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T-A-N-Y-A

Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.

About Me



My Interests


I'd like to meet:

IF A MAN WANTS YOU If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............

Music:

I am VERY ecclectic when it comes to music. I was raised and trained in school to appreciate ALL types of genres. So I do not discriminate and LOVE to channel surf. If the sound catches my ear... I groove. If not, I move. I ALSO am quite the musician. I have played the piano for approximately 28yrs now... and not many people KNOW this... but I DO compose and enjoy making the occassional BEAT. I Teach music and it IS and always WILL be my first LOVE.

Movies:


Your True Love Is a Gemini
Why you'll love a Gemini:

Witty and sharp, a Gemini can keep up with your fast (and ever changing) mind.
You're both fun loving and free spirits. You and a Gemini can enjoy each other without expectations.

Why a Gemini will love you:

Not only can you keep up with a Gemini's sharp tongue, you can introduce a challenge or two...
You're appetite for fun and novelty will keep a Gemini interested - at least for a bit longer than usual! What Sign Is Your True Love?I'm open to watching ANYTHING. Whatever the mood...it's ONa

Television:

Law & Order, ER, My name is EARL, The Apprentice, ANYTHING on TVLAND, Dog the 'bounty' hunter, CARTOONS, I'm a closet-NOGGIN fan (ya so what! ~Degrassi ROCKS~), A&E, LIFETIME, VH1..... ETC...
You Are a Visionary Soul
You are a curious person, always in a state of awareness.
Connected to all things spiritual, you are very connected to your soul.
You are wise and bright: able to reason and be reasonable.
Occasionally, you get quite depressed and have dark feelings.
You have great vision and can be very insightful.
In fact, you are often profound in a way that surprises yourself.
Visionary souls like you can be the best type of friend.
You are intuitive, understanding, sympathetic, and a good healer.
Souls you are most compatible with: Old Soul and Peacemaker Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?
Who Should Paint You: M.C. Escher
Open and raw, you would let your true self show for your portrait.
And even if your painting turned out a bit dark, it would be honest. What Artist Should Paint Your Portrait?
Your Aura is Blue
Spiritual and calm, you tend to live a quiet but enriching life.
You are very giving of yourself. And it's hard for you to let go of relationships.
The purpose of your life: showing love to other people
Famous blues include: Angelina Jolie, the Dali Lama, Oprah
Careers for you to try: Psychic, Peace Corps Volunteer, Counselor What Color Is Your Aura?

Books:

*The Bible*, Learning from the Tanya, Martha Stewart CookBooks,DSM-IV, Anything by Staci Ballis :)a

Heroes:


You are Hulk Hulk 75% Iron Man 75% Catwoman 70% The Flash 65% Green Lantern 60% Spider-Man 55% Supergirl 50% Wonder Woman 50% Robin 50% Superman 45% Batman 45% You are a wanderer with
amazing strength.
Click here to take the Superhero Personality Test
Take the quiz:
what type of dog are you (with pics)

germen shepherd
Congrats your the german shepherd a loyal friendly fun and active dog but laid back all at the some time

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My Blog

Life is up 2 me .

 Happy Vacation to me!  I'm still workin' these days off... and Honestly.. it's gonna take an army to get me to go BACK to work on Friday.  Sleepin' in and getting up to do absolutely n...
Posted by T-A-N-Y-A on Mon, 16 Apr 2007 09:08:00 PST

U Tell me

I don't know what 2 do..... So I guess I will do nothing.
Posted by T-A-N-Y-A on Sun, 11 Mar 2007 08:50:00 PST

Why Bother?

I give up. People just don't think.  And honestly.... I just can't understand why it is SO difficult to just mean what you say. To follow through.  TO REALLY GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO...
Posted by T-A-N-Y-A on Thu, 08 Mar 2007 12:46:00 PST

ME

 WHY.... Y do ppl bother when they don't really mean what they say?
Posted by T-A-N-Y-A on Sun, 25 Feb 2007 06:39:00 PST

DECEMBER

Yes everyone.  It's here.  December.  Cold. SNOW. I LOVE IT!!!! I hope everyone is warm and SAFE.  Get that shopping done!   Christmas & my Birthday Extravaganza is ...
Posted by T-A-N-Y-A on Sat, 02 Dec 2006 10:51:00 PST