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About Me

So here's the thing: I'm a very casual guy living in La Quinta, though I've lived all over the country (DC, Minnesota, Alaska). I hold my friends to be the closest people to me in my life. I'm really easy to get along with, and very friendly, so don't hesitate to say hi. I'm most often found out barhopping on the weekends, so if you're up for a ride, feel free to tag along. Yes, I prefer the company of men, but that's not what makes me "me." I don't do drag, I don't protest, I'm not flaming or feminine, I'm just me. Labels are for clothing; not people, not feelings, not ideas.For various reasons, I've come to the conclusion that one should always -ALWAYS- treat others with respect, and show your feelings to those whom you hold dear. Make sure those you care about know you care. Enjoy life in its entirety, because you never think about which split-second will change everything. Rest in peace, my friend; September 15th will never be the same.

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My Blog

Snowball effect

It started out so small... but so much has since added to it that I don’t think I could stop it anymore if I tried. Or wanted to try. But, in truth, I think it’s about time this snowball h...
Posted by Xander on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 10:25:00 PST

OMFG

SERIOUSLY What the hell? So I went to Anchorage last weekend to blow off some steam and have a spring break, right? Well before we went down, I talked to an old fling "W" and I was like "so are you se...
Posted by Xander on Fri, 21 Mar 2008 01:54:00 PST

Thank you, Ellen. I hope everyone heard you!

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Posted by Xander on Mon, 03 Mar 2008 03:37:00 PST

Looking up..

Financial Aid came through. Job situation improving. School situation looking brighter. Personal life not on the forefront. Domestic sitch promising. So far, so good. Let's hope it stays this way!...
Posted by Xander on Tue, 26 Feb 2008 06:27:00 PST

Fairbanks(or wanna-be summertime Fairbanks)ians!

REALLY really really need to find a couple of roommates to move in around mid-april. Josh already left, and Scott, Matt, and Vesna are all moving to Texas. Don't know when Matt and Scott are leaving, ...
Posted by Xander on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 11:32:00 PST

Addendum to previous blog:

Lied. No boyfriend.
Posted by Xander on Tue, 08 Jan 2008 01:19:00 PST

Holy a long time since I blogged!

Yeah, I know, sorry for those of you who said it had been too long since I snippeted. I didn't think anyone really paid that much attention.. lol Anyway, yes, life is going well for me nowadays. Finan...
Posted by Xander on Fri, 04 Jan 2008 05:49:00 PST

Hanukkah, hu chag tov!

Ironically, I'm watching a Nat'l Geographic special on the daVinci code, etc. As the first Holiday this season, I just wanted to express my desire for everyone (friend, acquaintance, stranger, w...
Posted by Xander on Wed, 05 Dec 2007 09:19:00 PST

Myrna’s in Palm Springs?!

So I'm here in gorgeous Palm Springs, and I go to Toucan's on Tuesday night. Obvious, right? I mean it's the place to be. Anyway, I walk in the door with Alex, and we wander outside to the patio to se...
Posted by Xander on Wed, 31 Oct 2007 01:07:00 PST

Testing, testing... 1, 2, me...

So there's been a rather unfortunate turn of events lately... I don't know what I did or why everything seems to be happening to me right now, but I'm really glad I'm in the state of mind that I ...
Posted by Xander on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 10:47:00 PST