1) Friends
-Friends are great, you can never have enough friends, male and female. If you would like to be my friend I'll accept you, I can always delete you if you annoy me, though that takes a lot, lol. Most of my friends, whether here or in the "real" world are female, men tend to annoy me easily (actually, most people annoy me easily, but aside from that:P), though there are some men that are alright. I'm stange that way, women just seem easier to talk to and I get along with them better. I have friends of both types though, men and women, it just depends on the individual, your mind is very important. Though I may not always communicate constantly with every one of my friends (my fingers would wear into nubs, lol) all the time, I love to see their bulletins, blogs, etc. (one of the reasons that I may send a friend request to someone), and comment on them every once in a while. If you send me an email, though, I will most certainly write back to you.
2) Possible dates for my wife and I. ;)
-Women that would be willing to go out on dates with my wife and I would be great. As you know, dates can turn out to just be fun meetings or can turn into something more, it just depends on how things go, you never know. ;) We are more than happy to just go out with someone to do something without expecting things to end up in bed, just a good time out. If things do end up going farther, we would prefer to end up at your place, a hotel, etc., because we are bigtime cat people, we do some rescuing, and we don't like to subject people to being overrun with cats, lol. The first meeting should always be somewhere neutral, in a bar, Putt Putt golf, etc., we don't want people feeling unsafe, etc., even ourselves. Right now we're not looking for a "relationship", though we're looking for that special someone, we are patient and whatever will be will be. If our outings with someone are for just one night, that's ok, ya never know what may happen.