Myself 15 years ago, so I could smack some sense into him!Myself 25 years from now to see if it worked!!! If it doesn't hurt me, it only makes me stronger. If it doesn't help me, it only gets in the way. If I can laugh at it, I've conquered it. If I'm quiet, that means I'm observing. I try not to sweat the small stuff, because my goals in life are more important. I want to meet focussed goal oriented people trying to make things happen.