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Bethany [is Chubby Bear]

I am here for Friends

About Me

I'm quite the passionate person. If I care for a person, I'll do anything for them.
I'm pretty charming.
I'm a Christian and that's a huge part of who I am, and how I live my life. I'll never try to force it upon you-- but I'll answer questions asked.
I'm open-minded, but unyielding. I'm happy-go-lucky, yet morbid and cynical. I'm smart, but I have many blonde moments--sometimes for days at a time. I'm quite logical, yet very random. I'm conservative, yet very open/unashamed/unabashed about a lot of things. I'm a people-person, but quite misanthropic. I'm a good girl, but I love my shenanigans. I love the color pink and shoes, but my favorite movies are all quite violent, and I love football and cars.
I'm sweet and adorable. I fidget a lot and do silly things when I get tired. I laugh a lot, and can be rather loud about it. I don't need a gaggle of giggling girls to go with me to the restroom. I tend to fall down/over when I laugh. I know how people think and work, and so I see through a lot of guises. I'm the one people come to when they want an honest, straight-forward, blunt opinion. I cannot stand boring and/or unintelligent people.
Children are my passion. I love kids. I'm a nanny, for goodness sake. I've GOT to love kids.
Basically, I'm one of a kind, and you'll always be surprised, and be kept on your toes.
I'm driven by passion and compassion, both of which take root in my faith.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

If you lie, don't talk to me. I don't put up with people who don't respect others enough to be honest. I'd rather someone be truthful, and end up saying something hurtful, than be dishonest.

If you notice the number of friends I have on here, that's because I'm very selective about who stays on my list long-term. I cut down the number regularly.


Honestly, I just want someone who can be completely transparent with me, and I to them. Someone who can make me laugh when tears are streaming down my face. Someone who makes me feel special by doing the simplest things.Someone I can play Scrabble with, whenever I want!

Please, nobody over the age of 30, unless I know you or contact you first.

My Blog

Kwik n Kold Kares

For those that don't know, my husband is from Lebanon--the country in the Middle East. He is not Muslim, he is a Christian. Charbel used to work at a  drive thru (like the drive thru convenience ...
Posted by on Sat, 06 Sep 2008 18:07:00 GMT

Bethany’s Going to Court

Warning: LongMy parents moved this weekend to get away from their unstable, psycho landlord that's caused a lot of drama. Hardcore drama. ('ll supply details if you ask.)The landlord--Chris--never gav...
Posted by on Sat, 04 Aug 2007 01:08:00 GMT

Update on Mi Madre

My mom got the call the other day--they've finally scheduled her surgery. (haha I typed survey first). Following a lot of Pre-op appointments, she's going to be having the hysterectomy on May 17th. It...
Posted by on Wed, 25 Apr 2007 04:53:00 GMT

On March 8th, 2007...

Mid-morning on March 8th, 2007, I received exciting news: Carmen and I were approved to get the apartment we wanted. I was ecstatic. I was on top of the world. That same evening, the world came cras...
Posted by on Wed, 18 Apr 2007 16:03:00 GMT

Another Update on Mom

Well,  as you all know, Mom has to have a hysterectomy in the near future. She had a prep appointment last night to make sure everything's in line, and some stuff has come up. Mom's been Type II ...
Posted by on Fri, 02 Mar 2007 08:45:00 GMT

Update on Mom

Well, a lot has gone on since I last updated you guys on her, but here goes: After my initial post, Mom learned that she had an alternative procedure she could have done, and they doctor recommended i...
Posted by on Fri, 09 Feb 2007 09:01:00 GMT

On a serious note...

My mom's been having some health issues for the past few years, involving her..."womanly parts." She originally was supposed to have a procedure done that would have minimal long-term effects,  a...
Posted by on Thu, 18 Jan 2007 20:16:00 GMT

I'm changing.

For the past week, I've been listening to a recording (on CD) of CS Lewis reading from his original manuscript of The Four Loves. Most of you know that this subject has always intrigued me. The differ...
Posted by on Fri, 12 Jan 2007 19:31:00 GMT

What is Bethany sick of?

I'm sick of...being ignored or neglected.being second-choice or backup.friends treating me like crap.friends being idiots to other people and expecting me to keep my mouth shut.
Posted by on Wed, 03 Jan 2007 14:12:00 GMT

One of my Hugest Pet Peeves

Not even out of jealousy, but out of respect.I hate when a male friend--someone I talk to on a regular basis and everything --starts dating someone and then I'm become non-existent. Either lack of con...
Posted by on Tue, 24 Oct 2006 21:00:00 GMT