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About Me


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As with most people, I'm a conflicting mass of emotions, lol, though unlike most people I accept it. I calmly accept the good and bad, and somehow find a balance between both of them. I'm a goth and a hippy, some sort of mix of happy thoughts and dark thoughts.
I used to do Renaissance festivals, traveling all over the country (US) and spending 2 months at each festival in a tent, slowly getting to a bigger and bigger tent as I went, lol. I loved living in a tent much better than living in a house, living about as close to nature as you can get. I miss hearing the insects chirping at night and the sound of rain on my tent, waking to the fresh air with the sun warming the tent. Whether in the desert in Arizona, the mountains of Colorado, or the woods in Texas, Ohio, or Georgia, I was completely at home. I've climbed a mountain and sat on top of it, watching the eagles fly by, swam in an ice-cold stream in the mountains that pop up out of the desert, sat in the clay filled mud in a rainstorm and molded little heads out of the clay, and swam naked and sunbathed by the falls with other people while we tattooed each other with mendhi dyes (indian dyes made of leaves that you squeeze from a tube in neat designs).
I'm married with a son, though he doesn't live with me but lives with his mother in Texas. I stopped doing Renaissance festivals for a girl (yeah stupid me) and we decided, after a year together, to have a child. We moved to Ohio from Texas, and one time, when she went with my son to visit her mother in Texas, she cheated on me there and decided not to come back to Ohio, she's now married to the guy. She stole my heart when she left, not because she left, but because she took my son away from me. I was with him 24 hours a day and took care of him while she worked, she wasn't happy when I worked because she could make so much money than I could at the time, which was plenty but not what she was used to, she was an exotic dancer. My son means everything to me and I miss him more than anything in the world, but my wife and I haven't been able to afford to move close to him yet.
My wife is wonderful, she helped fill the empty space in my heart with her love, and now I feel I can live again. She and I are very open to dating other people, but only together. We will always do everything together. I'm strait and she's bi-sexual, so we are willing to see other women together. Whoever either of us finds, they must pass a check by the other of us and we must agree on that person. We are both very loving, so dating us would be like dating one person, and if we ever find another woman together that we both could fall in love with, we would like to have a "second" wife in the old Celtic tradition. She wouldn't "literally" be a second wife, since this country doesn't allow that due to the evil Christian influence, but would be so in every other form. Of course, that is probably quite a ways off, so we are interested in dating until we find that special someone. I have a bit of experience in the love-making department, I got in lots of "practice" for when I would finally meet that ultra-special someone (even had the wonderful opportunity to be with a few lesbians and learn what I could from them to become a better lover), so I'm excited to find out what my wife and I could do together to make someone feel a way they've never felt before.:)
I may not meet the "norm" as set by popular belief, but I've never been one to allow others to decide things for me. I think that everyone should do whatever makes them happy, life is too short to constrict yourself by worrying about what others think and letting yourself be made to do what other want and not do things for yourself. I'm pretty tolerant of any religion but Christianity, I was raised Christian and it has left old wounds that make me a bit bitter toward that religion. If you ever want to know my complete views on that religion, just ask, but be prepared for some really harsh critisism of it. I'll still be friends with Christians, as long as they don't preach at me and don't mind an occasional anti-Christian outburst (like I said, it's a sore point with me), I have friends of all types.
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

1) Friends

-Friends are great, you can never have enough friends, male and female. If you would like to be my friend I'll accept you, I can always delete you if you annoy me, though that takes a lot, lol. Most of my friends, whether here or in the "real" world are female, men tend to annoy me easily (actually, most people annoy me easily, but aside from that:P), though there are some men that are alright. I'm stange that way, women just seem easier to talk to and I get along with them better. I have friends of both types though, men and women, it just depends on the individual, your mind is very important. Though I may not always communicate constantly with every one of my friends (my fingers would wear into nubs, lol) all the time, I love to see their bulletins, blogs, etc. (one of the reasons that I may send a friend request to someone), and comment on them every once in a while. If you send me an email, though, I will most certainly write back to you.

2) Possible dates for my wife and I. ;)

-Women that would be willing to go out on dates with my wife and I would be great. As you know, dates can turn out to just be fun meetings or can turn into something more, it just depends on how things go, you never know. ;) We are more than happy to just go out with someone to do something without expecting things to end up in bed, just a good time out. If things do end up going farther, we would prefer to end up at your place, a hotel, etc., because we are bigtime cat people, we do some rescuing, and we don't like to subject people to being overrun with cats, lol. The first meeting should always be somewhere neutral, in a bar, Putt Putt golf, etc., we don't want people feeling unsafe, etc., even ourselves. Right now we're not looking for a "relationship", though we're looking for that special someone, we are patient and whatever will be will be. If our outings with someone are for just one night, that's ok, ya never know what may happen.

My Blog

Who would direct a movie about my life?

My score on The Director Who Films Your Life Test:Akira Kurosawa(Your film will be 40% romantic, 43% comedy,  30% complex plot, and a $ 42 million budget.)Action-packed, light romance maybe with ...
Posted by on Sun, 13 May 2007 11:42:00 GMT

I have some questions, do you know the answers?

I live in Ohio, which is now a "Smoke Free" state, because they basically have taken away your right to smoke anywhere but your house and in your car. You basically, in the simplified form, may not sm...
Posted by on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 19:29:00 GMT

US government faked Bush news reports

After reading this, do you still believe your government and media? Well...do ya? US government faked Bush news reports Chris Tryhorn Tuesday March 16, 2004 MediaGuardian.co.uk TV news reports in ...
Posted by on Tue, 06 Mar 2007 12:27:00 GMT

The New Declaration of Independence

I created this petition because I'm not happy with the way the government is run currently. I propose a change in government. If enough signatures are present, from all 50 states, we may just finally ...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Feb 2007 08:50:00 GMT

Should you join the military?

I saw one of my friends post a bulletin talking about her wanting to join the military and felt I should respond. Her post is first, my response second. I think this applies to more than one person, m...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Feb 2007 07:07:00 GMT

Outsourcing Sucks!

Outsourcing sucks! I know, I know, not very eloquent, but it gets the point across. Here are a few facts for ya...1) 3.3 million, that's the number of American jobs that are expected to be outsourced...
Posted by on Fri, 23 Feb 2007 15:48:00 GMT

The Hanging of George W. Bush

Ok, the small, intelligent part of the country knows that the reports of 9/11 made by our government are false.  So, what happens when the truth really comes out? What happens when the American p...
Posted by on Tue, 20 Feb 2007 22:45:00 GMT

Your Vote Matters!!!

Yeah...Your Vote...errr...matters?Take a look at these numbers from the 2000 election where George W. Bush first became el presidente...NAME/VOTES/%/EC*George W. Bush/50,460,110/47.9%/271   ...
Posted by on Tue, 20 Feb 2007 21:34:00 GMT

Bush is a Liar...

Bush is a liar, plain and simple, everyone knows it, yet NO ONE has the balls enough to do anything about it. The United States is stocked to the brim with complacent sheep, whiny little peons (and t...
Posted by on Thu, 08 Feb 2007 14:09:00 GMT

Marvel Comic Refusal Day

Marvel is coming out with a new MMORPG (Massive Multiplayer Online Role-playing Game) called "Marvel Universe Online". In it you can play a superhero, interacting with all of your favorite characters...
Posted by on Tue, 06 Feb 2007 22:37:00 GMT