"... Didn't think that was much of a choice. I mean you might like beef, but you LOVE chicken." - A Close Friend
I like people who like Weezer, I don't think I can get along with people who don't like Weezer. You can't forget Meat either, it always helps if you like Meat. People have to accept that I am seriously into fried chicken and that won't ever change.
If you bring home the Turkey, I'll bring home the Bacon!
Seriously though, I'm up for meeting anybody who isn't robbing my life of opportunities or money. Imagination is the quality I envy. Choosing to overcome fear or self consciousness are the decisions I admire. Compassion is the quality that I have the most respect for. Since I tend to be hard on myself, it is nice to have people around who care to drag me out of my shell and fish me out of the dumpster once in awhile.
People with a quick wit and a low sense of defensiveness tend to take to me better. But I enjoy idea-filled people, even if I disagree with them. Only the mentally inflexible types seem to rub me the wrong way. I might believe in people a little too much, but I end up judging people quite fairly in the long run I think.
I am trying to shy away from those that are aloof or selfish. Being strong-willed, intelligent, charming, interesting, or original can be a plus. Humour, grace, imagination, and passion are definitely great to have. But at this point I've really come to value those who are kind, trustworthy, and genuinely concerned for others.
Virtue outshines all other physical gifts or talents a person can possess.
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"Those whom heaven helps we call Children of Heaven. They do not learn by learning. They do not work by working. They do not reason by using reason. To let understanding stop at what cannot be understood is a high attainment. Those who cannot do that will be destroyed, shorn upon the Lathe of Heaven." - Chuang Tse: XXIII
My Favorite unreleased Weezer song: