i have learned more about people over the last 2 years then i care to know. just when you hold females to a higher standard, you meet one that shocks you. just when you think men may have higher standards, you glance around and take a good hard look. people are so different, with so many different qualities- good/bad, ugly/beautiful. i try to remain open and accepting of people, forgive their repeated faults and continue to hold them to the highest standard. i don't ever want to accept people at their worst, doing their worst deeds. wouldn't it be better to be hated for who you are to people, then what you have done to people??