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Jay Black, Keepin' it real since 1978

Say what you mean, and mean what you say. ..

About Me

"SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY" ME: I am a single Puerto Rican just chillin' out here in Cali and making the best of each day. I like to hang out with cool peeps and I can guarantee that I'll keep it real with you. I don't like to lie and I don't fake the funk or put up a front. What you see is what you get, take it or leave it. I'm from the South Bronx so I came up in the ghetto but I got out that Biotch and I'm not going back. I have too much to live for to be fighting for crumbs when the cake is in reach.
| View Show | Create Your OwnWHAT I DO: I work at the 4 Seasons Luxury Resort in Carlsbad in a Signature Restaurant. I won't put the name of it though because celebs go there and I don't need peeps tryin' to get in the mix. I make good money and hold mine down.Some of my interests: tattoos (I have 5), piercings(my tongue and left ear) music (all kinds), movies (especially horror and action), books (mostly sci-fi) and I love sports. I work out just about every other day and I go to school for Teaching. I love kids and I want to teach someday. XOXOXOXOXOXOI believe in Jesus Christ, knowing that every day I fall short of being worthy of God's grace. I don't stop trying though. I pray for Him to work on my heart and make me what He wants me to be. So may God bless you in all your endeavors and please feel free to hit me up. XOXOXOXXOOI love children and have 4 of my own. I would love to teach, but I'm still not sure. I want to get in to computer crimes to help protect them, so maybe that will be my calling. I can play with children all day and I can relate to them so well that I can't imagine life without them. XOXOXOXOXOTHE KIND OF WOMAN I AM LOOKING FOR:: The kind of woman who thinks of what I might need, before I need it... Who has a bright, sincere smile and "hello" for me when I get home... Who will be there for me in all the good times as well as the bad, who will be my support during those hard times and my refuge in those harder times... who will see me as her other half and be proud to be my better half... Who will stand beside me in everything, face the world at my side as my partner, Who will tell me everything on her mind and not keep secrets from me, who will be confident in the knowledge that everytime I look at her I am looking at the most beautiful thing in the known universe and falling in love all over again each time... To be my own personal celebrity... Someone whose eyes I can look into and see the next fifty years there... Someone who won`t run out on me at the first sign of trouble... Who can respect what I do and who I am... Who will let me grow with her, learn from her and learn from me too... Who can challenge me and help me grow into a better person... Who knows that I am not perfect but still believes that I am perfect for her... who can`t wait to feel my touch, to hear my voice, who can`t wait to dance with me, knowing that God didn`t put any dance in me....


Myspace Codes: MyNiceSpace.com


Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:
Your propensity for monogamy is medium.
In general, you prefer to have only one love interest.
Experience Level:
Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!
Dominance:
Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!
Cynicism:
Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.
Independence:
Your independence is low.
This doesn't mean you're dependent in relationships..
It does mean that you don't have any problem sharing your life.
In your opinion, the best part of being in love is being together. The Five Variable Love Test"As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back." xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxThe re is no emotion; there is peace. There is no ignorance; there is knowledge. There is no passion; there is serenity. There is no death; there is the Force. -Jedi Code


Myspace Codes: MyNiceSpace.com

*********Anything else you would like to know, please feel free to message me!
You Are a Dreaming Soul
Your vivid emotions and imagination takes you away from this world
So much so that you tend to live in your head most of the time
You have great dreams and ambitions that could be the envy of all...
But for you, following through with your dreams is a bit difficult
You are charming, endearing, and people tend to love you.
Forgiving and tolerant, you see the world through rose colored glasses.
Underneath it all, you have a ton of passion that you hide from others.
Always hopeful, you tend to expect positive outcomes in your life.
Souls you are most compatible with: Newborn Soul, Prophet Soul, and Traveler Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?   

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My Interests

I eat like a bird, but when it comes to Weinerschnitzel, i can eat sooo many Chili cheese dogs that its Fkin gross. Sports, weight lifting, pool, bowling, handball, Driving, drinking every now and then, HALO 2, writing, tattoos (I have 5 now, been worked on 6 times by 5 different artists) and i am about to go and get 4 more, Earth, wind, water and fire tats, piercings (my ear was pierced, my tongue is pierced, i'm thinking about piercing my lip too), movies (all genres) and music (all types). o and I do some drawing too. I've drawn most of my own tattoos and have lots more in sketches...test

I'd like to meet:


