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VAUGHNEE!!!

Damn, I'm so grown now!!!

About Me

There are so many things about me that have changed for the better and in many ways still remain the same. One thing that I realized is that my one true passion is to help others but somehow, in finding the way to live out this passion, it has become a hinderance for me. I spend so much time helping others, that I forget to help myself and that's first and foremost.
To reduce the amount of questions that may come later on with the many people that may read this profile here are some basic things about me....
My first love is public speaking. Oddly, it is one thing that people fear most over death, but not I. I love open forums, addressing audiences and just talking period. It's what I'm good at and what I like to do. Next to that is organizing. If there is one skill that no one can take away from me, that's organizing. I like to write. Its one of the first things I learned to do as child, aside from reading. I'm a sci-fi/fantasy buff. I love medival movies, Old English, mermaids, witches, faeries, knights, trolls, gnomes, all that good stuff. I'll watch the Neverending Story before I watch American Gangster. That's just the way it is :)
I love to shop, travel, eat, enjoy culture and just all-around be creative. I'm not a hard person to please and I enjoy the simple pleasures of life, such as watching the little dipper form in the sky.
I'm single but not by choice, by happenstance. Timing is everything and I'm a little too far in age to just take on a relationship with someone just cause. I have many goals, and a few of them are listed in the "My Companies" section of this profile. If your interested, check them out; however, at some point I want to be the boss, not just be "cool" with the boss.
I have an emotional, shy, fiesty, loving, freaky and playful side. Some people have been afforded the opportunity to experience all of them, others have experienced some and the rest haven't even gotten that close. It's all in who I chose to let in "my space".
There are four life lessons that I have learned this year that I believe are valuable to everyone: (1) When opportunities comes your way, be on time, (2) Many of the jewels we call friends have a specific purpose in our lives, choose what it is and let it be; (3) To be on time is to be late but to early is to be on time and (4) Do not be afraid to do what makes you happy, even if it means cutting people off.
By no means am I perfect, like everyone, I still have many things to improve on; however, I am proud of myself for realizing what they are and working towards the improvements. Although I slip out sometimes, I am truly in a good place, what would really cap it off, is finishing my Masters degree and getting the event planning job of my dreams!
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My Interests



You Are An ENFP
The Inspirer

You love being around people, and you are deeply committed to your friends.
You are also unconventional, irreverent, and unimpressed by authority and rules.
Incredibly perceptive, you can usually sense if someone has hidden motives.
You use lots of colorful language and expressions. You're quite the storyteller!

In love, you are quite the charmer. And you are definitely willing to risk your heart.
You often don't follow through with your flirting or professed feelings. And you do break a lot of hearts.

At work, you are driven but not a workaholic. You just always seem to enjoy what you do.
You would make an excellent entrepreneur, politician, or journalist.

How you see yourself: compassionate, unselfish, and understanding

When other people don't get you, they see you as: gushy, emotional, and unfocused What's Your Personality Type?

I'd like to meet:


Music:

I adore R&B, what can be called neo-soul, true hip-hop, some alternative rock, gospel, a little blues, american and brazilian jazz...

Movies:

My fav movie is definitely "Ray"..."Cruel Intentions" and "The Matrix"

Television:

TV Shows I watch...My favs, "Sex In the City", "Girlfriends", "Design on a Dime" or anything on HGTV for that fact, "Carnivale", "Charmed", "Boston Legal", "Law and Order", "The Apprentice" and "Top Model"Ladies and Gents..."I Don't Need a Hook" Heavy Vee...

Books:

Favorite Books The ones that kept my interest..."Parable of the Sower", "Kindred" and "There Eyes Were Watching God"....I like any Sci-fi or literary fiction...

Heroes:

My Heroes Just simply God and my Mom...

My Blog

Im Grown Now

Hmmm...that little girl Tiffany (whatever the heck her last name is) said it best....I'm grown now! We're all grown now, right? So if we are SOOOO grown, why is it that we continue to allow people who...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Tue, 27 May 2008 06:46:00 PST

Just Some Thought In My MInd

So I hear folks saying all the time..."Wait for your 'season'", "Your 'season' will come. Ok, so my season comes and it goes...then what? Wait for "another season"? Not really. See, what I've learned ...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Fri, 17 Aug 2007 08:29:00 PST

21 Questions

Had you on my mind. Wondering how your day is going, the errands you seem to run day in and day out.   Contemplating on purpose, I came across some thoughts that I wanted to share. 21 Question...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Thu, 12 Jul 2007 01:50:00 PST

Death of a Legacy

So what's going on here? Why is it that our Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs) seem as if they are on the brink of distinction? As a graduate of Clark Atlanta University, I take prid...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Wed, 16 May 2007 03:04:00 PST

Words of Hopeless Affection

So what's on my mind?   You and everyone else I deal with on occasion. Living the single life aint easy and you make it even harder for me. Never asked you to be my man, just a little slap on th...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Mon, 02 Apr 2007 12:31:00 PST

The Plea of a Queen

Black man, black man, why have you forsaken me?! Our bloodline traces a path of love, unity and strength, so why in this time In this century have you forsaken me?  You constantly trick me with...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Mon, 05 Mar 2007 08:05:00 PST

How I Loathe the Letter "D"

This aint no Seasame Street thang. I'm not trying to broaden my horizons but lately my bra seems to be moving up the alphabet charts without warning. I wonder how God made us women to expand so far an...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Mon, 26 Feb 2007 07:51:00 PST

Vague Interpretation or Clear Miss-Just Saying What's On My Mind

I've always known that I was different. Nothing too out of the ordinary, just...different. My look was different, my speech was different, my family dynamic was different. All the years of trying to f...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Thu, 04 Jan 2007 08:35:00 PST

Day or Night

Ok so what's the problem? Why is it that guys these days have an issue with hanging out with females during the day? Ladies, I know I'm not the only one. The constant phone calls day and in ...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Sun, 31 Dec 2006 06:30:00 PST

The Myspace Playa

Yo, yo! Whas good homie, whas good pimpin...my Myspace Playa. See you trying to save me as your friend. Telling me how beautiful I am, how my poetry is hot..nigga I think not! You say the same shit to...
Posted by VAUGHNEE!!! on Sat, 04 Nov 2006 05:38:00 PST