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{} Layout made by .linkback_topleft { position: absolute; top: 0px; left: 0px; } .r{}I am a parent before anything else. I have two sons, one biological (Noah) and the other I've been looking after since he was a year old (Brayden). Brayden doesn't live with us, but maybe one day. I am married, and have been since August 7, 2005. My husband Jarred is in the Army, so that means we had to move from our home in Hawaii all the way to Germany!! It was hard at first, but it's getting better and hey, I'm in Europe, FOR FREE! We are trying to have another baby, hopefully one day. It was hard to leave home though: I wanted to stay, but I didn't at the same time bec there's some people and drama in Hawaii that I'd love to get away from, yet I didn't want to leave Brayden. I love that boy just as much as I do Noah, no matter who tried to stop me, tell me I can't love him, tell me I don't love him, or tells me that I can't see him. Love is the most powerful thing in the world next to God, and love will conquer all. I know Brayden knows I love him and even through this rough patch, our relationship will stay strong. In fact, to this day, we remain in touch and we are still close. Brayden will be in sixth grade this year and Noah will be in third. Man they grow up so quickly! I am thankful to have people to support me and be there for me in this time of conflict. It's amazing that people who you think are "your worst enemy, can be your best friend," to quote Bob Marley. Life has a funny way of revealing things! I am getting a brand new van this week! I've been wanting a van for 5 years now. It seems silly, but I want a car that my family can enjoy and that we can fit in when we travel. My mom has come to live with us here in Germany. She took care of me all my life, so now it's time to return the favor! Now, we can all fit in our van when we go out, plus the dogs! And when I get back to Hawaii, I can take Brayden cruisin with us! But back to my job...I love working with kids. All kids have a streak of innocence even when it may not seem like it. All kids can be reached, but you gotta know how. Not that I always know how, but finding out is part of the fun!! I found this out during my first year of teaching at Argonner Elementary School. We have moved to Kaiserslautern in Germany. I am hoping to get a job at one of the elementary schools in the area. It's hard finding a teaching job here since so many of the bases are closing down. That's ok though, because the Lord is awesome, and if you don't know this personally, you can... all you have to do is believe! Try it, it worked wonders for me and mine... see what He can do for you and yours.... and remember, everything, and I do mean EVERYTHING, happens for a reason.
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Basics:
Name: Q
Date of Birth: 03-20-1981
Birthplace: england
Current Location: germany
Eye Color: hazel
Hair Color: real: brown, now:blonde
Height: 5-3
Heritage: chinese
Piercings: two holes on each ear, cartilidge on left ear, and belly button
Tattoos: dragon on shoulder, hawaiian islands and butterfly on back and good luck cricket on leg
Favourite:
Band/Singer: right now, fergie
Song: pedestal
Movie: dragonheart
Disney Movie: of all time: robin hood
TV show: heroes
Color: blue, red, purple
Food: chimichanga
Pizza topping: pepperoni and extra cheese
Ice-Cream Flavor: rocky road
Drink (alcoholic): lychee martini
Soda: diet coke
Store: Wal-Mart I guess
Clothing Brand: l.e.i.
Shoe Brand: reef
Season: summer
Month: march
Holiday/Festival: christmas
Flower: plumeria
Make-Up Item: eye-liner
Board game: sorry
This or That
Sunny or rainy: sunny
Chocolate or vanilla: chocolate
Fruit or veggie: fruit
Night or day: night
Sour or sweet: sweet
Love or money: love
Phone or in person: in person
Looks or personality: both! looks with personality
Coffee or tea: tea
Hot or cold: hot
Your:
Goal for this year: to be a better mother
Most missed memory: hawaii
Best physical feature: my lovely lady lumps
First thought waking up: I want to go back to sleep
Hypothetical personality disorder: catastrophic thinkingism
Preferred type of plastic surgery: butt
Sesame street alter ego: the grouch
Fairytale alter ego: tinkerbell... I don't like other chicks messing with my man!!
Most stupid remark: I have a bed, it's soft (inside joke)
Worst crime: being me
Greatest ambition: to get my PhD
Greatest fear: snakes
Darkest secret: if I told, would it be a secret?
Favorite subject: english
Strangest received gift: macaroni and cheese
Worst habit: biting my nails
Do You:
Smoke: I'm proud to say no I don't
Drink: no I do not
Curse: I'm trying to cut back
Shower daily: duh, of course...
Like thunderstorms: no
Dance in the rain: not recently
Sing: yes
Play an instrument: ukulele and piano
Get along with your parents: yes
Wish on stars: no
Believe in fate: yes
Believe in love at first sight: not really, unless it's when your child is born
Can You:
Drive: uh, yes
Sew: kind of
Cook: I can! I really can
Speak another language: kind of
Dance: yes
Sing: yes
Touch your nose with your tongue: no
Whistle: not really
Curl your tongue: yes
Have You Ever:
Been Drunk: yes
Been Stoned/High: I can't remember
Eaten Sushi: yes i lve sushi
Been in Love: a million times
Skipped school: yes....
Made prank calls: maybe
Sent someone a love letter: lots
Stolen something: hmmm....
Cried yourself to sleep: yes
Other Questions:
What annoys you most in a person? lies
Are you right or left handed? right
What is your bedtime? whenever I want
Name three things you can't live without: my husband, my son, and my mom
What is the color of your room? white
Do you have any siblings? yes, 2 brothers
Do you have any pets? yes, 2 dogs
Would you kill someone you hate for a million dollars? no
What is you middle name? I won't tell
What are you nicknames? Q, Kui, Q-bird
Are you for or against gay marriage? who am I to stand in the way of love
What are your thoughts ..ion? i don't like it at all, but I guess some people need to do it
Do you have a crush on anyone? my husband
Are you afraid of the dark? yes
How do you want to die? peacefully in my husband's arms
What is the largest amount of popsicles that you have eaten on one day? I think 7
Would you take a bullet for the one you love? yes, anytime
What is the last law you’ve broken? none! How dare you suggest I break laws....
In a Member of the Opposite Sex:
Hair color: any
Eye color: any
Height taller than me
Weight not to fat, but not to thin
Most important physical feature: eyes
Biggest turn-off liars
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You Belong in Barcelona
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Anyone who is not out to get me or anyone else. I like meeting people from Hawaii and also from the mainland. Also Matthew Perry, Jessica Alba and Angelina Jolie. It'd also be cool to meet Jet Li, Ice Cube, and Pharrel. I wish I could meet a real dragon, but that's not happening!

