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Shani Marie

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me


I am a walking contradiction. I am subdued yet aggressive; passionate yet platonic; narcissistic yet charitable. What you see is not always what you will get. I am a Libra in every sense of the word. I try to be fair in all situations, but let those scales tip and watch out.I am a single mom to a 14yr old amazing young lady. I am cheer mom, pageant mom, modeling mom, you name it. There are big things in that girl's future...and I'm working my tail off to make sure it all comes true for her!


Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So I plan on loving the people who treat me right and forgetting about the ones who don't.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

I am willing to meet anyone who is down to earth...knows what they want...and then actually has a plan on how to GET IT!!! There's always a catch right?? HA!
Strong men pay special attention...I'm very independent & that can be mistaken for arrogance or contolling. Weak men get their feelings hurt but I believe a strong man can handle me...Guess we will have to see.

My Blog

Resolve

2008 is here:  The start of a new year and a new outlook for many people.  I've read many blogs and blurbs over the last week and there is one thing I keep seeing that really bothers me. &nb...
Posted by on Fri, 04 Jan 2008 08:36:00 GMT

Myspace Observations

I enjoy each of my friends pages on Myspace. Lots of them I look at daily. What many of u don't know is I'm a page digger. I will look at a friend on your page...then look at one of their friends...et...
Posted by on Fri, 19 Oct 2007 18:26:00 GMT

The One that Got Away

Typical story&.boy meets girl.  Boy and girl connect and start to create something&maybe something small, maybe something much greater.  Then, for whatever reason, boy and girl are no longer...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Apr 2007 07:57:00 GMT

Where I am...

I haven't written anything in awhile and thought it was time.  As some of you may know, my father has been very ill for several weeks.  He got the flu, which settled into double pneumonia.&n...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Mar 2007 09:06:00 GMT

In the Blink of an Eye

I heard something this morning that really got me thinking.  The person said "In the time it takes to blink your eyes, your thoughts change."   That is so true.  In just the blink of an...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Feb 2007 08:03:00 GMT

Preference or Deal Breaker

Question...... When do "preferences" cross over into "deal breakers"?  If you prefer to date someone that doesn't smoke, and meet a person that has ALL the qualities you are looking for, do you ...
Posted by on Tue, 23 Jan 2007 14:40:00 GMT

A Tip!!!

I am feeling much better by the way.  I think I'm always so laid back and in a good mood when I get grumpy it freaks people out.  Give me ONE DAY people!!!  LOL  It's the 1st in ma...
Posted by on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 07:57:00 GMT

Unnecessary MySpace Competition

Since my short tenure on MySpace, I have had several thousand views of my page....THANKS FOR EACH ONE!! That being said, please don't read too much into my page nor the contents of my friends list.&nb...
Posted by on Mon, 12 Jun 2006 13:10:00 GMT

OK MYSPACE WOMEN!!! GET IT TOGETHER!!!!

Ok...I will make this short and sweet. If you are a woman on myspace...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, for the love of Pete...decide if you want to show your boobs or your kids in your pictures!!! I am really g...
Posted by on Fri, 14 Apr 2006 08:07:00 GMT

Ten Commandments for a Long and Peaceful Life

I have this newspaper clipping on my fridge, and I have for years.  When I feel overloaded, I read it.  Hope it can bring some clarity to you as well.   1. Thou shalt not worry, for wor...
Posted by on Sun, 19 Feb 2006 14:37:00 GMT