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CARL/COLD

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

Much luv goes out to my fellow West Charlotte LIONS (class of 1993), North Carolina Agricultural & Technical State University AGGIES (class of 1997-BA), George Washington University COLONIALS (class of 2003-MFA) and to the one, the only PHIRST PHAMILY, PHI-SKEE!!!! and 00006-00008!!!!
ALPHA PHI ALPHA
First of all...celebrating over 100 years of service.
Beta Nu Lambda born. Omicron Lambda Alpha matured.
Celebration 10 years of being active and financial this year!
All Greeks quit making excuses and get active & financial! Annual dues are just like rent...as constant as the North Star. You know the time is coming so why do you keep acting surprised? Start saving now for next year. And do what you can do! We all have lives..work, family & friends...a little is better than nothing. No one made you pledge...that was YOUR decision!
I am a Graphic Designer, an Artist and an Educator. Also, learning more about Photography everyday! Who said you could only follow one path? Plus, I was told never to rely on one source of income. The worse feeling is perpetually returning to a job that you hate just because the bills are due. To quote the raven, "Never More."
I'm a NC boy in the DC area - Man I miss Waffle House! Finally a number of Bojangles are being spotted...those buscuits be calling me.
I love to cook...I was taught that when you get older and ya wife gets upset she is gonna hold out in two areas, the cook..n and sex...you can live a couple of days without the sex but ya gotta eat everyday. So when I get married and my wife gets upset, I'm cooking her favorite dish...but only enough for me! LOL
But seriously...I am not the guy that is going to deplete his savings to impress a girl. You need a job and do expect to front the bill from time-to-time. Men have financial goals just like women. Its selfish to expect the other to always treat. Sorry, I've served my time...no more broke women.
I think relationships are going done hill because every is so concerned with what the other has to offer. What do you have to offer? Its a partnership. We all have room to improve.
And now for a quick public service announcement...
Folks, move out of ya parents house...open a saving account...look for legal tax breaks (Uncle Sam is taking too much too often)...put down the video game joystick and join a gym/stay active...if you're hooked on name brand clothes, there is nothing wrong with the sales rack...don't live life competing with your friends/family...guys, a woman truly can't be considered a dime if she doesn't have a good personality and can't hold a conversation...ladies, all bad guys don't show it initially. How many times has a guy come up to you and said, "Hello Miss. I am a pathological liar, I have 2 kids with 3 baby mamas and I love to beat my women. Can I call ya sometime?"...and always carry ID! Some of us always fit the description when 5-0 is on the block. "He was a short, tall, skinny, fat, young, old, light, dark, black man."

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

I'm on here to reconnect with lost friends and don't mind making new ones along the way.

Music:

I can't stop playing Masta Ace! They don't make 'em like they used to. For all of those in need of some real hip hop go pick up Pete Rock and CL Smooth - Main Ingredient. You can thank me later...

My music choice is mostly underground - The Roots (We missed you Malik B!), Tanya Morgan, Little Brother, Murs, Kev Brown, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Slum Village, Black Milk, De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest, B.R. Gunna, Phat Kat, Jay Dee/J Dilla, Jean Grae, Dwele, Esthero, Res, Martin Luther, Gym Class Heroes, Sade, Terri & Monica, Joss Stone, Amerie, Goapele, Rebekah Jordan, Corinne Bailey Rae, Jazzyfatnastees and Les Nubians.

I still have luv for the rest but the radio play ..em until you hate ..em.

Oh and can..t leave out Linkin Park, Lenny Kravitz and Nikka Costa...don..t hate on the Rock. Music is music!

Movies:

Anything by Mel Brooks.

Television:

Mostly comedies but Sundays are reserved for football! Go Carolina PANTHERS!!!

Books:

I'm trying not to read much this year. I need to focus on my artwork! I'll wait till the movie come out...

Heroes:

My family...life has been hard at times on many of us but we keep fighting thru it.