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Jeff

Every right to live and be happy is yours to have...You lose them all when you void another's

About Me


To better understand me, it is far more necessary and possibly beneficial to know you. From knowing yourself you are able to know me. As my life continues on what appears to be a this random path I follow, I have learned a great deal of myself, others and rose colored glasses aren't an accessory, they are a burden! Removing a hindrance to truer clarity was essential to my well being and spirit. I have learned what the world is made of, as well as others. Be it bad, good or indifferent, I am able to make choices and travel along paths with those whose love surrounds me as mine surrounds them.
My intentions just like my thought process and selection of words tend to be received by those not yet fully knowing who and what I am mixed at best. However be it viewed, my life, my being, my presence, my heart...are and will forever be filled with love, compassion and a sincerest hope for all this world we share, this time here we have in this lifetime will be met with happiness and a better understanding of what we really are. The things we are capable of doing on any scale is only rivaled by the counterbalance of forces trying to negate it; which would be only our minds!So to know anything about me literally translates into knowing you and if you don't know yourself on a level as one should; being able to love yourself (first), know your faults/flaws (doesn't matter how you consider them) and being true to yourself (knowing who and what exactly you are), well I will be the first to inform you my presence in your life on any level will bring it all out. To know me or if there is a part of me, something specifically you want to know, here is a piece of information: I am an open book, whatever is sought I openly and honestly will answer, BUT if you ask a question of me (or anyone for that matter) be prepared for an answer you may or may not want. I will never be rude or disrespect someone and take feelings and emotions into as much consideration as one possibly can. Likes: Mind numbing conversation, one that brings it multiple orgasms / cleverness and alertness / word play (as you can see, I formulate sentences in a way many find "unique"; best adjective at the moment). / Someone who is multisyllabic / Know my words often hold not other meanings but rather answers or suggestions / life, love and living / positive people, mentalities that don't bring others down.
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My Interests

Living, Writing/Reading, Spontaneous road trips, Late night shopping, Staying up past my bedtime, Carnivorous Plants, Sitting somewhere with someone having a conversation so thought provoking and enlightening my mind has multiple orgasms, knowing someone thoroughly from inside, someone knowing me as well as understanding me (often not the easiest of tasks), having a random conversation with someone in a public place, meeting people...as many as I can in this lifetime and hoping I can see them again in the next, stopping to smell the flowers in a garden, people watching! (Sitting in a mall or similar place to watch interactions/what they are looking at/how they react to an uncomfortable situation/who is polite and who is rude/who cares and sees things in a different light.).. As already imagined, yes you would be correct in your assumption...I have a different outlook on life. I do not view life through rose colored glasses rather I see it naked in its truest form. Hate, Bitter, Envy, Pride, Jealous, Ugly (in the sense of comments or exclusion of people from groups)....these words do not exist in my vocabulary. I feel Society created these to trap many of us in becoming the same people we swore to never be. Removing negative forces in your life will allow positive ones to return. Self-esteem finds his way home. Knowing and loving yourself promotes knowing and loving others around you. The old saying "You can't catch flies with vinegar", yeah...I get it.
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I'd like to meet:

Anyone able and capable to have a conversation not exclusive to sex or biased views unable to at least respect the differences in others. Someone who knows who they are, what they are, able to love themselves as know love is a three way street: love yourself, love another, another loves you (works better in life in that exact order). An open minded person is hard to find just as a person who is positive in thinking and washes away those who are negative to a point they begin to bring trouble on others.
You Are Lightning
Beautiful yet dangerous
People will stop and watch you when you appear
Even though you're capable of random violence

You are best known for: your power

Your dominant state: performing

Music:

There really isn't anything I won't listen to. Marc Broussard, John Legend, Incognito (jazz), Courtney Pine, Miles Davis, Dizzy, Coltraine, Ronny Jordan, Acid Jazz....Theviery Corporation, People Under the Stairs, Supreme Beings of Leisure, Kanye West, Ying-Yang Twins. TOTALLY dig punjabi music, latin pop, Chilled/Lounge Music. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to what I listen to or find appealing to my senses.

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Your Element Is Water
A bit of a contradiction, you can seem both lighthearted and serious.
That's because you're good at going with the flow - but you also are deep.
Highly intuitive, you tune in to people's emotions and moods easily.
You are able to tap into deep emotional connections and connect with others.
You prefer a smooth, harmonious life - but you can navigate your way around waves.
You have a knack for getting people to get along and making life a little more peaceful.
What occult Power best suits you ? Your Result: Telepathy

You have the ability of direct mind to mind communitcation of thoughts and images ,from other people , this could also mean you can hear the thoughts of others .


Clairoyance
Premonition
Psychometry
Healing
Precognition
Astral projection
Dreamwalking
What occult Power best suits you ?
You Are A Walnut Tree
You are strange and full of contrasts... the oddball of your group.
You are unrelenting and you have unlimited ambition.
Not always liked but always admired, you are more infamous than famous.
You are aggressive and spontaneous, and your reactions are often unexpected.
A jealous and passionate person, you are difficult in romantic relationships. What's Your Celtic Horoscope?

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Heroes:

My hero would be that person, despite ridicule, in the face of adversity, knowing all odds were against them, and possibly fearing what they hold/cherish in life...that still stands up for their convictions, their since of self, their love for mankind, their unconditional compassion and their unbendable spirit. Not many of us these days voice outcry when things are blatantly wrong, rather we sit idly by watching someone else take the beating when it is us as well that share these thoughts, these fears. Those that know themselves inside and out, those that love themselves and are willing to put “them” on the line in order for others to be able to do so and for others to see what really is worth fighting for. Nike commercials, sporting events and cereal boxes will never show the pictures of my heroes!

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Updates

"A Soul Well Traveled" By Jeffrey A. Mechler ©     This book is a collection of poetry I have written over the years.  Many friends and family know (while others are just now learning)...
Posted by Jeff on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 11:59:00 PST

My book is out!!! "A Soul Well Traveled" is here

I just wanted to share with everyone my little bit of exciting news&.  MY BOOK IS FINALLY OUT!!!   "A Soul Well Traveled" by Jeffrey A. Mechler   http://www.redleadbooks.com/sowetr...
Posted by Jeff on Fri, 31 Aug 2007 03:06:00 PST

Unfinished business

I just wanted to share this poem I recently wrote for my grandfather who passed last week.  I was unable to do what I wanted; which was bury this with him, because I got into a heated argument wi...
Posted by Jeff on Wed, 27 Jun 2007 03:35:00 PST

Updates on writings

I know that many of you either haven't heard much from me these past few weeks and some haven't heard me at all (which isn't a really bad thing I don't think).  Anyway, I wanted to post a little ...
Posted by Jeff on Mon, 29 Jan 2007 06:10:00 PST

Have you hugged your robot today?

There are only three (3) real enemies people have in life:   1) Time 2) Mistakes we haven't pulled the lesson from 3) Roses   Allow me to take this insightful thought a bit further.  It...
Posted by Jeff on Wed, 27 Sep 2006 12:16:00 PST

Remembering 9/12 (and the other 363 days)

By no means am I in any way, shape or fashion trying with any amount of mockery or disrespect trying to minimize or take away the events of a day so deeply rooted in the very DNA of each American citi...
Posted by Jeff on Tue, 12 Sep 2006 10:48:00 PST

Think you have another day or another chance, so did I

  Yes, I know, we have all heard the clichÃ�s be it through a friend, email or Cosmo but let me say from a firsthand experience as recently as these past few weeks in my life...You only have on...
Posted by Jeff on Sun, 13 Aug 2006 03:21:00 PST