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Mrs. Candice Cole

FAMILY COMES 1ST

About Me

THIS IS MY LIL ANGELIF A MAN WANTS YOU-If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. -If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. -Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. -Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. -Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. -Slower is better. -Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. -If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve -then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. -Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. -Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. -The only person you can control in a relationship is you. -Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. -He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, -Why would he treat you any differently? -Always have your own set of friends separate from his. -Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. -If something bothers you, speak up. -Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. -You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. -Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. -He is a man, nothing more nothing less. -Never let a man define who you are. -Never borrow someone else's man. -Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. -A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. -All men are NOT dogs. -You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. -You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship -You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. -Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. -Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. -Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. -Keep him in your radar but get to know others. -Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. -They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............Myspace LayoutsGIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN!!!

My Interests

STINKA WINKA PINKAYou may write me down in history With your bitter, twisted lies, You may trod me in the very dirt But still, like dust, I'll rise.Does my sassiness upset you? Why are you beset with gloom? 'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells Pumping in my living room.Just like moons and like suns, With the certainty of tides, Just like hopes springing high, Still I'll rise.Did you want to see me broken? Bowed head and lowered eyes? Shoulders falling down like teardrops. Weakened by my soulful cries.Does my haughtiness offend you? Don't you take it awful hard 'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines Diggin' in my own back yard.You may shoot me with your words, You may cut me with your eyes, You may kill me with your hatefulness, But still, like air, I'll rise.Does my sexiness upset you? Does it come as a surprise That I dance like I've got diamonds At the meeting of my thighs? Out of the huts of history's shame - I rise Up from a past that's rooted in pain - I rise I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide, Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.Leaving behind nights of terror and fear - I rise Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear - I rise Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave, I am the dream and the hope of the slave. I rise I rise I rise.

I'd like to meet:

LIKE MAMA...LIKE DAUGHTERYou declare you see me dimly through a glass which will not shine, though I stand before you boldly, trim in rank and marking time. You do own to hear me faintly as a whisper out of range, while my drums beat out the message and the rhythms never change.Equality, and I will be free. Equality, and I will be free.You announce my ways are wanton, that I fly from man to man, but if I'm just a shadow to you, could you ever understand ?We have lived a painful history, we know the shameful past, but I keep on marching forward, and you keep on coming last.Equality, and I will be free. Equality, and I will be free.Take the blinders from your vision, take the padding from your ears, and confess you've heard me crying, and admit you've seen my tears.Hear the tempo so compelling, hear the blood throb in my veins. Yes, my drums are beating nightly, and the rhythms never change.Equality, and I will be free. Equality, and I will be free.

Music:

HUNGRY BITCH

Movies:

HHHMMMMM... LET ME THINK WHILE I EAT THE ERASER

Television:

TOP MODEL BITCHMY LIL PRINCESS

Books:

BOOTYLICIOUSWHEREMYBITCHES

Heroes:

MY FRIEND TILL THE END MRS. HOLLYWOOD AND SWEET RHAPSODYPretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm not cute or built to suit a model's fashion size But when I start to tell them They think I'm telling lies. I say It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips The stride of my steps The curl of my lips. I'm a woman Phenomenally Phenomenal woman That's me.I walk into a room Just as cool as you please And to a man The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees Then they swarm around me A hive of honey bees. I say It's the fire in my eyes And the flash of my teeth The swing of my waist And the joy in my feet. I'm a woman Phenomenally Phenomenal woman That's me.Men themselves have wondered What they see in me They try so much But they can't touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them They say they still can't see. I say It's in the arch of my back The sun of my smile The ride of my breasts The grace of my style. I'm a woman Phenomenally Phenomenal woman That's me.Now you understand Just why my head's not bowed I don't shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud When you see me passing It ought to make you proud. I say It's in the click of my heels The bend of my hair The palm of my hand The need for my care. 'Cause I'm a woman Phenomenally Phenomenal woman That's me.TOO MUCH 4 HIM TO HANDLE HUH??

My Blog

TOP NOTCH GLAMOR BITCH!!!!!!!

TO ALL YOU BITCHES THAT THINK YOU CAN BE ME..... LMFAO... KEEP ON TRYING..... YOU WILL NEVER BE...... YOU WILL NEVER HAVE WHAT I HAVE..... YOU WILL NEVER BE ANYWHERE NEAR MY LEVEL..... HA HA HA HA HA ...
Posted by Mrs. Candice Cole on Sat, 05 May 2007 10:35:00 PST