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About Me


I love to smile. I love the butterfly feeling in my stomach when I am around someone special :) I love to go fishing in the summer time. I am an official road dog. My children inherited that from me. I love to cook and despise working out, but it is something I need to start doing again, not only for health reasons but for my own self image. I love my children first and foremost. They are my life and what I live for. I am a single mother and I am proud of what I have accomplished in the last 4 years. I have built my own empire that I refuse to allow to be torn down and taken away from me ever again. I am a dreamer. I am a hard worker and I love my job. I am fortunate enough to have 3 bosses that care about me and my children and welcome us as family. I sometimes laugh too loud, or at the wrong things that end up making me giggle endlessly. I'd rather see a smile than a frown. I am a proud Mommy as my youngest is doing great in the 2nd grade and with enthusiasm. Or when my oldest has brought home great grades and a better attitude, which we are hoping for each quarter, GO AARON! Or when my beautiful daughter can realize she is a true treasure. Outside the life I have with my children, which is about 95% of me, I try my best to at least talk with my friends. One thing most people should know about me, accept about me, and understand about me is this: I am a single mother and I will always focus more on them than anyone else. Understandable right? I hope so. I am not a social butterfly and honest to God, I don't like the downtown scene. I blame it on age, however I never did care for it when I was ten years younger. I guess my focus is more on the future of my family. I am a snuggle bug and always will be. There is times that just the feeling of someone wrapping their arms around you and telling you it will all be ok, is just what a mommy needs. I am naturally curious. I am me all wrapped up in a nice package with a surprise inside. fantasy layout powered by HOT FreeLayouts.com / MyHotComments

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I'd like to meet:

Not one single person comes to mind. Famous people do nothing for me, unless they are the humanitarian type that are willing to sacrifice to the less-than-fortunate. Through out life we meet various people. Those that make a difference are the ones that stay and those that are solely focused on "self" will eventually fade away. I love meeting real non-judgmental people. I realize we all go through things in life, as I go through them too. The definition of friend is: one attached to another by respect or affection.Life is a gift, plain and simple. Each of us have a different reason for being here and a different meaning to every one. Ultimately I think the moments that stick with me the most are the ones where nothing is said at all.

One thing most people should know about me is that I am not culturally bound. I am fairly fluent in Spanish, am now in the process of learning Kurdish, as well as competition for the Arabic language. I have a fascination with various cultures that we are mixed with. I try to teach this life lesson to my children on a daily basis. I want them to be not only proud of who they are, but where they come from. At the same time, teaching them that we should not judge others if they are different than what they are used to seeing. There is so much more to learn in life and I await the lessons.

My Blog

Clay Balls

A man was exploring caves by the Seashore.  In one of the caves he found a canvas bag with a bunch of hardened clay balls.  It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in the sun to ba...
Posted by on Sat, 25 Jul 2009 21:17:00 GMT

My thought for today only!

Most that know me, understand that I am culturally diverse.  It's a blessing and experience that no one can understand until they are inside this circle.  My workplace.  Love it most times, hate it ot...
Posted by on Thu, 23 Jul 2009 08:57:00 GMT

What's your name say?

This is a work in progress.  As I think of it I will fill it in for those I know, have known, and may not want to know anymore.A-I so love you with all my heart!B-I'm thankful for what we made, and ou...
Posted by on Sun, 07 Jun 2009 14:07:00 GMT

First Dates

 THE  FUNNIEST DATE STORY  EVER If you  didn't see this on the Tonight show, I hope you're sitting  down  when you read it. This is probably the funniest date  ...
Posted by on Thu, 09 Oct 2008 19:47:00 GMT

Women are evil by nature!

I cannot get enough of these and I just have to share it.  Everyone deserves a smile for the day. I know I am!   A woman went up to the bar in a quiet rural pub. She gesturedalluringly to th...
Posted by on Wed, 20 Aug 2008 16:42:00 GMT

Twenty Dollars

WITH MY MOOD THESE LAST FEW DAYS, THIS HAS BEEN THE ONE TO CHEER ME UP THE MOST!  I JUST HAD TO POST!    TWENTY DOLLARS On their wedding night, the young brideApproached her new Husban...
Posted by on Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:14:00 GMT

I discovered Nebraska!

Ok, not really.  However I did discover a place that I have been to many times before but never noticed.  My kids and I have been busy trying to fix the many negative things going on in...
Posted by on Sun, 29 Jul 2007 13:36:00 GMT

Need a new clock

The other night I was invited out for a night with "the girls." I told my husband that I would be home by midnight. Well, the hours passed and the margaritas went down way too easy. Around 3 A.M., a b...
Posted by on Fri, 23 Feb 2007 21:14:00 GMT

Sex with a cowboy...

Sex with a CowboyPrior to her trip to Texas , Buffy (a New Yorker), confided to her co-workers she had three goals for her trip to the Lone Star State ; 1. She wanted to taste some real Texas Bar-B-Q...
Posted by on Fri, 23 Feb 2007 21:12:00 GMT

The Miracle of Toilet Paper

Fresh from my shower, I stand in front of the mirror complaining to my> husband that my breasts are too small. Instead of characteristically telling> me it's not so, he uncharacteristically comes up w...
Posted by on Sun, 11 Feb 2007 23:04:00 GMT