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!! des

too many people are thinking of security instead of opportunity. they seem to be more afraid of life

About Me


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im dessa
danessa


People are my greatest interest. I really value people who stick to their morals. No matter what I stand by, I'll never change you, it's my only guarantee.
Religion is scary and the most fascinating theory.
Hunters, people that classify themselves as “homophobic” and refuse to better themselves, while choosing to loathe in self pity personally offend me.
Second chances are necessary. Learning from your mistakes is better then not making any at all. Assuming things is the worlds greatest fault. I'm so down with the honesty deal. I'm way to damn cool to care about anything but the truth.
I'm very compassionate about life, sometimes I feel I'm going to burst! I truly believe that everything works out one way or another and that things happen for a reason.
If I left my house today with the shirt on my back and could travel until the encounter with my grave, I'd have no regrets. I don't like being limited to my surroundings. Time is precious & I don't want it to pass me by. I want to be right there along with it.
I love to help, listen and understand. If I can make you smile or be that shoulder, I'm happy.
I'm very affectionate. I have a foul mouth, all in good humor. I'm occasionally stubborn & I know my flaws - I'm a first class kultz. I Google everything! I'm not into the small town or ghetto thing. "Boy! Pull your pants up!" I believe in effort and commitment. Determination is a good place to start.
I'm a true Californian valley girl.. who can parallel park like it's nobody's business :þ
im someone you can do the things you do in front of the mirror when you're alone


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OH ITS DES


My Interests



my WIFEY

friends
real conversation
vegetarianism
that music thing
ELECTRO
dancing
vodka cocktails
humiliating moments
memories
psychology
the mind
truth
intellectuals
creation
the questioning of religion
body language
pillow fights
trampolines
penguins
courtesy
unexpected situations
affection
kidnapping
suspense
adventures
spontaneity
reading
anything green
surprises

TWISTER is the BEST party game ever
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I'd like to meet:


+ not people that hit on me via myspace +

+ i block ALL band requests +

people who do whatever makes them happy. who dont watch others live their lives. who aren't afraid of confrontation.

intelligent people. brainiacs. people with a passion for something.. anything

people who will make me nervous. get me. make me think. make me things.

anyone that laughs. dances. who will get enraged with me

drew barrymore. brandon boyd. bruce willis. baz luhrmann. nicole kidman. adam sandler. ewan mcgregor. sigur ros

people who can stimulate me

i gave you hope that became a disappointment... this is an alright start

Music:



The Academy Is
The Album Leaf
Ambulance Ltd
Alcoholiday
Automatic Panic
The Beatles
Björk
Bloc Party
Coldplay
Clear Static
Client
The Cranberries
The Cure
Cut Copy
Damien Rice
Death Cab For Cutie
Depeche Mode
The Donavans
Duran Duran
Elefant
Eve 6
The Faint
The Format
The Four Seasons
Fischerspooner
Frank Sinatra
Franz Ferdinand
Ghostland Observatory
Ginuwine
The Go Find
The Gorillas
Incubus
John Vanderslice
Junior Boys
Justice
The Knife
Kunek
Lady Bouncer
Letters To Cleo
Lo-Fi-Fnk
Manson
Menomena
The Mercy Kiss
Metric
MJ
Midaircondo
Modest Mouse
Murder By Death
Naked Eyes
Nat King Cole
Nirvana
Oasis
Outkast
Placebo
Prince
The Postal Service
Royksopp
Shiny Toy Guns
Sigur Ros
Soft Cell
Solvent
Something Corporate
Sublime
Switchfoot
Tears For Fears
Third Eye Blind
311
Tokyo Police Club U2

yes, i know, i have a few gulity pleasures

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Movies:


A Beautiful Mind
Annie
Anywhere But Here
A Walk To Remember
Beetlejuice
Bed Knobs and Broomsticks
Big Daddy
Billy Madison
Cant Buy Me Love
Casper
Catch Me If U Can
Chitty Chitty Bang Bang
Closer
Cry Baby
Dirty Dancing
Edward Scissorhands
8 MM
Equilibrium
Ever After
Ferris Bueller's Day Off
50 First Dates
Finding Nemo
Footloose
Garden State
Girl, Interrupted
Great Balls Of Fire
Great Expectations
Hannibal
Hello Dolly
Its A Beautiful Life
Labyrnith
Lost In Translation
Monster
Moulin Rouge
My Girl
Never Been Kissed
Never Ending Story
No Small Affair
Oceans 11
Practical Magic
RHPS
Remember The Titans
Romeo and Juliet
The Blue Lagoon
The Craft
The Da Vinci Code
The Emperors New Groove
The Goonies
The House on Haunted Hill

The Lion The Witch and The Wardrobe
The Lost Boys
The Newsies
The Return to Oz

The Sixth Sense
The Wedding Singer
The Whole Nine Yards
- and Ten
Saw
Seven
Shakespeare In Love
Sweet November
Weird Science
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Television:



yeaaa... im kind of a fanatic.. a little bit :p

Cold Case
Without A Trace
House
Closer

Books:



The Da Vinci Code
Message In A Bottle
The Case For Christ

i love recommendations !! _____________

Heroes:



New York is extraordinary

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BOO BOO ♥
† RIP †

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My Blog

neighbors !!

WOO WOO !!! Just a hello to my soon to be new neighbors !!So *HI* there Mac, Ryan, Kyle Shry, Jon Powell, STACEY, Jen !! My new lil Milwaukee friend who just transferred to SDSU - Yvonne !!I know ther...
Posted by !! des on Thu, 23 Aug 2007 11:33:00 PST

3,000 thoughts in one second

there's a banana rotting on my desk at workand i can't throw it away... kids in Morocco & Ethiopia would fist fight for it
Posted by !! des on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 05:26:00 PST

request

i think i need a serious "on call" snuggle buddy - no sex intended... just jammys, blankets and closeness
Posted by !! des on Mon, 16 Jul 2007 11:07:00 PST

broke

i already broke one of my new years resolutions. stupid me. but i already got over it   YAY ME ...
Posted by !! des on Mon, 19 Mar 2007 08:57:00 PST

travels

i've decided to make a list of places i want to travel.. so for 1.. i dont forget and 2... beats me   (no specific order of course) + Brazil - the beaches and everyone has gorgeous skin hmm + It...
Posted by !! des on Tue, 20 Feb 2007 10:11:00 PST

TWO new years resolutions

1] thou shall not form any attachments to anyone or anything 2] thou shall not have expectations - however, still keeping expectations of what is and isnt acceptable, such as of a person, and wha...
Posted by !! des on Tue, 06 Feb 2007 10:18:00 PST

now im just waiting for gray hair

another year older.. more responsibilites..   and   GRAY HAIR !! damnit......
Posted by !! des on Wed, 24 Jan 2007 10:19:00 PST

right now.. this very single moment

is really confusing and hard and indecisive.
Posted by !! des on Mon, 06 Nov 2006 10:41:00 PST

things to be excited about

a few things im really happy/excited about:   1. my new job kicks some serious ass.. but i dont want to ginx myself so i wont say i love it too much   2. HALLOWEEN !! and the fact that i get...
Posted by !! des on Thu, 26 Oct 2006 06:08:00 PST

sometimes i say things

ALWAYS play it loud... say it loud     "to love is to stop comparing"   everyone is judgemental so shove it.. and the things people [you] criticize will never affect them [you]. funny h...
Posted by !! des on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 08:58:00 PST