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♥Heather o:-)

REAL girls AREN'T' perfect... & PERFECT girls AREN'T' real!

About Me


What HEATHER Means
H is for Heavenly
E is for Extraordinary
A is for Adaptable
T is for Timeless
H is for Honorable
E is for Exquisite
R is for Rare
What Does Your Name Mean?


..Hey there! I’m pretty much the girl next door. I’m a caring, confidant, strong, loyal, passionate, stubborn, down to earth woman. I can be a bit goofy but serious at the appropriate time… All things in moderation. I'm happy w/ who I am, what I have, and other than a couple changes I plan to start working on soon I'm happy w/ where I am in life. I'm very independent and like my independence but wouldn't mind having someone special to spend time w/ …
The most important people in my life are God, my family, n’ friends. I enjoy meeting new people. I love havin fun, laughing, and being around likeminded people. I have the most amazing friends! I defiantly surround myself w/ other positive people who are real and of course like to have a good time!
I’m open minded about many things, including people and ideas that are different from mine. But that doesn’t mean I will always agree with you about them. I'm somewhat of a free spirit... Whatever happens happens. But I'm not lazy baany means!!! I work very hard for the things I want!!! Once I have my mind made up there's usually no changing it.
I’m a people person and I love to love. HONESTY IS *EXTREMLY* IMPORTANT TO ME!!! I’m honest and expect the same respect from others!!
I try to make the best of things and see the best in ppl. I’m not a perfect person I don’t always do or say the right thing. I can sometimes be paranoid and not always sensible, but I always try to be the best person I can. I have a heart of gold n' always have the best of intentions! I always seem to route for the “underdog”. Although people have often disappointed me I’m still not one to disappoint others. I ALWAYS keep my word! If I say I'm gunna do something I do it... period. That’s a part of having good character. I have old- fashioned southern Christian morals & values that I hold very close to my heart, I treat others as I’d like to be treated. It also makes me feel great to help, inspire, motivate, and make people feel good!!! :-)
I feel you can touch many lives just by leading by example, having a positive attitude, listening, understanding, and just being there for people now AND in the future.
I enjoy a good challenge! I’m very competitive! I have the attitude that there’s nothing in life I can’t conquer. Many things are what they are, so just deal with it. Make the best of the situation and keep moving forward! Never stand still and NEVER SETTLE! If you want something go get it. If it’s out of your control, control what you can and just keep smiling. Your smile may brighten someone’s day.
ALWAYS KEEP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE~ IT MAKES LIFE SO MUCH MORE ENJOYIBLE!!! .
I believe that things are meant to happen, but at the same time God gave us enough sense to make the right choices.
WE 'RE ONLY GIVEN ONE LIFE TO LIVE, SO USE IT PROPERLY!
Trust and honesty are VERY IMPORTANT to me!!! believe you get what you give in life X10… It’s called KARMA! If you lie to me then you’re not trustworthy, if you’re not trustworthy you’re not worthy of my friendship!!!!!!!!
I don't have any children, my little dog Maggie was my baby... (RIP) I have 6 nephews... All of which are under 4... They are the most adorable kids I've ever known!!! ;-)Fitness is also very important to me. I try to stay in the best shape I can with exercise and eating right. My body is a temple and it makes me feel good to take care of it. Life is a gift from God that I treasure... I try to be the best possible vessel I can for him!! !
I'M NOT A PERFECT PERSON BY ANY MEANS & I DON'T PASS JUDGEMENT ON ANYONE BUT MYSELF.
There is NO PLACE for drama in my life!!!
If you want to get to know me better, check out my blogs and drop me a line. .. I look forward to talkin to you!
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The Notebook
Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:
You have high extroversion.
You are outgoing and engaging, with both strangers and friends.
You truly enjoy being with people and bring energy into any situation.
Enthusiastic and fun, you're the first to say "let's go!"
Conscientiousness:
You have medium conscientiousness.
You're generally good at balancing work and play.
When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done.
But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it.
Agreeableness:
You have medium agreeableness.
You're generally a friendly and trusting person.
But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism.
You get along well with others, as long as they play fair.
Neuroticism:
You have low neuroticism.
You are very emotionally stable and mentally together.
Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly.
Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure.
Openness to experience:
Your openness to new experiences is medium.
You are generally broad minded when it come to new things.
But if something crosses a moral line, there's no way you'll approve of it.
You are suspicious of anything too wacky, though you do still consider creativity a virtue. The Five Factor Personality Test
Your Personality Is
The Protector
In love, you strive to have the perfect relationship.
For you, sex is nearly a spiritual experience, a bonding of souls.
Overall, you have high expectations for any relationship you're in.
However, you tend to hold back a part of yourself.
Best matches: ENTP and ENFP What's Your Love Type?
Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:
Your propensity for monogamy is high.
You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person.
And in return, you expect the same from who you love.
Any sign of straying, and you'll end things.
Experience Level:
Your experience level is medium.
You probably have had a couple significant loves.
And you may have even had your heart broken.
But you haven't really dated a wide variety of people.
Dominance:
Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!
Cynicism:
Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.
Independence:
Your independence is medium.
In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time."
You usually find it easy to be part of a couple.
But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered. The Five Variable Love Test
what type of redneck are you
created with QuizFarm.com
You scored as cowboy/cowgirl
you are a cowboy/cowgirl. you listen to george strait and chris ledoux and likley love the rodeo.


