Caution: you may want to put on your hip-boots now. I am only on this site because a good friend recommended it. Yeah, you know who you are. Someday, I'd like to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with. I've been through one divorce and don't ever want another one. Eventually, I would like to find "true love", in every sense of the word. I think the first key to true love is being friends before hand so that you already have those open lines of communication; because if you're not friends going into any relationship, it will probably be doomed for failure. I believe that two people should not have that first kiss until they are in love and should not make love until they are married. That is just my romantic/spiritual philosophy. I also believe that there should be a fair share of give and take on both ends. This means sacrifice, by both giving up things you like and doing things you don't in order to please the other person. You should strive to make the other person happy, yet while continuing to be your own person. I want someone who will treat me with the utmost respect, and love me with all the love he possibly has to give-you know like the kind the bible describes: "men love your wives as Christ loved the church". There you go! I want someone with whom we will fall in love more deeply with each passing moment, day, month, and year, not someone in which we will grow farther apart as time marches on. I want someone who will serve the Lord with me and lift me up when I fall and he should expect the same from me. But until that time comes I'm going to focus on having my love relationship with Jesus Christ that I so desperately want and need and make Him the love of my life! That's about sums it up!!!