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Tery

If you are not willing to work for it then you shouldn't wish for it!!

About Me

THERE IS NOT REALLY A WHOLE LOT TO SAY ABOUT MYSELF BUT I WILL GIVE IT A GO. I WAS A TEENAGE MOTHER AND MY FIRST HUSBAND WAS 8 YRS OLDER THAN I. WE HAD THREE CHILDREN TOGETHER BEFORE THE INEVITABLE HAPPENED AND WE DIVORCED. IN THE DIVORCE IT WORKED OUT THAT HE TOOK CUSTODY OF OUR YOUNGER 2 CHILDREN AND I GOT CUSTODY OF THE OLDEST. MY CHILDREN ARE MANDY 21, JACKY 18 AND RYAN 17. DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES OF THE TIMES IT HAPPENED MANDY AND I WERE SEPERATED FOR THE YOUNGER ONES FOR 10 YEARS AND WE WERE ALL JUST REUNITED IN JUNE OF THIS YEAR AND IT HAS BEEN THE MOST WONDERFUL THING THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME EVER (OTHER THAN WHEN THEY WERE BORN)....I BELIEVE THAT IN THE GRAND SCHEME OF THINGS WE DON'T REALLY HAVE A CLUE AS TO WHAT LIFE IS REALLY ABOUT UNTIL WE HIT AT LEAST 30 YEARS OF AGE. (I COULD BE WRONG ONLY MY OPINION)....I AM JUST NOW BECOMING A CONTIOUS HUMAN...PRIOR TO ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO I WAS STILL A PRETTY SELF ABSORBED PERSON AND AWARE OF WHAT WAS REALLY GOING ON IN THE WORLD...THE 2004 ELECTIONS CHANGE ALL OF THAT FOR ME..I FOUND OUT HOW EASILY THE AMERICAN PEOPLE CAN BE DUPED!!! I HAD AN INKLING OF THIS PRIOR TO THAT TIME HOWEVER THAT IS WHEN I REALLY GOT IT!! I WANT TO BE A PERSON WHO IS AWARE EVEN IF I CAN'T MAKE THE CHANGES AT LEAST I CAN STAND UP FOR WHAT IS RIGHT....STEPPING DOWN FROM THE SOAP BOX, I HAVE BEEN IN MY CURRENT RELATIONSHIP FOR 16 YEARS...HE HAS BEEN THERE FOR ME THROUGH GOOD AND BAD...AND TRUST ME THERE WAS MORE BAD THAN GOOD FOR A LONG TIME...HE IS MY BEST FRIEND AND I HAVE HIM TO THANK FOR THE PERSON I AM TODAY LOGICLY SPEAKING...WHEN I WAS YOUNG I WAS NOT TAUGHT LOGIC AND COMMON SENCE AND HE WAS TAUGHT IN ABUNDANCE AND SHARED WITH ME AND I OWE HIM MY LIFE A COUPLE OF TIMES OVER...I AM A HUGE REGGAE FAN...I GO TO AS MANY REGGAE SHOWS AS POSSIBLE....LISTENING TO THE MUSIC AND FEELING THE GOOD VIBES ALL AROUND CAN BE A RELIGOUS EXPERIENCE FOR ME...UNFORTUNATELY DUE TO MY GEOGRAPHICAL LOCATION I DON'T GET TO SEE AS MANY SHOWS AS I WOULD LIKE HOWEVER I BELIEVE NEXT YEAR THAT WILL CHANGE...WE ARE WORKING ON A PLAN TO MOVE AWAY FROM HERE (DON'T GET ME STARTED ON BEND, OREGON)TO A PLACE THAT IS MORE SUITED TO OUR STYLE AND CLOSER THE THE THINGS THAT WE ENJOY IN LIFE...WE REALIZE THAT WE ARE NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER AND THAT WE ARE GETTING A LATE START BUT WE DO WANT THE HOUSE W/ THE PICKETT FENCE AND MAYBE A 4 WHEELER OR TWO TO ENJOY AT THE BEACH...WELL THAT IS THAT FOR NOW...IF YOU ARE READING THIS TO MAYBE GET TO KNOW ME I HOPE THAT YOU LIKE WHAT YOU READ...

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

I WANT TO MEET POSITIVE PEOPLE, PEOPLE WHO WILL HELP ME GROW AS A CONSIOUOS PERSON,PEOPLE WHAT TO HAVE FUN,PEOPLE WHO ENJOY REGGAE MUSIC AND ALL THE PEOPLE WHO BELIEVE N ONE LOVE!!!.. width="425" height="350" .... width="425" height="350" ..

Music:

I primarily listen to Reggae, Damion "Jr Gong" Marley, Stephan Marley, Bob Marley,Bounty Killer,Buju Banton, Groundation, S.O.J.A.,Barrington Levy, Jr. Reid, Sizzla, Sublime, Slightly Stoopid, Long Beach Dub Allstars, Long Beach ShortBus. I also enjoy good old Rock N Roll Like:Toadies, Living Color, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Judas Priest, Mega Death, Guano Apes,Green Day, Faith No More, CKY, Living End, and the list goes on and on

Movies:

I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE!!!Lord of the Rings (all 3), The Big Labowski,Forrest Gump, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Priates of the Caribean,

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Television:

That 70's Show, Arrested Developement,Hogan's Heros, Coupling (British Version), The Office (British Version),Curb Your Enthusiasim,

Books:

The Gunslinger Series by Stephan King (7 books), Most historical fiction, Some romance, Mystery,Catch a Fire (Bob Marley), Cybil Sheperd's autobiography. I read all the time so to name all the books would be impossible.

Heroes:

My hero's are my children who are going to go a lot further in life than I did and that makes me very proud.