cowboy/cowgirl


90%

Southern Reble


75%

farm boy/ farm girl


60%

White trash


0%
You Are a Coy Flirt
You may not seem like you're flirting, but you know exactly what you're doing.
You draw people in, very calculatingly, without them even knowing.
Subtle and understated, you know how to best leverage your sex appeal.
A sexy enigma, you easily become an object of obsession. What Kind of Flirt Are You?
You're Not a Maneater
You like men, and you respect whoever you happen to be with.
Whether it's a fling or a boyfriend, you try to be honest and upstanding.
Of course, you've probably broken a few hearts in your time.
The difference with you is that you didn't mean to! Are You a Maneater?
The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to obedience and warmth.
In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.
You'd like to your lover to think you are flexible and ready for anything!
You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic.
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?
Your Love Style is Eros
For you, love is all about the passion!
And chances are, you're currently in love.
You have a strong physical response to love...
And you are great at committing
(As long as the person makes your toes curl!) What's Your Love Style?
You Are Most Like Charlotte!
You are the ultimate romantic idealist
You've been hurt before, but that hasn't caused you to give up on love.
If anything, your resolve to fall in love is stronger than ever.
And it's this feminine optimism that men find most appealing about you.
Romantic prediction: That guy you are seeing (or crushing on)?
Could be very serious - if you play your cards right! Which Sex and the City Vixen Are You?
Your Personality Is
Idealist (NF)
You are a passionate, caring, and unique person.
You are good at expressing yourself and sharing your ideals.
You are the most compassionate of all types and connect with others easily.
Your heart tends to rule you. You can't make decisions without considering feelings.
You seek out other empathetic people to befriend.
Truth, authenticity, and morals matter in your friendships.
In love, you give everything you have to relationships. You fall in love easily.
At work, you crave personal expression and meaning in your career.
With others, you communicate well. You can spend all night talking with someone.
As far as your looks go, you're attractive; you take care of yourself and value your appearance. You've likely taken the time to develop your own personal style.
On weekends, you like to be with others. Charity work is also a favorite pastime of yours. The Three Question Personality Test
you Happy Being Single?
You have a full, fun life. And you definitely don't need love to be content.
Of course, being single can get you down a little. Especially when you've been single for a while.
But you know how to be patient and wait for the right person. You're life is too good to settle for anything! Are You Happy Being Single?
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I’m a down to earth, loyal, giving and caring woman. I was raised with good old-fashioned southern morals and values. I love God! My faith is the central guiding factor in my life! I’m stubborn and strong willed!I give everything I do MY ALL!I Be it work or play... If ur not going to give %100 ur just wasting time. I have a big wonderful family and there aren’t words to describe how important they are to me. They bring out the best in me. As for my interests…I love cuddling with someone special, sitting under a star lit country sky, holding hands with a friend, shooting stars, watching the sun rise and set, the rain, things that smell good, fresh brewed coffee, the smell of fresh cut grass, fresh flowers, colorful things, concerts, Disney and Pixar movies, babies, the rush you get when you ride a roller coaster… some sports, anything cobalt blue (it’s my fav color), and chocolate is my weakness ; -) … pretty much just all things girly.
I LOVE to laugh and have fun. I enjoy quiet nights at home having a beer or glass of wine with someone special, or with people I care about... getting all dressed up for a night out on the town, or goin out to a good ol country dance hall to cut loose with friends have a few drinks and dancing! I also LOVE ALL kinds of music… Art (I collect abstract art), and working out!

I also enjoy cooking, traveling, learning, meeting new, interesting, fun, good hearted and/or God fearing people, interior decorating, and anything new age, contemporary, SPIRITUAL, or supernatural.

