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About Me

okay what to say about me...um i grew up in new jersey (jersey girls rock), went to monsignor Donovan HS and graduated in 1995...after a 5 year plan at trenton state college, and another 3 years there for a master's degree...i worked in trenton, nj for about 5 years...and as most nj residents know, trenton takes a bit of getting used to, but i enjoyed my time there very much :)so about 2 years ago, i was in california visiting someone and low and behold, i met my knight in shining armor (a bit dramatic, i know)...after extending my trip a week, and enjoyig his company, the two of us were hooked and so in love...after about 6 months of a long distance relationship with me in jersey and him in southern cali, we decided to make it official...i packed up my car, my son and myself and drove the 3000+ miles to sunny southern california looking for my happily ever after :) and to date, i have never looked back. Ryan is wonderful, he and my son Koda River are all i could have hoped for in a family and i enjoy every single second of my life...blessed and beautiful. ....

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

people that don't suck. people that are humble and open to new experiences. people that just get it. people that i don't have to try very hard to hang out with. people that have some kind of consciousness. people that have compassion and empathy for those around them. people that are not judgemental, racist, bigoted, entitled, bratty, rude, self-absorbed, selfish, never satisfied, always have their hand out for more and annoying. can you tell i have quite a few of those in my life? quite a few in very close proximity.

My Blog

things i want you to know about me that you may have missed.

1. over the years, i have had a total of 10 piercings and 3 tattoos...currently i have 6 piercings and i am NOT including where they are on this...some random things you dont need to know. 2. i am so ...
Posted by on Mon, 18 May 2009 12:28:00 GMT

lets talk about sex

okay so i guess i want to talk about sex and stress and how they seem to be mutually exclusive. i dont get it...i am a healthy, albeit slightly off, 30 something (yes, i just said 30something) that sh...
Posted by on Wed, 18 Feb 2009 16:19:00 GMT

we finally have lift off!

okay, so i finally finally have a date and a place for the wedding! its going to be at El Capitan Canyon 15 miles north of Santa Barbara, ca...its so beautiful, and its gonna be on Haloween 2009.as so...
Posted by on Wed, 14 Jan 2009 12:09:00 GMT

lonely

why is it that in some of the happiest times of the year, one can feel isolated in a way that makes your insides ache? why has it been so hard to find some kindred out here? three years since i came h...
Posted by on Mon, 22 Dec 2008 16:44:00 GMT

christmas and the wedding that won't get off the ground

so, here it is, chistmas is just around the corner. one week from yesterday. i am officially on vacation in 3 hours...my shopping is almost done, although i never feel like i have enough for ryan. eve...
Posted by on Fri, 19 Dec 2008 13:23:00 GMT

planning a wedding

okay so now i know why all those women look like bride-zilla's in those wedding shows on tv. this is really really hard and i have no idea where to start. after ryan proposed...we both said that we w...
Posted by on Thu, 13 Nov 2008 10:24:00 GMT

compassion and empathy

okay so where to start on this one... in my vast meandering experience of life (sarcasm, here) i have learned a few things, picked up a few things and have really started looking at the way i show up ...
Posted by on Mon, 06 Oct 2008 11:16:00 GMT

we’re engaged!

okay so we got engaged!!! and the ring is so pretty and he did such a good job! i love him so much :) okay, so i am done gushing...and for the 3 readers that actually take the time to look at my blog...
Posted by on Thu, 11 Sep 2008 10:10:00 GMT

shut the f--- up!!!

okay where to start..i guess i just need to vent about all those people out there that think ryan shouldn't be with me...that i have changed him, am selfish, self-centered or in any other way am not g...
Posted by on Fri, 29 Aug 2008 00:56:00 GMT

saipan

okay, so here we go to Saipan...its the first big huge trip i have ever really taken. And i said that last year when I went to Hawaii...and two years ago when i went to Puerto Rico and then Alaska. Bu...
Posted by on Wed, 20 Aug 2008 09:15:00 GMT