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Oliver

The more you live the more you love

About Me

Does anyone besides me really read these, lol? Most people just look at the photo. Oh well, human nature I suppose. If you have made it this far, then I owe you the best representation of me I can possibly give you. So here goes... HELLO!!! My name is, Oliver & I'm from Paranaque City, Philippines.If you have read my stats you know i am 39 years old... At 39 I have come to know so much more about life, and myself. Oscar Wilde said "Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.". Suffice to say I have plenty of "experience", lol, and have gleaned much wisdom from it. For that I am thankful, as there are those who are content to just keep banging their heads up against the same walls their entire lives... I am not one who will ever "let myself go". Partly because of my own insecurities and desire to maintain my dignity. But also because its our outward appearance that draws people in. However, what is most important to me is not that I draw you in, but what I do with you once I've got your attention. If I don't have inner beauty to delight and lift your heart, what am I really worth? So as the looks fade, I have found myself working much harder on who I am inside, rather than just trying to make myself "good looking" on the outside... Some of the things that might make me attractive? I am honest, and sincere. You will always know where I am coming from and why. And if you don't, then you need to ask 'cause that means you weren't looking or listening on the first go round, lol. But I also believe that honesty needs to be kind and tactful. If I have to tell you something that will be unpleasant for you to hear, it should flow like honey, not vinegar (unless I am really pissed off,lol). And I will expect the same from you, be you friend or lover. I have no use for those whose mouths spew poison, or unkindness. Its never neccessary... Some other things to know about me... I have a deep, intimate relationship with God, but I am not a Holy Roller or Bible Thumper. I have four amazing kids who are the greatest gift God ever gave me. I brought them into this world, and they deserve the best of me. But they also don't deserve... for me to burden them with all my emotional needs, so I try and balance my life out with a very select group of friends... I am passionate about music,and fashion. I am not overly "cultured" but always wanted to be...Also, I like stayin up late with friends havin coffee... The things you may not like about me...I am sometimes impatient... I am also sometimes late (but I am working on that, as I find it disrespectful to those waiting on me). I don't get excited about things easily. But when I do, I commit to that thing (or person) with extreme passion ( but no stalking, not to worry, lol) NOW ABOUT YOU...

My Interests

Music, Driving, Outdoors, Pets, Movies, Concerts, Bars, Cafe, Beach, Collecting Friends...

I'd like to meet:

Who I Want to Meet: Getting to know more people is where my heart is now. I am living out my dreams and "traveling" vicariously through those of you here on the internet... One fabulous thing I have found about "cyber space" is that you can meet people that would never have crossed your path otherwise. People who will excite you and inspire you. It isn't in the lives they've led, really. Its what's in their souls, and mine. I don't see anything wrong with finding romance here either. I think the internet provides fabulous opportunities, if you are careful. But as for me, all I am seeking is friendship. See, the bad thing about the internet (besides the crazies and the perverts, and if you are either, please move on!!!) is that someone can promise you the world, and then disappear without even goodbye. Then there are those who go to the ends of the earth to win your heart. And once they've conquered it, they throw it out like the evening trash. As Oscar said "In the world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it." The anonymity of cyberspace is a great temptation to be dishonest,cruel, or even just indecisive because you can bail at anytime, without ever having to face the one you will be injuring. While that can be a good thing if you find out the person you are dealing with is a crazy or a pervert, its not so good if you fall in love, and/or throw caution to the wind and end up getting your heart ripped out right through your throat (gruesome visual, lol, but accurate description). I have had my heart broken so severely that for now, I cannot entertain the thought of getting romantically involved again. What and who I lost cannot be replaced in my life, and it would be unfair to ask anyone to even try. I'm picking up the pieces but its going to be a long process (with great joy comes great sorrow, and indeed my joy was so very great). So please don't come to me looking for romance. When I am ready to move on, I will know. For now, my heart is tired and worn down ... But the good news is that I am still alive, devastated but not destroyed. And I am a fabulous person to have as a friend. I am deep, and kind, and looking for those that are the same. I have not had the most "fascinating" life, though I should have. I am way too unconventional and interesting to live the quiet life that I presently am. That's where you come in. Intrigue me, inspire me in some way or another, and I will do the same. Remember, its your soul (and mine)that captivates. Not that you have lived a life like "Raiders of the Lost Ark", lol. God has given each of us fantastic gifts to share with those around us. If you are willing to share yours, I would be thrilled to return the favor...

Music:

Alternative, Trance, Hard-House, Chill, R&B, Metal Rap, Drum & Bass... anything new.

Movies:

Troy, Kill Bill, Xxx, Predator, Allien, Matrix, Star wars, Terminator, X-men, Face-off, Swordfish,... action/fiction movies

Television:

Mtv, Myx, Ripley's, Fear Factor, CSI, Jerry Springer, Dharma & Greg, Discovery, Cartoon Network, AFV, 24hours, National Geographic, HBO, Star Movies, Eclipse, Couch...

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