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ That a man should have to seek Him first to find her.' When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not shouting 'I'm clean livin'' I'm whispering 'I was lost, Now I'm found and forgiven.' When I say... 'I am a Christian' I don't speak of this with pride. I'm confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide. When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not trying to be strong. I'm professing that I'm weak and need His strength to carry on. When I say.. 'I am a Christian' I'm not bragging of success. I'm admitting I have failed and need God to clean my mess. When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not claiming to be perfect, My flaws are far too visible but, God believes I am worth it. When I say... 'I am a Christian' I still feel the sting of pain.. I have my share of heartaches, so I call upon His name. When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not holier than thou, I'm just a simple sinner Who received God's good grace, somehow! Praise the name of Jesus Christ! By Maya Angelou

SHE WILL CHASE YOU AROUND FOR A WHILE'; BUT THERE'S GOING TO BE A DAY WHEN SHE'S GUNNA STOP RUNNING CIRCLES AROUND YOU~ HHE'S GOING TO GET OVER YOU~~ and AT THAT MOMENT YOU'RE GOING TO WISH YOU HAD LET HER CATCH YOU~~

"THERE IS AN INNER BEAUTY ABOUT A WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN HERSELF , WHO KNOWS SHE IS CAPABLE OF ANYTHING THAT SHE PUTS HER MIND TO. THERE IS A BEAUTY IN THE STRENGTH AND DETERMINATION OF A WOMAN WHO FALLOWS HER OWN PATH, WHO ISN'T THROWN OFF BY OBSTACLES ALLONG THE WAY. THERE IS A BEAUTY ABOUT A WOMAN WHO's CONFIDENCE COMES FROM EXPERIENCES; WHO KNOWS SHE CAN FALL, PICK HERSELF UP, AND MOVE ON"..

Virgo
You are shy at first, and because of that, it is hard for you to find lots of random sex partners. You are very intelligent and very into sex.

You will only have sex with clean people, because you are afraid of getting an STD. You are also very kinky and imaginative in the sack. Your partners always have a hard time keeping up with you.

Sex matches: Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio
'What is your Sexual Zodiac?' at QuizUniverse.com

Your Life Path Number is 11
Your purpose in life is to inspire others

Your amazing energy draws people to you, and you give them great insight in return.
You hold a great amount of power over others, without even trying.
You have the makings of an inventor, artist, religious leader, or prophet.

In love, you are sensitive and passionate. You connect with your partner on a very deep level.

You have great abilities, but you are often way too critical of yourself.
You don't fit in - and instead of celebrating your differences, you dwell on them.
You have high expectations of yourself. But sometimes you set them too high and don't achieve anything. What Is Your Life Path Number?

You Are a Visionary Soul
You are a curious person, always in a state of awareness.
Connected to all things spiritual, you are very connected to your soul.
You are wise and bright: able to reason and be reasonable.
Occasionally, you get quite depressed and have dark feelings.

You have great vision and can be very insightful.
In fact, you are often profound in a way that surprises yourself.
Visionary souls like you can be the best type of friend.
You are intuitive, understanding, sympathetic, and a good healer.

Souls you are most compatible with: Old Soul and Peacemaker Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?
our Love Element Is Wood
In love, you tend to gently dominate and guide your partner.
For you, love is all about sharing goals and future plans.

You attract others with creativity and vision.
Your flirting style is defined by your honesty and assertiveness.

Growth and improvement are the cornerstones of your love life.
You may focus on goals too much in relationships, but you never come out of them with a loss.

You connect best with: Water

Avoid: Metal

You and another Wood element: will be doomed to a stormy relationship What Element Is Your Love?

Your Kissing Technique Is: Perfect
Your kissing technique is amazing - and you know it.
You have the confidence to make the first move.
And you always seem to know what kissing style is going to work best.
Sometimes you're passionate, sometimes you're a tease. And you're always amazing! Are You a Good Kisser?

Are Super Spicy
You're a little bit crazy, a little bit naughty, and a whole lot of sexy.
You go beyond hot - you set people's senses on fire! Are You Hot?
What kind of a LOVER are YOU?

You are a PASSIONATE LOVER!
When it comes to sex and relationships you put 100% into both. You like to have fun and try new things but you pay alot of attention to the PASSION that lives in side of each kiss, touch or meaningful word. You contain the whole package and any man would be would be very lucky to have a women like you!
How do you compare?
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our Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover
You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!
Not because you posess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.
You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.

You inspire each person to be an idealist and passionate, and you make each moment memorable
Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life
By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.

Your abilities to make dreams come true is so strong, that you are often the love of many people's lives.
Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover. What Kind of Seducer Are You?
Your Seduction Style: Ideal Lover
You seduce people by tapping into their dreams and desires.
And because of this sensitivity, you can be the ideal lover for anyone you seek.
You are a shapeshifter - bringing romance, adventure, spirituality to relationships.
It all depends on who your with, and what their vision of a perfect relationship is. What Is Your Seduction Style?

I'd like to meet:

I’d like to meet genuinely good hearted people that I share some common interests with… , fun people that have a sense of humor, love God, and are just good people….

