Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results!

About Me

Hey everyone, how ya doin? Well I guess this is the spot where I'm supposed to write about me:

I'm currently living in M.T. in my own lil place. I'm trying to save enough money to move out of Montana and pursue college and a career. My interests lie in Sociology/Human Behavior as well as Liberal Arts/Writing. But who knows what I'll end up doing. lol.

I like going out with my close friends or sisters and have a good time dancing/drinking/whatnot. I luv meeting new people, people who can introduce me to new things or ideas. People tend to fascinate me, or maybe just their behavior. And I like people who smile! It can change someone's whole day!

The Single life has it's definite perks and disadvantages. lol. But if I meet an interesting INTELLIGENT man that intrigues me I'd be happy to be in a relationship. But it takes alot to reel me in for keeps! ;)

When it comes to friendships or relationships, I'm probably loyal to a fault. I hold mi familia and friends in the highest regards and love cause without them life is empty. I support people even when they are wrong cause everyone makes mistakes. And as long as you take care of me, I'm gonna always take care of you!

Recently, I've been trying to focus on just being positive and optimistic and live life, so fam and friends if ya catch me slippin, knock me upside the head! lol.

What I really enjoy is traveling. Unfortunately this hobby requires alot of $$ if you want to do it frequently so I do it as I get it, (Shout out to Cindy ;) Thanks girl!). But I just want to see everything and what this world has to offer even if it's ugly, lol! I'm working on seeing New York and Cali, and some real ocean waves. Later when I get the opportunity I want to go out of the country. My mother and I have our hearts set on Ireland. But other goals are Africa, a tropical island, and a European tour. Middle East culture also fascinates me but going there scares me a lil! lol.

P.S. IF YOU ARE GOING TO SEND A FRIEND REQUEST please write a lil something along with it or chances are I just delete those. Thanks! Welcome to MY space! ;)
Your Love Style is Agape
First and foremost, you are a caring, kind, and selfless partner.
You tend to put your partner first alot of the time if they're worth it.
Since you are independent yourself, you tend to admire the successful and advanced.
Unsurprisingly, your love style is the most rare.
You are willing to sacrfice alot for your partner.
Except it doesn't really feel like sacrificing to you.
For you, nothing feels better than giving to the one you love.
Unfortunately, you tend to love who you love, rather than the ones who love you.

My Interests

I LOVE MUSIC. And I most definitely like going out to a club and havin a good dance. I listen to alot of R&B and Hip Hop but I am open to about everything. ~ R.I.P. Tupac.
I love music because there have been times when I wasn't able to express myself and music did it for me.Various Artists I like: TUPAC, RAKIM, COMMON, The Dream, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Lupe Fiasco, Keyshia Cole, S.W.V., Jodeci, Sade, R.Kelly, T.Pain, Do or Die, Rihanna, Alicia Keys, John Legend, Anthony Hamilton, Ginuwine, H-Town, 112, Jagged Edge, The Platters, E-40, John Coltrane, Miles Davis, U2, Coldplay, Gyptian, Keith Sweat, Teedra Moses, Wyclef Jean, Chris Brown....to name a few.img src="http://lc.fdots.com/cc/lc/39/397c8a53c4fd3cf24bbf0789ca a358c3.gif" border="0"

I'd like to meet:

WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET:
ALIVE: Wentworth Miller, Common, Talib Kweli & Mos Def, Scarlett Johansen, Rakim, U2, Anthony Hamilton.
DECEASED: Tupac and My Grandmother on my biological father's side.

How You Are In Love
You take a while to fall in love with someone. Trust takes time.

You give and take equally in relationships, with a tendency to give more.

You tend to get attached when you're with someone who infatuates you. You like to see your love alot.

You're secretly hoping your partner will change for you.

You stay in love for a long time, even if you aren't loved back.

When you fall, you fall hard.
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YOUR IDEAL RELATIONSHIP IS SERIOUS DATING:
You're not ready to go walking down the aisle just yet.
But you're definitely ready to get serious with the right person.
You prefer to date one on one, with respect and with commitment.
And while chemistry is important, so is compatibility.

Music:

RIGHT NOW MY CURRENT INTEREST IS MAINLY HOW TO GET AHEAD IN LIFE AND GET AFTER THAT CAREER. SO I AM INTERESTED IN PEOPLE WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL OR WHO CAN SIMPLY OFFER ADVICE. OTHER INTERESTS INCLUDE TRAVELING! AND SEEING OTHER CULTURES, POLITICAL ISSUES, MUSIC AND DANCE IN THEIR MANY FORMS, AND OF COURSE A GOOD LOOKING INTELLIGENT MAN WOULDN'T HURT. LOL.

