If a man
Wants You
If a man wants you...
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him
to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes
it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign
for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
~~Its much better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for who you are not..
5 Tips for
Women
1) It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.
2) It is important that a man makes you laugh.
3) It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to you.
4) It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.
5) It is important that these four men don't know each other.
You are a Hopeless romanticDo you swoon when a guy recites poetry to you? Go ga-ga over a bouquet of hand-picked wildflowers? Then there's no doubt about it — you're a textbook Hopeless Romantic. Chances are you love soft music, candlelight, and long walks on the beach at sunset. Crying at sappy movies (your favorite kind) is a given — a box of tissues is a must — and you've have had your wedding planned since grade school. You're looking for a deep relationship — a soulmate. Traditional and sympathetic, guys love that they can open up to you and talk to you about their feelings, their past, and their hopes for the future. How can a suitor win your heart? By romancing you. Sending you flowers, surprising you with a picnic lunch, or going for a horse-drawn carriage ride. Before you know it, you'll be creating a life-long love story.
If a man
My type
of nigga...
-Preferably my nationality, but I COULD be an open book
-Bald guys,bald guys & more bald guys
-Big kissable lips
-Long eyelashes
-Slight go-tee
-Guys taller than me even when I'm wearing stilettos, 5"7 & up is cool
-Muscles, I'm such a sucker for muscles
-Gotta have a lil bad boy in em' with a touch & I mean just a TOUCH of that thug passion.
-Great personality
-Hopeless Romantic, yea I love that MUSHY Shit
-Wonderful sense of humor
-Someone who's spontaneous, carefree, & out going
-Somone who will laugh at my jokes
-Love me for me
-Someone who has goals and ambitions in their life
-Someone determined, loyal, honest, true, & trustworthy
-NO POSSESIVE guys' I'm cool
-I ain't looken for a fling, i'm talken commitment
-I often think guys are iddiots though. They just don't get it.
My son I love him foreva!