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Sk8rMoM the DoMestic GoDDess

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About Me


If I could dance on this page I would. No one else can dance your dance, no one else can sing your song, no one else can write your story. I try my hardest each day to be a positive force in the world. Sometimes I am quiet and introspective. Sometimes I am playful and mischievous. I think a lot, and I feel a lot; wouldn't want it any other way. I usually have a plan, love the family scene, enjoy being productive, and like SOME routine within my busy, active life. Balance is very important to me. I have five areas: Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, Physical, and Financial which I try to maintain and they are mandatory for my well-being. I am very grateful for everything my life has brought me. I have made it my philosophy to learn from every experience I have had, and to incorporate that into who I am. I am very indecisive about simple things like where to go eat, what to wear or what movie to go see. However, when it comes to my life, I move toward my goals everyday. I believe everything happens for a reason and that makes rough times easier and the good times better. I am a proud mother of two children, Trent and Savannah...they are my world! They keep me balanced and make me strive to be my best. I am a very caring and compassionate person for those that are willing to let me be me , appreciate our differences...and wont f*ck with my life. I pretty much try to stay away from negative people and drama as life is full of that already. I have found that there are some people in your life that are either not good for you or try to hurt you for no clear reason and that the best defense is to continue being the person that makes YOU proud. I for one am not proud when I am hateful or bitter, life is too short (Thanks Danielley) .... Other that that, make your own judgment... NEVER prejudge ANYONE!!!! get to know someone first..... A successful fulfilled life is not measured by how much money you have made..but how many lives you have touched, or what type of person you are. Learn from your past, live the present, and dream of the future. Remember the only thing between bitter and better is the "I." I thank God everyday for my blessings, my family, my friends, my health, and my ability to do the things I can do everyday. There are two eternities that can break you down. Yesterday and Tomorrow. One is gone and the other doesn't exist... "So live today".
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My Interests


Working on the new house, BBQing, being at home, Intense conversations, Sunday mornings, thrift stores, dancing, working out, hot baths, candles...lots of candles and incense, meditation...(cant survive with out it or daily DOWN time; gotta have it), board games, singing (I have a jovious voice, but cant hold a tune...oh well, still love it) , swimming, yoga, bike riding, camping, hiking (I hike most Saturday mornings during the spring, summer, and Fall at Embudido Canyon...up a beautiful mountain stream; your welcome to join me anytime) , the mountains, the beach, the rain, being in the woods, Anything outside really, live music, social change, meeting new people, reading, learning, traveling, occasional solitude, learning to skateboard, and most importantly, hanging out with my teenage children and all of their friends who keep me feeling young and who I consider to be my children as well.

I'd like to meet:

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I'm with the love of my life and childhood sweetheart so I am here to reconnect with old friends and hopefully meet some new ones....fun, genuine, supportive people with a positive outlook on life. I love passionate people who are excited to be alive. I can be a real bitch sometimes but when I love, I love to no end... I love My Space!! It is the best place to network, meet up with my friends and just have a great time! I truly appreciate your time viewing my page… Best Wishes to YOU!

Music:

I'm eclectic in my collection. Loving anything from Classical, to Blues, to Metal; anything with a powerful message. I LOVE the Delilah show on 99.5 and Smooth Jazz 104.7 for relaxing and dining, up-tempo electronica for energy, or Marilyn Manson when I'm having a bad day. Gypsy Kings while cooking Mexican food, Cajun while cooking Cajun, and you get the idea. If it's got a beat and makes you want to move your body, I probably like it. My fav band... Everything but the Girl.

Movies:

Anything with Adam Sandler:)...Love him! But, I am terrified of scary movies...I once took apart and moved my entire bed in the middle of the night so it wouldn't be under a window after seeing part of SAW. I'm not sure how I got talked into watching it!!!

Books:

I LOVE to read!!!! I am currently reading A New Earth: Awakening To Your Life's Purpose. I tend to try and read five books at one time...never really works out well. I really like learning about Philosophy, spirituality, different cultures, languages, beliefs, or whatever I can. I love poetry and I am a huge nerd about learning new therapeutic techniques , so I read a lot of books about that too.

Heroes:

My children, Trent and Savannah are my hero's. They have been through so much bullshit and yet they are so stable.I love you guys sooooo much!!!
A mother who radiates self-love & self-acceptance actually VACCINATES her children against low self-esteem..." Niomi Wolf. I have two wonderful children whose unconditional love, joy and fire for life has kept me breathing when I've found myself under water...
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May You Always Be Loved.
May you find serenity and tranquility in a world you may not always understand.
May the pain you have known and the conflict you have experienced give you the strength to walk through life facing each new situation with courage and optimism.
Always know that there are those whose love and understanding will always be there, even when you feel most alone.
May you discover enough goodness in others to believe in a world of peace.
May a kind word, a reassuring touch, a warm smile be yours every day of your life, and may you give these gifts as well as receive them.
Remember the sunshine when the storm seems unending.
Teach love to those who know hate, and let that love embrace you as you go into the world.
May the teaching of those you admire become part of you, so that you may call upon them.
Remember, those whose lives you have touched and who have touched yours are always a part of you, even if the encounters were less than you would have wished.
It is the content of the encounter that is more important than its' form.
May you not become too concerned with material matters, but instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart.
Find time in each day to see the beauty and love in the world around you.
Realize that each person has limitless abilities, but each of us is different in our own way.
What you may feel you lack in one regard may be more than compensated for in another.
What you feel you lack in the present may become one of your strengths in the future.
May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility.
Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience.
May you find enough inner strength to determine your own worth by yourself, and not be dependent on another's judgments of your accomplishments.
May you always feel loved.
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Namaste is the Divine in me, honors the Divine in you- and in our Divination- we are One. so, my Journey is to exist in this place of oneness- and learn to love without condition.Its all about feeling music, loving yourself, and expressing love to those around you- its about being the bigger person, and getting up quickly each time we fall, its about feeling beautiful when we are vulnerable, its about acknowledging fear so that we may become fearless, its about honoring each other, its about laughter and knowledge, its about an open mind and an open heart and trusting yourself enough to know who to give this beautiful gift of myself to, its about me and its about you, for we are in our truest selves "ONE" ~ (collective conscience)
For attractive lips , speak words of kindness... For lovely eyes , seek out the good in people. For a slim figure , share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair , let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day. For poise , walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone... Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older,you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.

My Blog

3:00 am revisited

Ten years together and three years apart to realize that we can't live without each other. He hurt me and I couldn't forgive him. Three years ago in October we divorced. I did my best to move on bu...
Posted by Sk8rMoM the DoMestic GoDDess on Thu, 01 Nov 2007 12:54:00 PST

Savannah...My baby girl

Four more days until you start high school and I can hardly believe it.  It seems like just yesturday you were my tiny baby girl too small to wear baby clothes, so I had to dress you in doll clot...
Posted by Sk8rMoM the DoMestic GoDDess on Sat, 05 Aug 2006 11:08:00 PST

Trent...My first-born

Trent...You were the best Mother's Day present a mom could ever ask for, it has been a pleasure to share my day with you every fifteen years, especially because your the first reason I get to be honor...
Posted by Sk8rMoM the DoMestic GoDDess on Sun, 07 May 2006 10:05:00 PST

3:00 am

3 am Up all night I cry out under the full moon as it shines brightly on my skin reflecting all of the scars and lessons of my life Time moving so quickly that it seems to stand still Searching my sou...
Posted by Sk8rMoM the DoMestic GoDDess on Fri, 21 Apr 2006 12:55:00 PST