My Blog

WHAT I THINK ABOUT YOU....

What I think about you... Type your name in my blog comments. Once you do that, this is what I'll do for you...1. I'll respond with something random about you.2. I'll tell you which song or m...
Posted by on Fri, 11 Jul 2008 13:28:00 GMT

TAG!! UR IT!

Once you have been tagged, you have to write a blog with 15 weird, random things, facts, habits, or goals about yourself. At the end choose 10 people to be tagged, listing their names and why you chos...
Posted by on Wed, 09 Jul 2008 12:38:00 GMT

Thankful, so thankful

Hi there everyone.  I just am awake and can't sleep and had to say that life is great.  I mean, I have my down days and moments, but overall, life is awesome.  It's really awesome becau...
Posted by on Sat, 28 Jun 2008 17:30:00 GMT

Praise God!

praise God.  My husband accepted the Lord as his savior today!!  One more saved soul!  Thank you God!  Some people may not understand why I'm  so happy, but if you knew the Lo...
Posted by on Sun, 23 Sep 2007 11:11:00 GMT

GLAD TO BE ME!

YOU KNOW, EVEN THOUGH THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO WILL TRY TO SPOIL THE THINGS YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE BY HATING... YOU SHOULDN'T ALLOW IT.  I DON'T.  I AM SO GLAD TO BE ME.  I KNOW GOD IS ON MY...
Posted by on Sat, 22 Sep 2007 13:34:00 GMT

This is for you, you know who you are....

Wow. There are people in this world who so don't have any idea of anything they, or anyone else is talking about.  They misunderstand anything and everything people say.  I think it is you w...
Posted by on Sat, 22 Sep 2007 11:44:00 GMT

some peoplez

some people I tell you.  They are so jealous of anything you have including relationships... most of all relationships I think.  There are people who will try to stop you from loving someone...
Posted by on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 12:33:00 GMT

here I am

So here I am in Germany.  I actually went swimming in a lake.  I was freakin out bec the water is so dark and looks so scary, but I told myself it was ok!  theres a diving board in the ...
Posted by on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:36:00 GMT

MOVING TO GERMANY!!!!

Well, it seems that my family and I are going to Germany!!  We have to be there in June!!  I am so excited about going!!  Little bit scared, but I think it will be fun.  Noah will ...
Posted by on Tue, 08 May 2007 03:39:00 GMT

We bought a house

I am so happy!!  Because of my wonderful honey, we are buying a house!!  I love my husband, Jarred Carter!  He   makes the impossible possible and makes me happier than anyone or a...
Posted by on Wed, 02 May 2007 20:48:00 GMT