For some reason i find average guys hotter than many other guys considered "hot." I've also learned the past few years that I am really attracted to asians, so that may help explain my preferences. Patience is also a must. I am not the easiest person to get along with, and my sharing of emotion (or lack thereof) can easily be frustrating. Although I really want a loving, stable relationship, I have to be convinced that I really truly love the guy before I commit. Oh, and contrary to what people think of me from my pics, i'm a masculine white guy who likes to bottom. ;)Oh, and friends are totally welcome too! =)