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Here I am world ready or not

What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us. (Emer

About Me

Hey world here I am. 43 years young looking for new friends in life. I am a hopless romantic who loves to dance, cook, bake, hike, write, and most of all take care of myself. I am in to working out and exercising on a daily basis. I have been to hell and back many times in my life and I am still here which means I am stronger than you think. I am a lover of music of all kinds. If you are looking for just a name to add to your list keep looking, but if your looking for an old fashion kind of friend one that is there for you in times of joy and need than here I am..................look out world ready or not here I come"The majority of us lead quiet, unheralded lives as we pass through this world. There will most likely be no tickertape parades for us, no monuments created in our honor. But that does not lessen our possible impact, for there are scores of people waiting for someone just like us to come along; people who will appreciate our compassion, our encouragement, who will need our unique talents. Someone who will live a happier life merely because we took the time to share what we had to give. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. It’s overwhelming to consider the continuous opportunities there are to make our love felt." One of the major reasons why people are not doing well is because they keep trying to get through the day. A more worthy challenge is to try to get from the day. We must become sensitive enough to observe and ponder what is happening around us. Be alert. Be awake. Let life and all of its subtle messages touch us. Often, the most extraordinary opportunities are hidden among the seemingly insignificant events of life. If we do not pay attention to these events, we can easily miss the opportunities." Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza. He said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have. Treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one. Stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy...Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

My Interests

photography in the past few years has become a way for me to show case how I see the world and how I feel. ......
Pimp-My-Profile.com - Build a Slideshow I started writing at the age of 35 and it helped me through my fathers death in the form of journaling. I wrote for the Rapid City Journal as a columnist for 3 years and published a book of poetery in 1998, hiking the black hills has been my way to escape the relams of the real world. cooking is not only my passion but my job as well. I am a kitchen supervisor atone of Rapid City's best Resturants The Colonial House. The summer of 2006 will always be called the summer of my golden tan. I have learned to relax in a way I never knew how before. Catching the rays of sun on a hot summer day on the beach or by the pool is life at its best........

I'd like to meet:

I would love to meet my grandfather who died at the age of 35 of prostrate cancer. He taught my father, who in return taught me the true meaning of tradtions..............

Music:

I love all types of music. It is a huge part of my life, I listen to it daily. I love Country,rock,blues,folk. Music has sustained me during the difficult periods of my life. I guess it always will.Harry Chapin the greatest songwriter of our time

Movies:

The Green Mile,Rocky


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The goonies,Rent


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Television:

This is better than any T.V. Watching nature outside!!!!!!!!!!!!

Books:

The Five People You Meet In Heaven is the greatest book I have ever read. I highly recommend it to any one......A book that will make you think like you never thought before....

Heroes:

MY FATHER

My Blog

The blacksmith

 ..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /> In the spring of 1974. I was 1 I years old and living in. farming community of 1,300 people.. Tile towns was full of nei...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Tue, 13 Feb 2007 05:54:00 PST

I knew what it was?

 ..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />   I knew what it was. 1 saw it every day as a child growing up. Being invisible made it hard to see at times, but i...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Tue, 13 Feb 2007 05:52:00 PST

Warmth of holidays on the farm still Lingers

It happened so long ago that the memories of that place and time are now littered cobwebs. Those memories were part of my past that I cherished as a kid. They lay dormant in my mind for more than 20 ...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Mon, 27 Nov 2006 06:07:00 PST

Lessons learned in making up for lost time

      Through the years of grow­ing old, I have done my best to forget it ever   happened. I kept thinking it wasn't real, but it was, and it always will be. In 1980...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Sat, 11 Nov 2006 08:50:00 PST

Small towns preserve what America once stood, for

He was a total stranger, and his inquiry threw me off guard. He asked, "Just who and what is the Common Man's Poet"? He saw those words embroidered on the back of my coat. I wavered for a moment to th...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Sat, 11 Nov 2006 08:46:00 PST

why do we hate

Sunday morning at church, I watched a scene unfold a few pews ahead of me. A women with a baby, maybe 4 or 5 months old, sat down next to a woman with a young child, maybe the age of 5 or 6 years old....
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Sat, 11 Nov 2006 08:42:00 PST

stepping outside my comfort zone

I call it living on the edge. It happens when you push yourself to the boundaries of your comfort zone. You take a deep breath and with shaky knees, you leap outside your boundaries. As a human being,...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Mon, 30 Oct 2006 06:39:00 PST

lessons learneed on the streets of L.A

During the course of ones life we are asked time and time again where are you from? From the time we are small children in school filling out forms, to graduating seniors filling out job applications....
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Sun, 15 Oct 2006 12:22:00 PST

SOMETHING THAT SOMEHOW MAKES SENSE

Here I am life, it is me. I can't be missed. I am human. I am frail. I am strong. I am scared. Everything I have done in my life has led me to this moment. Tell me when you look at me, what do you see...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Fri, 13 Oct 2006 08:44:00 PST

who I am and how I came to be

The will to try helps us prevail For years, he sat alone during recess. Feeling rejected by his fellow classmates because he was so different. Being a slow learner, one who needed the teacher's help, ...
Posted by Here I am world ready or not on Tue, 03 Oct 2006 06:07:00 PST