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RayRay

Im Engaged!

About Me

I just got engaged New Years Day 2007 to my wonderful boyfriend Steve. It was one of the most special moments of my life. We are planing to have a wedding in October or December of this year in New Jersey. For those of you who dont know, New Jersey now has Civil Unions for gay couples. We will have all the same rights as a married couple (In New Jersey). He lives in New Jersey now but will be moving to Atlanta to be with me. He will keep the home in New Jersey so we can live in both places. I would have never thought this would ever happen to me. Steve also has a 3 year old son Aaron that he adopted 2 years ago. I guess that will make me a step dad! WOW!! I will update everyone when the wedding will be. There are new Pic's of Us in the pics section.

My Interests

Who I AmI believe in the seperation of church and state and believe that any law that overturns abortion and bans gay marriage is a violation of personal privacy. I believe in God and peace, love, compassion, acceptance, and tolerance. I believe that all religions hint some sort of divine truth, becasue we only have hints in our sacred literatures. I believe Jesus was an exemplary human being and a wonderful prophet to us, but I am saddened that his followers have lost the main point of his life( and this applies to other prophets in other reliigons too).I believe in democracy and the freedoms it gives to me, such as the freedom of speech and the freedom of religion. I believe that our country is the greatest in the world, even amidst our flaws.I believe in equlity for all. It is one of our democratic prinicipals and I believe that in G-d's eyes, all of us are loved , accepted, and equal. And sure we have our flaws( homosexuality isn't one of them), but God understands us and loves us anyway. I believe in treating everyone equally no matter who they are and what they are affilated with.And, finally. I believe in love. Love that's real, strong, and lives on and on. Love is the origin of peace, and I think if we really live out Jesus's words to love our neighbor as ourselvesm then the world would be a better place. I hate to fight, hate war, and hate hatred and all the social ills associated with hatred. I love my life and treasure everyone in it. So, let's just come together as the humongous human family that we are and stop fighting.God Bless.

I'd like to meet:

The Queen of Pop herself...Madonna and Hilary Clinton!

Music:

LOVE THE DIXIE CHICKS!!!!! YOU WILL ALWAYS ROCK!!Ok...so I still love Pop music...Cant get enough of it...Madonna and Kelly clarkson! I do like some Tim McGraw and Faith Hill also! I pretty much have a wide range in music. why limit yourself to something that you never know you may have liked or not liked.

Movies:

Halloween is #1 to me. One of the best independent movies ever made! Imitation of Life is another great movie. Who could leave out Clueless, "Rolling with the Homie's". Sordid Lives, Drop Dead Gorgous and Mean Girls. Rent, Chicago and Evita!!!!And then there is Star Wars! All 6!

Television:

Lost, Greys Anatomy, Scrubs, My Name is Earl, The Office, Desperate Housewifes, SNL, Mad TV, American Idol, and So many others...Damn I watch to much TV.I like alot of the new shows. Ugly Betty, Brothers and Siters, Jerico, Studio 60 and The Class.Plus can't get enough of Days of Our Lives...25 years and still watching!

Books:

Love James Patterson books. Kiss the Girls, Along came a Spider, Roses are red and so on!

Heroes:

My older sister Tracy! I miss her so much! I will always remember that night.."Awww, Bullshit, Bullshit real good."