Good Black Man
Good Black Men are indeed all around. You pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most you can't see because you don't know what a good black man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn your head. He might not wear a suit or drive a Lexus. He might not have a "body like Tyson with a Denzel face." But, as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back than someone who turns your head.A good Black Man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, yada yada he is (he won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and you may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.A good Black Man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!!"A good Black Man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that your men are no good. It's just not true.Black Women, salute us Black Men, and thank us for who we are and all we've done and will do.
On the other hand I also say this, listen and keep an open mind: "Don't hate the player hate the game and don't hate me cuz, I ain't gonna ever change. In the heat of the moment don't think, but feel cuz when you get right down to it sh!t, you've got to make her squeal. Now don't get me wrong ladies, ain't no freak you see, but when the moment comes around I'll be what you want me to be. Any true brotha knows that the fast way to a womans heart is simply being true and playing that part and any player knows that using the gentlemans art, will eventually lead to making her legs part. Like Moses and the red sea in due time I'll put your body in extacsy."
Think About It!
Simply put, I'm a young man who looks to realize his potential and then capitalize on it. Seeing as to how time waits for no man, that just makes me one impatient muthaf@cka. Those that know me well will tell you, don't let your inital impression of me fool you, my underlying layers go deeper than you can imagine. As black man looking to achieve greatness, I stay planted firm in my beliefs and open to change. "Intelligence and Faith is true strength, Adaptation and Inspiration are keys to Elevation, Vision and Action beget opportunity. A person who can use all of these can bring about CHANGE. These are the cornerstones of a strong man. These are the cornerstones of a strong woman. TAKE NOTES! Are you one?" - Ray
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Raymond
Birthday: August 30
Birthplace: Hartford
Current Location: Bloomfield
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black
Height: 5' 11"
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: Black
The Shoes You Wore Today: Red & Tan New Balances
Your Weakness: Perfectionist
Your Fears: Spiders
Your Perfect Pizza: The edible kind without anchovies
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Get rich or keep tryin
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: what the fuck
Thoughts First Waking Up: oh hell naw, what time is it
Your Best Physical Feature: I don't have one I'm perfect
Your Bedtime: Last time I checked I was 23yrs. old
Your Most Missed Memory: my father
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi, ain't "Coke" illegal
MacDonalds or Burger King: BK all day, well maybe not all day, headz ain't tyin to die
Single or Group Dates: I'm up for whatever
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton Ice Tea
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate, like me
Cappuccino or Coffee: Cappuccino (sophisticated)
Do you Smoke: why would I
Do you Swear: when the need arises
Do you Sing: who doesn't
Do you Shower Daily: If I didn't I'd be on nasty muthaf@cka
Have you Been in Love: Yeah, once
Do you want to go to College: Been there, done that
Do you want to get Married: Playing the field sounds better, for now...
Do you belive in yourself: If I don't no one else will
Do you get Motion Sickness: I don't, but the women do
Do you think you are Attractive: You damn skippy
Are you a Health Freak: naw
Do you get along with your Parents: of course
Do you like Thunderstorms: yeah, as long as it dont mess my clubin
Do you play an Instrument: Saxophone
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Past Month? I got a bottle right now
In the past month have you Smoked: I love my lungs
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Tylenol is a bitch
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Whats with this past month shit & no one dates anymore
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yesterday
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: For the record, I believe oreos come in bags
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: raw fish, naw I love my stomach
In the past month have you been on Stage: at the club
In the past month have you been Dumped: naw, not my style
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: This is New England, its too cold for that shit
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: who hasn't, "don't mean it's from a store"
Ever been Drunk: Didn't I say I gotta bottle right now!
Ever been called a Tease: Yeah, by some "VeryFine" people
Ever been Beaten up: I don't take L's
Ever Shoplifted: I'm still benchpressin, give me a minute
How do you want to Die: In my sleep
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: I'm already grown, I want to own my own company, opps I already do
What country would you most like to Visit: Africa
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Light Brown
Favourite Hair Color: Whatever looks good
Short or Long Hair: Long, I like to pull
Height: any one shorter than me (no midgets)
Weight: as long as I can pick you up (I like to wrestle)
Best Clothing Style: If I think its sexy thats all that matters
Number of Drugs I have taken: Tylenol my one and only...
