My Baby Teishon!
What your bout to read is some real talk!!!! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes YOU truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he's stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends seperate from his. Maintain boundries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He'll use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or a better job. Do not make him into a god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are! Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the only one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street . You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted!!! Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep in your radar but get to know others.
I love my hubbys music MAK DEMON! Yall betta go pick up his albums at "The Kandy Shop" the local Urban Clothing and Music Shop! 25 E. Kensington Ave Ste D (1500 So) But R&B is my all time favorite!!!!
I love comedy! Especially the romantic comedy like Love and Basketball, Brown Sugar, and so on...
Reality Shows, Talk Shows, The First 48! I aint gotta lie like most of yall sayin I dont got time for TV.... Shit I love me some TV!!! LoL!!!
My Twinz Dayziah and Damon
My Mom! She is so strong in so many ways! I admire her for what a great job she has done to raise us 4 kids by herself! I love you Mom!