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ABOUT ME
The butterfly, a cabbage-white,
(His honest idiocy of flight)
Will never now, it is too late,
Master the art of flying straight,
Yet has- who knows so well as I?-
A just sense of how not to fly:
He lurches here and here by guess
And God and hope and hopelessness.
Even the acrobatic swift
Has not his flying-crooked gift.("Flying Crooked" Robert Burns)

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The early bird catches the worm; a stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can't pretend we haven't been told. We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to ‘seize the day'. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore, until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Franklin meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping. And that even the biggest failure, even the worst most intractable mistake beats the hell out of never trying.

(Grey's Anatomy)

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Start wearing purple, wearing purple. Start wearing purple for me now. All your sanity and wits, they will all vanish, I promise. It's just a matter of time. So start wearing purple, wearing purple. Start wearing purple for me now.
(Gogol Bordello)

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Life is not tried, it is merely survived, if you are standing outside the fire.

(Garth Brooks)

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It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us.

(Charles Dickens)

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Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness concerning all acts of initiative and creation.

There is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too.
All sorts of things occur to help one that would not otherwise have occured. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favour all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance which no man would have dreamed would come his way.
I have learned a deep respect for one of Goethe's couplets: "Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it! Boldness has genius, magic, and power in it."

(W.H. Murray)
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Is left right??

(Stephanie Ball)


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What is done out of love always takes place beyond good and evil.

(Nietzsche)


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You will make all kinds of mistakes, but as long as you are generous and true and fierce you cannot hurt the world or even seriously distress her.

(Winston Churchill)

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Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
Charity never faileth...

(Paul)

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All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.
From the ashes a fire shall be woken,
A light from the shadows shall spring;
Renewed shall be blade that was broken,
The crownless again shall be king.
(J.R.R Tolkien)

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Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

(Mohandas K. Gandhi)

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I decided to start anew - to strip away what I had been taught, to accept as true my own thinking. This was one of the best times of my life. I was alone and singularly free working on my own, unknown - no one to satisfy but myself. I began with charcoal and paper and decided not to use any color until it was impossible to do what I wanted to do in black and white. I believe it was June before I needed blue.

(Georgia O'Keefe)

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The beauty of the world...has two edges, one of laughter, one of anguish, cutting the heart asunder.

(Virginia Woolf)

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The most heartbreaking thing of all is how we cheat ourselves of the present moment.

(Pema Chodron)

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No person would injure one he truly loves.

(Spencer Kimball)

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My Blog

The Feminist In Me

Women are strong.But most of us don't know it. I have come to believe, after a long and tumultuous adolescence - which I hope will soon be over - a tragic and wonderful parade of confused identity and...
Posted by on Wed, 06 Feb 2008 22:45:00 GMT

Surgery

On Tuesday, November 6th, I checked into Sacred Heart hospital in Eugene at 9:30 AM. From approximately noon to four, I underwent major reconstructive surgery on my facial skeleton. Three procedures t...
Posted by on Fri, 09 Nov 2007 21:12:00 GMT

Now

I'm 21, and my brother's gone.He's my best. But it's ok.Because I have you...whoever you are.
Posted by on Fri, 28 Sep 2007 20:17:00 GMT

Going

So Ben's going to Brazil Salvador, and I'm going who knows where. I'm almost 21.
Posted by on Wed, 20 Jun 2007 20:14:00 GMT

Monodescript

You.Can.Only.Type.One.Word.Not as easy as you might think.1. Where is your cell phone? Nigh2. Describe your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/lover? Alienated3. Your hair? Ragged4. Your mother? Angel5...
Posted by on Sun, 08 Apr 2007 22:01:00 GMT

Then Again

Or is there everything to fear?I haven't decided yet.
Posted by on Thu, 05 Apr 2007 23:02:00 GMT

Melting Down

I am melting down to my basic elements. Finding there is no reason to fear.This is what I'm made of.This is what I'm hiding from.What I must become.
Posted by on Wed, 04 Apr 2007 11:37:00 GMT

Taking Inventory

What a fabulous five days. Chock full of my favorite people. The Erin and Curtis caravan stopped at MY house. Matthew came around for the best friendship moments of all. Lacey and Dustin came for a fu...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Apr 2007 17:12:00 GMT

Learn Valuable Survival Skill: Blind Self At Will

Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who is the willfullest one of all?Don't raise your hand! That raises my hand! I'd prefer to do my own hand-raising, thank you. So apparently, I am the willfullest one of ...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Mar 2007 23:24:00 GMT

Oh Say, What Is Truth? Inconvenient.

I now measure life in terms of escape. Escape from reality, escape from homework, escape from guilt, escape from feeling certain kinds of bad. Even escape from feeling good. I make the escape a lot. Y...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Feb 2007 22:43:00 GMT