Number of CDs I own: Who buys cds anymore, oh yeah me
Number of Piercings: one
Number of Tattoos: maybe, but unlike the rest of these dumbasses it will mean something significant
Number of things in my Past I Regret: To regret your past is to regret the person you become
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What's your favorite....
Beverage (non-alc) ? Sobe Green Tea
Beverage (alc) ? Absolute 100Proof
Color ? Black & Old Gold
Food ? Lasanga
Item of clothing ? Button Down's with Rolled up Cuffs
Meal of the day ? Didn't I just say Lasanga
Feature on yourself ? Heart
Quality in a guy/girl ? Understanding/Loyal
Phrase ? What's Poppin?
Song ? Good Morning - NAS
Musical Artist/Band ? Jay-Z
Sport ? Bowling
Movie ? Pirates of the Carribbean
TV Show ? Boondocks
Radio Station ? Hot 93.7 -WZMX
Type of Chocolate ? Hershey
Eye Color ? Hazel
Do you/Have you ever....
Have any pets ? My Dog "Bear"
Smoke ? I love my lungs
Drink ? Bottle(s) are always by my side
Have any piercings ? Left ear, that two ear shit is homo (no offense)
Have any tatoos ? Naw, but maybe soon
Cheat on a boyfriend/girlfriend I dont beat and tell
Had sex ? Never enough experience
Gone streaking ? I'm black!
Gone skinny dipping ? Once again I'm black!!
Been to Europe ? Not yet, but I'll make it one day
Been to an island ? J.A.M.A.I.C.A.
Had stitches ? Wisdom teeth removed
Broken any bones ? Naw to strong for that
Been stabbed/shot ? Hell Naw!, when has it been cool to get shot and not shoot back!
Slept until after 12:00 ? Every weekend
Stayed up all night ? Once again every weekend
Danced like a whore ? Like I said every weekend
Hooked up with 2 people in one weekend ? Almost every weekend
Turned down a dare ? Never, I'm a daring kind of guy!
Which friend....
Is the funniest ? Lump
Is the prettiest ? Jeanine
Is the most handsom ? No Homo
Is the loudest ? Omi
Is the craziest ? Omi
Is the most shy ? JT
Is the most loving ? Katrice
Is the most understanding ? John
Is the most boring ? We all "live wires"!
Is the richest ? Me, money aint everything
Is the most athletic ? B Grier
Is the most cocky ? Danny
Is the biggest sex icon ? Tied between Danny A.K.A. Banks & Chris A.K.A. Didd
Is the most wordly/cultured ? Me
Do you look up to the most ? God, Mom, MLK Jr., and myself from time to time
Do you tell everything to ? Katrice and James
Has the best clothes ? Danny
Has the best house ? Kytara
Would you ever....
Eat pizza with chocolate chips ? How far is the hospital?
Kiss someone of the same sex ? NO HOMO!!!
Cheat on someone you love ? Love is rare, I've only loved one, and Definitely No!
Run away from home ? To College
Lie to your parents ? When its necessary
Lie to your boyfriend/girlfriend ? ONLY When I feel its necessary
Lie to your best friend ? What for, they're the best friend, they'd know I was lying anyway
Give a homeless person money ? yeah, when I could afford it
Run from the police ? I'm too smooth for that
Bungee jump ? Again, I'm black we dont do extreme sports
Sky dive ? B.L.A.C.K. Hell no!!!
Cross dress ? NO HOMO!!! whats with the gay questions???
Be an exotic dancer ? At every party, to every sexy chick in the room
Walk out of a restaurant without paying ? Been there done that, might even do it tonight
Scuba dive ? Yeah, in Jamaica
Go rock climbing ? Yeah, in New Hampshire
Go spulunking (caving) ? Naw, have you seen the "Descent"
What do you think of when you hear....
Eminem ? Black man stuck in a white mans body
Bologna ? Fried and on a sandwich
Hott ? Sexy PYT, that needs some d.i.c....K?
Orange ? Juice
Real world ? Why watch it?
Fuck ? Women who are worth it often...
Jack ? Hammer, my new sex move
Cucumber ? replacement dildo for her when Im not there.
Hip-Hop ? Gotta Love it!
Uniform ? Mile High Club
UniCORN ! ? What?
Rainbow ? Homosexual Notification
Clown ? I hate them all!
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