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ToYsHiKa ®

~Allow Me to Be the First Thought That Crosses Your Mind~

About Me


I'm your most outgoing person you will ever meet, but would never judge you, or think less of you. I value family and the few friendships I have. If you ever need any type of advice, feel free to send me a note. If you enjoy reading Blogs, then be sure to subscribe to mine.Although I have learned a lot, and many of my friends are over the age of 50, I still have much to learn. One thing you can't tell me is how to raise my children. I spend countless hours trying to make them be the best they can be. If you know me personally, then you know what I'm talking about. I love my kids more than life itself. It's up to us as the parents to guide our children, to help them be the best they can be, no matter what's going on in this crazy world.I don't watch the news anymore, because it's the most depressing thing next to visiting poor countries. The world spends countless hours on reporting, and not enough on doing. I'm not a political person, but you have to explain to me how we can come up with money for other "non" important issues, but we still have a shortage of emergency rooms for the sick, and shelters for homeless people. Updated January 2, 2008 This year will be the year of change and accomplishments. Today, I actually submitted my application to UMUC to graduate. Never thought I would do it, but I've had some great help along the way!The book in which I have been working on is now in the editing stage. I have a few more things to add to it, but it's finally ready! It's been in the making for years. I have a publishing company too, waiting for me to submit my work to them for publishing. The book will be available under Barnes and Noble and Borders. I'll have of course, live in person book signings! It's so exciting! Thanks to each of you for making this happen.Last year was bit of a difficult year for various reasons, but 2008 is an amazing year! I never have life regrets, everything I do, it's done for the right reason, with no questions asked. My life is complete, my children are my world, and my book...is all for you!Don't forget to subscribe and read my blogs. Your comments are always welcome, and any personal notes you may send are welcome as well. The pictures by Poses by Marie-Leigh is my company, where I've taken most of not all of the pictures in the book. If your looking for some pictures, be sure to get in touch with me....One Love.....
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My Interests

Photography, Makeup, Writing

I'd like to meet:

Nobody, I've met those I should meet, and those that have moved on.View All Friends | View Blog | View Pics | Add Comment

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Music:

In all honesty, I play everything BUT that Heavy Metal/Devil Worship Music...LOL

Movies:

The Color Purple, All Kid Movies....too many to list!

Television:

The Jefferson's, Bewitched, I Dream of Jeanie, What's Happening, Good Times, Bonanza, Sanford & Son, All in The Family, Cheers, Green Acres, I Love Lucy, Three's Company, House, ER (Old Episodes), Gunsmoke....

Books:

Harry Potter, Sidney Sheldon, Dean Koontz....

Heroes:

...Anyone who goes out of their way to save a life, even if it's their own life...

My Blog

Relationships: The Life after the Divorce

You know over the past few months, I've been keeping my eye on a few people who I know went through a divorce. If you know me personally outside of the internet world, then you understand my passion f...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Fri, 10 Oct 2008 08:18:00 PST

Life: The Bridge You Crossed

I've come to the understanding that everyone defines "success" and being "grown up" based upon what they have and what they don't have. You can be rich and have all of the money in the world, but yet ...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Wed, 06 Aug 2008 08:59:00 PST

Life: Tick Tock&The Clock is Ticking

Yes, the one topic that ever man and woman is jumping up and down to talk aboutwhen to have a baby. Lucky for the majority of men in this world, their tool to produce more of them can work until the ...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Thu, 31 Jul 2008 08:02:00 PST

Life and Lessons: You never listen when its Good Advice

It's funny how we grow up only to realize that someone in our lives for whatever reason was giving us good advice. It was advice that at the time may have seemed controlling, or perhaps you felt it wa...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Thu, 10 Jul 2008 06:18:00 PST

Life: What and who are you Living For?

I was on my way to bed tonight, but felt it was necessary to write this entry. Just this morning I was having a very deep conversation with my best friend about living life as if it's not promised the...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Mon, 23 Jun 2008 09:03:00 PST

Love & Life & Wishes: Wish and Dream Your Life

This week for me personally has been quite challenging, and I know eventually the fruit will fall from the tree and I will be able to make sense of everything. No matter what, I'm quite thankful I hav...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Sat, 14 Jun 2008 11:02:00 PST

Family and Friends: How Many Colors to a Rainbow

I've had an interesting week and weekend. For those of you who don't know, I write because it's amazing, and I write because once it's written I'm over with it. I no longer have the negative feelings ...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Mon, 09 Jun 2008 01:25:00 PST

Love and Relationships: You Can’t Judge Me...But You Can Try to Understand...

I think I've reached a point in my life where I'm tired of everyone treating him like the victim. If you don't know by now, I'm finally divorced. I'm free from all of the pain that I went through for ...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Tue, 27 May 2008 09:56:00 PST

Relationships and Life: Reality is real&Expectations are Invalid

You know there comes a time in our lives, where each of us must face the reality of something beginning or perhaps something ending. Many times, we sit in denial until the time comes to accept whateve...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:25:00 PST

Love and Relationships: Love...Pain...and The End...

You know, we spend a lot of our time trying to heal and move on from past relationships or even relationships that are over without anyone saying a word. There use to be a time, when two people could ...
Posted by ToYsHiKa ® on Fri, 22 Feb 2008 01:08:00 PST