold on to and meet!Harry Connick Jr. (I would love to say Bon Jovi or something corny like that because yes, I have loved Mr. Bongiovi since I was 10 and my ears first heard their music; sadly I became fans on their second album just because of age and perception. Yet, meeting them would be just a fantasy, I would love to meet Harry because he is an icon, like meeting Andrea Boccelli. I can't say that I "loved" his sitcom days, but I LOVE his music. That man can absolutely play the piano and croon like none other. I would live to just spend a half an hour and a piano with him. Just listening to a few of the songs that seem to be the theme song to my life. "If I Could Write a Book")Rich Mullins (this one should be 2nd on my list because I could really think of no other mortal outside of my family that I would love to just sit and talk with for a few hours on end than this man. Sadly, he was weeping as a man longing for his home, always. Rich was consistently homesick for heaven, but did so much for the Kingdom of God in the short time he was here that were he still here I think it would almost be worthless. Oh what a testimony he had. He was such a picture of living the mirror, mirror image of our Christ. Barefoot, a guitar and just praisin' an Awesome God. John and still ache over that fatefully day when our Rich was stolen from earth and placed on high, but we will still meet him someday, just after some other introductions we've been waiting a lifetime for.)My Saviour, Jesus Christ (The personification of Him, so often we pray and get so muttled in the trinity that we forget about the their seperate entities. Our Abba Father, who loves like a daddy, both in our good and bad...but then there is our Saviour. The Son, the one who bore every stupidity, every wrongdoing, every pain, every illness, every THING I have and will have ever done, along with the entire world's on the cross that day; and I stand in AWE! He was so simple. Just a simple man, no frills, no fancy suits or nice car, or shiny watch. He didn't even really have a home, he wander from town to town and lived with his believers, the followers Christ, yet he look what he did for me and you, my family, my loves, my friends. Oh to have that spirit, that humbleness and peace of Christ.

Music:

Oh my, I am very broad in this area. Christian- Fred Hammond, Clint Brown, Casting Crowns, Todd Agnew, Mercy Me, and more Classical- Mozart(especially Requiem), Handel, Bach, Beethoven Classic Rock (broad term)- Rolling Stones (I know...shoot me), some Bob Dylan (but he really is a whiner), some Elvis, Any Rock-a-Billy (i.e.Buddy Holly, Roy Orbison, Stray Cats (well, they are 80;s I know but they fit)! Alternative- (and that is what my gen called it) Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, Nirvana, Offspring, Temple of the Dog, Green Day, Live, Beck,Can't Catergorize IMO- U2 (one of the BEST BANDS EVER! I would probably like to meet them actually!), B-52's,

Movies:

Ahhhh.....Real Hollywood!
MyFunComments.comGreat Expectations, Steel Magnolias, When Harry Met Sally, Amadeus, Dead Poet Society, Cold Mountain, Mona Lisa Smile, Evening, Father of the Bride 1 & 2, Zoolander (I am vile spew of the wretched masses), Full Metal Jacket, Starsky & Hutch, Wedding Crashers, Love & Sex, THE GOONIES (HEY YOU GUYS!!!!), Pump Up The Volume, The Star Wars collection (shhhh...don't tell anyone I am a Star Wars geek.), Who Framed Roger Rabbit? (The last few being all time fave's since junior high) I could go on for quite a while because it seems every movie is my favorite in some way, so I shall digress...
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Create your own Air Freshener"Find one on every page! You'll see." - (reference to Repo Man, a weird movie that somehow has made it into my stream of conscienceness by way of my ex-punk of a hubby)

Television:

Law and Order: Criminal Intent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ER(since the first episode), House;MD (AWESOME SHOW!!), and I become ABSOLUTELY addicted to Grey's Anatomy? What in the world? I love it!...other than that I pretty much just want to watch movies.....everything else seems lame these days, although the entire Law and Order Franchise is great! But Seriously....I have to say, Why am I addicted to Grey's Anatomy? It is Paradox, wrapped in a riddle, buried in an enigma! I LOVE THAT SHOW!So, I have been completely drawn to Chuck...I guess it is the whole American Bond thing! And I have fallen in love with the later evening ABC Sunday nights- Desperate Housewives and Brothers and Sisters.I also have found that I love Cold Case and Without A Trace in syndication, but do not kill myself to it in prime time.

Books:


Motherless Daughters (probably the best self help book I could have ever read), Canterberry Tales (I love that book), All of Hawthorne!!! Huge Closet Stephen King Fan!!!! Marley and Me...Highly Recommended! I am mainly a magazine reader....Creating Keepsakes and Papercrafts of course! But I will force myself through books every blue moon. Being a Gen-Xer I would rather analytically tear apart a movie with my hubbie than critque a good read.I have been enjoying a lot of Rebecca Wells and other southern women authors and am currently planning on reading the Susan Minot novel, Evening as I LOVED the movie. From there I am sure I will investigate any more of her pieces, if she has written more, plus I will continue to dive through more southern authors. I also have challenged myself to read all of Hemingway and then my next venture will be all of Hawthowrne!!!!

Heroes:

My Mother....a beloved and fine example of Christianity; if I live to be only 1/5 of her testimony I will feel some success in my walk.My Father....for never giving up when everything else and everyone else seemed to have. A man with the biggest heart I have truly ever seen!My Spirtual Parents...For having the courage to deal with me and the strength and courage to build the vision that God gave them.My Husband....words will never be able to express why my husband is truly the knight in shining armor in my life. He reached down into a miry pit and loved me in moments when I was unloveable and broken, in moments when only we could love one another. He listened and obeyed God! My Hero, My Husband!PLEASE EDUCATE YOURSELF AND VOTE 2008!!!!!!!

My Blog

Being a "Queen of Everything"

So, I have been asked by a few and commented as to why "The Queen of Everything"? Well, the origination of the title comes from Mary Engelbreit, a highly admired and talented artist of today and someo...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Fri, 12 Oct 2007 04:33:00 PST

My Thanksgiving for 2006

"Do you not know? Have you not Heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and His understanding no one can fathom."   ...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Thu, 23 Nov 2006 07:57:00 PST

My Spiritual Parents

While watching Joyce Myers the other day she brought up an interesting thought to mind. Now, a lot of us were raised with godparents, but I really wasn't. I am assuming that neither was she. She was t...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Sun, 19 Nov 2006 06:39:00 PST

NonSeussicalness of a Blubbering Mum

"Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans." -John Lennon Really?! Not me. I have always lived by this sing-song creed that used to pester the devil out of my friends in high sc...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Mon, 13 Nov 2006 09:15:00 PST

Tares and Wheat

I have had to read my own blog of  "Carpe Diem" at least 3 times this week. I feel like a rock is in my belly and I can't seem to spew it from my lips nor remove it elsewise...ONLY GOD! I get fre...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Thu, 02 Nov 2006 07:58:00 PST

What a difference a few hours makes!

How do you contain yourself when a simple few hours of your life can change so many things? Things that you had desired since your spiritual knowledge had been stretched and changed, an outpourin...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Mon, 30 Oct 2006 06:08:00 PST

The Whole Southern Prep Thing- How a Belle & a Preppie Collide

I was raised in the South (Proud Fourth generation Floridian native with 2 years in Waycross, Ga.) My mother raised me with a certain sense of Southern etiquette & to that end, LaDonna, my newly a...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Sat, 21 Oct 2006 04:10:00 PST

Carpe Diem

No matter who you ask, or how you want to look at it...the bottom line is "Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about it's own things" Matthew 6:34; Carpe Diem! Seize the day, as...
Posted by The Queen Of Everything on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 11:37:00 PST