Create Your Own!MARC ANTHONY, JOHNNY DEPP, GEORGE CARLIN, CHARLIZE THERON, JESUS CHRISTI'm A CANCER YAY!!! Cancer, the fourth sign of the zodiac, the sign characterized by deep feelings and protectiveness. I am known for being nurturing, hospitable, and imaginative, and all my effort goes into making my home a safe place for me and the people I cherish. The Moon, is the ruler of my sign, and makes me a very intuitive and empathetic person. Like the ebb and flow of the tides, I am both receptive to those who love and willing to offer comfort in return;Being the first of the water signs you have psychic powers, and are able to sense feelings and thoughts in others - you feel rather than think. When you love someone, you love truly and deeply, and have the desire to connect on a profound level. As a Cancer, you rule the fourth house, the sector of the horoscope that describes your emotional roots, your home, your childhood, and your parent of lesser influence, usually your father. Most of all, the fourth house stands for attunement to your inner self. Your sign is a cardinal sign, which means that your parental instincts compel you to protect and fight for the security of your loved ones. You thrive on drama, and get stronger in situations of crisis. Your strengths lie in your ability to adapt and cooperate, and your wonderful way of providing comfort. You are devoted and selfless in your dealings with others, which makes you a very dependable person. Since you are attuned to your unconscious, you have a strong imagination and are in touch with your intuition. One of your weaknesses is that you can get hypersensitive and moody when someone fails to show you their love and appreciation. In situations of insecurity, you sometimes show immature, manipulative, and even tyrannical behavior, and others could see you as overly possessive

Music:

All kinds... some faves; Sade, Keith Sweat, U2, Nas, Gloria Estefan, Al Green

Movies:

Star Wars (Original trilogy), Lord of the Rings trilogy, Taxi, Four Brothers, The Longest Yard, West Side Story, the Notebook, Spanglish, Troy, Shaw Brothers Kung Fu Flicks ....

Television:

Cheers, Friends, Married W Children, Frasier, Seinfeld, SNL, Mad TV, In Living Color, Monk, CSI, SVU

Books:

The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Star Wars New Jedi Order, most books movies are based on

Heroes:

My Uncle Leo, my grandpa

My Blog

Can't you see?

Can't you see what you've done to me? You spit on my face and step on my neck... You promised me you'd keep it real, Instead I'm having to get in your grill and keep you in check. Why you running arou...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 03:10:00 PST

God's 2 boxes

God's Boxes I have in my hands two boxes, Which God gave me to hold. He said, "Put all your sorrows in the black box, And all your joys in the gold." I heeded His words, and in the two boxes, Both my ...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Wed, 31 Jan 2007 11:54:00 PST

Whats up in the Hood?

So I go outside today and what do  I find? The craziest situation that just blew my mind... Homie next door got caught with his pants down... Now his Old Lady gonna run him out of town! He brough...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Mon, 29 Jan 2007 01:22:00 PST

deadly sins

Your Deadly Sins Lust: 40% Pride: 20% Sloth: 20% Wrath: 20% Envy: 0% Gluttony: 0% Greed: 0% Chance You'll Go to Hell: 14% You'll die from overexertion. *wink* How'>http://www.blogthings.com/howsinfula...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Thu, 25 Jan 2007 09:42:00 PST

Changing majors!

Well, the VA won't pay for me to take italian because I have too many HUMANITIES classes as it is.  So I am switching from my networking major to an Education major, which was already my long-ter...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Thu, 25 Jan 2007 09:38:00 PST

speaking english

Your Linguistic Profile: 55% General American English 20% Dixie 15% Yankee 5% Upper Midwestern 0% Midwestern What'>http://www.blogthings.com/whatkindofamericanenglishdoyouspea kquiz/">What Kind of Amer...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Tue, 23 Jan 2007 02:00:00 PST

Don't ask me to

Don't ask me to be something I'm not... Ask something else. Anything! What? I am who I am, I am what God made me... Accept it or leave it, Love me or Hate me. Whatever you do, please don't a...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 01:53:00 PST

Tell me why

Can anybody step up and tell me to my face,Why is that I can never find my place?I don't make many friends,No matter how many "thank you" cards I send...I don't have a place to call home,Not even amon...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Mon, 15 Jan 2007 06:23:00 PST

whats in a kiss?

What's in a kiss?   A kiss should be deep, It should be long, It should be strong& You should be able to feel me& Deep in your soul, Deep in your bones& A kiss is more than a moment, It's a mess...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Mon, 23 Oct 2006 09:33:00 PST

Love for Love

It's supposed to be a two way street...Massages at night, me rubbing your feet...You laying down in bed next to me,Just feeling your presence, no need to give sex to me.Breathing you in, smelling your...
Posted by I'm not a straw so stop suckin' me on Wed, 11 Oct 2006 11:53:00 PST