Debra

Hi, I'm Debra
My heart's desire is to find the special man I will spend the rest of my life with, but I realize I may not find him here. I want to meet some nice guys, enjoy their company and if something long-term developes from that, that's a bonus!
I am also told that I do not look 46. My mother always said that it would come in handy one day.LOL
I'd like to find a man who doesn't just talk the talk, but actually walks the walk. Lots of talkers out there. Talk is cheap.
Loyalty, honesty, sincerity, patience, understanding, compassion, humor, devotion are all important virtues I look for in people who become part of my life. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I love a man who is passionate and romantic and not afraid to show his feelings. I believe it is possible to keep a relationship fresh daily, but it takes work. It's not for slackards. I am a very enlightened individual in and out of the bedroom. I'm a very physical person. A very sensual, sexual being. If that's a turn off for you, pretend u never saw my profile and make like a rabbit down a hole LOL
I like outdoor activities. Cooking out. Camping. Swimming. Sports. Boating. Water skiing. Fishing. I'm a night-owl, but I get up early to work to get off early enough to have time to enjoy with my young son and have a personal life. I no longer live to work. I work to live. Took me long enough to figure out the difference! Love beaches. I like to play pool. Love concerts, sporting events, car races, taking in local bands, etc. Would love to have a man teach me to dance as part of a couple. I love to dance. Love motorcycles. Rode when was younger. Dirt bikes. Trying to talk myself into buying a Harley. But I could be just as happy riding behind my man on his bike. I do know how to just 'chill' and spend quiet time with a special someone.
Water calms the firey red headed Irish woman in me down. To borrow a quote from Kenny Chesney 'The water is the place where my soul truly feels at peace and where I am the most 'me'
I believe that people are put in our lives for either a reason, a season or a lifetime. I'm looking for the man who's meant to be with me for a lifetime! I want someone who loves to cuddle. I understand and support my man having outside interests that do not include me. That cuts both ways though. I believe everyone needs their 'me' time. I am not threatened by that so long as there's a healthy balance between the two. People shouldn't be so insecure that they suffocate each other in a relationship
I've resolved that I will either have the right man in my life or no man at all. I will not SETTLE this time. I WANT A GOOD MAN. Not PERFECT. I'm certainly not perfect myself. I am not into game players. I am no one's door-mat or punching bag either. U want that, go to the local gym.
I believe people should say what they mean and mean what they say. I live by that code. I don't mince words. U want to know something? ASK me. I'll tell u the truth even if it's not necessarily what u wanted or expected to hear. I am an open book!
I work out to stay fit. I have a home gym. The man for me will be someone who tries to take care of himself to some extent. U don't have to be a body builder.
If u don't like something in your life, change it. One of my mottos is 'keep doing what you are doing, keep getting what you are getting.'
I do consume alcohol and fattening food, but I believe in doing those things in MODERATION. Love to cook when I have someone to cook for. I love many different types of food. I purchased a large gas grill for some serious backyard cookouts, but haven't fired it up just yet.
Months back I made a list of things I've always said I'd love to do and always made excuses for not doing. My BUCKET LIST if u will. Well, the list was to help me focus on accomplishing those things. Would be fun to have someone special in my life to cheer me on or join me. U might say my list is the 'catch-me-up on living' list. Off the sidelines and into the game! For most of my life, I was busy raising a family exclusively and tending to making sure everyone elses' dreams came true. Somewhere along that route, I lost site of my dreams. Not any more!
‘As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't suppose to ever let us down, probably will. We will have our heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. We will break hearts too, so we need to remember how it felt when ours was broken. We will fight with our best friend. We will blame a new love for things an old one did. We will cry because time is passing too fast and we will eventually lose someone we love. So, take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every 60 secs you spend upset is a minute of happiness you will never get back.'
I have had to learn the hard way to NEVER make someone a PRIORITY who considers me just an OPTION.
6 Things to Do because life is short: Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile.
'Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.'
'Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, IF U DON'T RISK ANYTHING, YOU RISK EVEN MORE." -Erica Jong
LIFE---BRING IT ON LOL
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