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radically moderate.

music's the only thing that makes sense anymore. play it loud enough, it keeps the demons at bay.

About Me



i want to make a change in the world that doesn't go unnoticed. i absolutely adore the one man that knows my greatest flaws yet still loves me regardless. i don't want to let anyone down. i value friends as family. i have never been happier with the direction my life is heading. i value life. i do not regret anything. i consider myself to be very ecclectic and open-minded. i really do want world peace. i find something very disfunctional with an economic system where the majority of the constituents are poor and in debt. home truly is where the heart is.

My Interests

triunfo // honesty, kids, learning about the past i missed out on, doing little things that mean the world to someone, caring, accepting myself for who i am

pierde // smoking, liars, cheaters, slut whores, being broke, egomaniacial assholes, egocentric individuals, traffic, gas prices, classless people, confusion, the neverending chaos, bills, irresponsible people

I'd like to meet:

i've met the one.

Music:

the decemberists, save ferris, the dresden dolls, the hush sound, our lady peace, damien rice, ingrid michaelson, aqualung, tegan & sara, brand new, the postal service, devo, reggie and the full effect, micky green, sarah barielles, garbage, the cure, muse, death cab for cutie, fiona apple, architecture in helsinki, the yeah yeah yeahs, bloodhound gang, the sounds, mates of states, fiest, the robot explosion, the ditty bops, ....
local: the good time engineers, king thief, dana dodson

Movies:

donnie darko, the secretary, across the universe, kill bill 1 & 2, thank you for smoking, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, cannibal! the musical, saved!, what dreams may come, but i'm a cheerleader!, vanilla sky, juno, slither, me and you and everyone we know, garden state, being john malkovich, super troopers, where the heart is, walk the line, sky high, teen witch, the notebook, wicker park, charlie and the chocolate factory...

i own over 250 dvds. i can't tell you all of them right now. but this can: movie list

directors/screenwriters: richard kelly, quentin tarantino, charlie kaufman, tim burton, zach braff, jean-pierre jeunet
favorite actors: jake gyylenhaal, edward norton, christopher walken, john cusak, robin williams
favorite actresses: maggie gyylenhaal, julia roberts, joan cusak, natalie portman, dakota fanning, audrey tatou

Television:

dexter, simpsons, family guy, 24, lost, what not to wear, home improvement shows

Books:

alice sebold // lovely bones
chuck klostermann // sex, drugs, and cocoa puffs
douglas adams // hitchhicker's guide to the galaxy
lerner / goldberg // why do men have nipples?
nicholas sparks // the notebook

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Heroes:

my mom, bryan clark, tony bossi, jeff koch, monique powell, karen o, ben gibbard

My Blog

three years later.

it's been three years since we lost tony. lost, like he just up and vanished to some unknown destination. that would be easier. but no matter how much you search, you won't find him walking the ear...
Posted by radically moderate. on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 01:01:00 PST

did anyone else even notice?

i sit here and watch a movie chock-full of commercials and bad dubbing on tbs. it's the client- that movie from back in the day featuring susan sarandon and brad renfro with fake southern accents. i...
Posted by radically moderate. on Tue, 12 Feb 2008 02:03:00 PST

a shave and a nip.

tonight, the lovely sarah invited me to indulge in all that is johnny depp and tim burton.  so we weathered the freezing rain/sleet/snow to watch sweeny todd slice and dice the patrons of fleet s...
Posted by radically moderate. on Fri, 07 Dec 2007 09:20:00 PST

it only took me two years, nine months, and seven days...

it only took me two years, nine months, and seven days... but i finally had a dream with tony in it.  like most of my dreams, it offered an action-packed adventure complete with ot...
Posted by radically moderate. on Mon, 26 Nov 2007 12:16:00 PST

dream a little dream...

sometimes dreams are hard to decipher.  other times, they're point blank... like the one i had last night.i was working at a restaurant which didn't appear to be fridays.  it was really busy...
Posted by radically moderate. on Sun, 09 Sep 2007 11:59:00 PST

everyone at fridays is sick...

not that a virus isn't going around anyway with back to school season, but i swear everyone at my work is sick.  it's nothing major- a little head cold.  but let me tell you it's friggin ann...
Posted by radically moderate. on Wed, 05 Sep 2007 10:02:00 PST

what is it with kids these days?

i don't quite understand it.  now i know i'm a grammar nazi, but damn.  do english teachers do their jobs at all anymore?  every 10-18 year old i've seen type anything lately has the po...
Posted by radically moderate. on Sun, 02 Sep 2007 11:27:00 PST

i never thought i’d see the day.

i'd like to start this with the fact that it truly did happen. i saw it with my own eyes. and even, regretably, participated in the event.well bryan and i are sitting here watching 24, minding our ...
Posted by radically moderate. on Thu, 23 Aug 2007 10:19:00 PST

ahhh! what am i going to do?!

well if you've been trying to reach me (and wanda this definitely means you), my phone is dead.  bryan and i went to play in the rain (not kidding) and well anyway i ended up in a puddle unbeknow...
Posted by radically moderate. on Fri, 13 Jul 2007 11:05:00 PST

proper tipping protocol, or... why most people suck.

as a server, i feel a certain anguish towards a particular subject.  often at work, i've found myself saying, "i wish we aired a PSA about proper tipping protocol every 15 minutes or so on all of...
Posted by radically moderate. on Wed, 27 Jun 2007 02:03:00 PST