Movies:

I tend to like alot of the older actors as well as a couple recent ones. Denzel Washington, Christian Bale, Juaquin Pheonix, Sean Penn, Richard Harris, Anthony Hopkins!, Will Smith, Brad Pitt, Ed Harris, Nicholas Cage, Christian Slater, Johnny Depp, Angelina Jolie, Scarlett Johannsen, Don Cheadle, etc. and recently Columbus Short.

Stomp the Yard
Blood Diamond
The Constant Gardener
Man on Fire
Hotel Rwanda

The Last Samurai
Girl With a Pearl Earring
Life as a House
Grey's Anatomy
Chappelle's Show

Da Ali G Show - Da Compleet Seereez
Sense and Sensibility
Face/Off
Steel Magnolias
Save the Last Dance

Paid in Full
Maria Full of Grace
Raising Victor Vargas
Memoirs of a Geisha
The Shawshank Redemption

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Television:

Prison Break, Grey's Anatomy, VHI Soul, The Colbert Report, BET, Hell Date, LA Ink, Real World Hollywood (Will is my new cutie celeb crush. lol )

Books:

The Rose That Grew From Concrete
Random Family: Love, Drugs, Trouble, and Coming of Age in the Bronx
Do or Die: Stories from Crips and Bloods
Angels & Demons
In the Name of Honor: A Memoir of Mukhtar Mai
The Lost Boy: A Foster Child's Search for the Love of a Family
Princess: A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia
Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls
A Long Way Gone: Memoirs of a Boy Soldier
Bono: In Conversation with Michka Assayas
Girl with a Pearl Earring
E.A.R.L.: The Autobiography of DMX
NO MATTER HOW LOUD I SHOUT : A Year in the Life of Juvenile Court
Lucky: A Memoir
The Lovely Bones
A Child Called "It": One Child's Courage to Survive
The Screwtape Letters
Street Dreams
The Complete Collected Poems of Maya Angelou
The Pact: A Love Story
My Sister's Keeper: A Novel
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Heroes:

My wonderful Mother (any beauty or success I achieve in life I owe to her), My strong sister Star, Tupac (We Love and Miss You Always and Forever), Dave Chappelle, Katt Williams, Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert (Cause they speak the truth) and just people who are honestly trying to better this world, we need more people like that.
What can I say? lol. I'm a sucker for them dreads! ;)

My Blog

Diary Entry:

Sunday, April 28th, 2008 Midnight Diary Entry: Where has my heart gone? It seems these days, it has disappeared once again. Go figure. The one thing you should be able to depend on, and it has e...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 12:54:00 PST

Untitled

Saw you unexpectedly in the club the other day...Surprisingly, I found myself wanting to say "hey"It's a hard thing to explain, seeing you againCan't help but remember how things were back then.But Fo...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 05:42:00 PST

That Crazy SeeSaw

Wow, never thought I'd be in this position, and it's hard to give it a proper definition. All the songs I've heard and stories from friends, didn't think it would become one of my trends. What ...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 06:28:00 PST

Thought Provoking Questionnare about Myself

..> Random, But Thought Provoking Questions If you could rid the earth of one thing what would it be?: Hunger or maybe Miscommunication. Wars have been started from miscommunications. ...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 01:51:00 PST

During a Drink (Sample writing)

So I don't really know what this piece of writing is. It started out as a silly practice for a more story line type of writing if anything else. I've never tried to write a story or novel so I thought...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Wed, 23 Jan 2008 05:08:00 PST

Playground

This blog was also written a while ago. I had never really finished it but I tried to tonight. I haven't been in the situation described for a little while now (thankfully) but just wrote...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Wed, 05 Dec 2007 03:35:00 PST

Sincerely, Felicity

This was actually written about 10 months ago when I was in a pretty dark place in my life. Depression and confusion had taken control of my being and beaten me down. This poem/blog...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 06:13:00 PST

Like My Mother

I often hear the phrase "Like Mother Like Daughter" or " I am my Mother's Daughter". Usually these phrases are accompanied by looks of dread or in an amusable fashion. lol. My own mother has teased m...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 04:52:00 PST

When Tears No Longer Sufficed Her

The Windows to her broken soul were shut tight. Closed for business, and no longer open to the public. No longer wanted the probing museum-like stares. The looks of those who will never under...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Sat, 01 Dec 2007 11:24:00 PST

The kind of men I like. lol.

So, in no way is this blog the ONLY thing I go for in men. I just have been thinking recently about what exactly it IS that I find attractive in men, what appeals to me. I've been asked this question ...
Posted by Elisa: It's Hard To Argue With Results! on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 03:50:00 PST