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Hi! My name is Kandy! I am recently separated n have 3 children; a daughter 19 n 2 sons, 18 n 14. My older children are responsible and self-sufficient. My oldest son is engaged to be married next year. I'm a full-time student steadily working towards my Master's Degree in Psychology. My family n home r personal n private to me n I don't allow many to be too involved in this area of my life... I consider my family n friends a very important aspect in life. I love my mother very much; she still saves me from my own emotions whenever I need her; I miss being right around the corner from my mom; 2 hours seems a world away! I am extremely close with my cousin Kristy and her family; she's like a sister to me; she often knows what I'm thinkin before I even tell her. And, my other cousins, we are also close n hold relationships that are very dear. Most of my friends have been in my life for many years; I consider them family. I am a very loyal person, yet every so often, I come across that person who tries to take my kindness for weakness. I've learned that it's not worth the confrontation when someone tries to take advantage of a situation; I treat them how they act, those that truly matter appreciate the person I am. I have a lack of patience for non-sense n know where to draw the line... I enjoy the better side of life n like to be kept. Hair, nails, tanning, massages, traveling; I enjoy the finer more relaxing things life has to offer. I spend at least 2 evenings a month out for dinner n cocktails. Morning coffee with family or friends is always refreshing! I always enjoy dinner out, movies, social events, n vacations; however, I also look forward to nights in with home-cooked dinner, a movie, n candles. I don't enjoy talking on the phone; texting is good, but one-to-one conversation is always the best! Music n poetry r my therapy for life... I work the full-time overnight shift in an acute psychiatric facility. I have a degree in Psychology with a concentration in psychological abnormalities. The majority of our patients r dually diagnosed; suffering with mental illness n substance abuse disorder. Our acuity can be very stressful, but its easy to manage with the reliable n loyal team we have... Note to self: She has a degree in psychology, so she evaluates everything that occurs around her; every conversation; n ur actions when dealing with her. Those people that play juvenile games; those that remain emotionally immature n have not really grown-up; she may deal with u but she does not care enough about u to allow ur antics to bother her; ever! Most often its better to find the good in the person n deal with them accordingly... The me that you meet outside of home is not all of me; I allow people to know me on the level I find acceptable for them. I do not thrive off of others approval, so I will always allow you to assume n come to your own conclusions; when u matter n show that I matter to u; than u know the real me. Until then you're on a constant interview; sometimes the interview can last years, it all depends on u...