I’d also like to meet my soul mate, But I seriously doubt that’ll happen on myspace! Sooooo with that said… I’d like to meet a man who will accept and respect me for who I am and who I can become. A man with good morals and values, that’s HONEST, TRUSTWORTHY, dependable, FUN, exciting, loving, attractive, and taller tan me. Strong but has a sensitive side that can make me laugh even if I don’t want to. : -) A man that will take the good with the bad (Isn’t that what life’s about?)… A man that’s intelligent that can carry a conversation, someone who’s caring and did I say fun?... And MOST IMPORTANTLY… Someone that I have chemistry with!

Guy's are like stars... There are a MILLION of them But ONLY ONE CAN MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE!

Your dating personality profile:

Religious - Faith matters to you. It is the foundation that you build your life upon. You trust that God has a plan for you.
Romantic - You know exactly how to melt your date's heart. Romance comes naturally to you and is an important component of any relationship you have.
Adventurous - Just sitting around the house is not something that appeals to you. You love to be out trying new things and really experiencing life. Your date match profile:

Religious - You seek someone who is grounded in faith and who possesses religious values. You believe that a religious person can enhance your life.
Romantic - You need someone with a traditional understanding of romance. A true romantic is a must-have in any potential date.
Traditional - You need someone who is a bit old-fashioned. A person with traditional values and beliefs will perfectly compliment your lifestyle.
Your Top Ten Traits

1. Religious
2. Romantic
3. Adventurous
4. Traditional
5. Big-Hearted
6. Wealthy/Ambitious
7. Sensual
8. Conservative
9. Funny
10. Athletic
Your Top Ten Match Traits

1. Religious
2. Romantic
3. Traditional
4. Athletic
5. Conservative
6. Outgoing
7. Big-Hearted
8. Adventurous
9. Sensual
10. Funny

Take the Online Dating Profile Quiz at Dating Diversions

Music:

I LOVE MUSIC... Country's probably favorite, but... I like ALL KINDS!I have a love affair with words made into beautiful lyrics! I like…Alternative, Country, Christian, Classic rock, 80’s, etc… I have a lot a grate songs on here! Enjoy!...

Movies:

I LIKE ALL KINDS OF MOVIES... Comedy, romance, suspence, thrillers and action

Television:

I LIKE ALL KINDS OF TV SHOWS... like House, Hobkins, Moon light, Ghost Whisperer, and CSI

Books:

When I get the chance to read I like anything supernatural, spiritual, romance, suspense, fitness, thriller’s, How to’s, cook books, etc….. OR...

Heroes:

God, and Jesus Christ first & foremost, then my family, as a kid my dad was my hero ( RIP), the people who have been there for me through the hard times, and I can’t leave out the people who have fought or are fighting for our freedom and safely... May God be with them and see that they return home safely! ~Amen~

My Blog

UPDATE...

Hey everybody!I just wanted to update all of you as to how I've been doing since my surgery back in February.   As most of you know I went to cardiac rehab a couple weeks after homing home f...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Fri, 08 Aug 2008 06:21:00 PST

LET IT GO!

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, ...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Thu, 07 Aug 2008 06:35:00 PST

YOU TOOK MY PLACE!!!

You Took My Parking Space at Church This should wake us up! One day, a man went to visit a church, He got there early, parked his car and got out. Another car pulled up near the driver got out and sa...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Mon, 28 Jan 2008 03:08:00 PST

WOMAN OF GOD!

When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke them into being. When I created man, I formed him and breathed life into his nostrils. But you, woman, I fashioned after I breathed the breath of life...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:44:00 PST

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT...

Hi everyone! I hope you are doing good and have been behaving yourselves....lol. I on the other hand, have not! No, really I've just been very busy with life and the things that are in it! There is...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Mon, 02 Jun 2008 06:15:00 PST

LIFE AS I KNOW IT...

Nothing in life is at all what I expected it to be. I'm not at all where I thought I'd be at this point of my life when I imagined my future as a kid& Just when you think that you have things c...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Mon, 02 Jun 2008 05:32:00 PST

SOMEONE THINKS IM SPECIAL... :-)

As most of you know I recently had open  heart surgery for the third time on Feb 14 2008. It was very scary because there were unexpected complications during my second one. Refer to my about me...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Thu, 29 May 2008 09:45:00 PST

WHEN I SAY IM A CHRISTIAN

When I say... "I am a Christian" I'm not shouting "I'm clean livin.'" I'm whispering "I was lost, now I'm found and forgiven." When I say... "I am a Christian" I don't speak of this with pride. I'm c...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Wed, 30 Jan 2008 02:53:00 PST

RE: 1 of the best explanations of why God allows pain & sufferin

This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain and suffering that I have seen...A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.As the barber began to work, the...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Mon, 28 Jan 2008 02:38:00 PST

~The Way Home~

The Way Home Here are the key elements by which we become reconciled to the Father. Each is vitally important. Any, if absent, could keep our new relationship from being complete.Our condition: First,...
Posted by ♥Heather o:-) on Sun, 23 Dec 2007 12:57:00 PST