I would like to meet MEN. Preferably African American men, but hey who ever I fall in love with, I'm satisfied. But I'm picky about my men. I like them tall, no less than 6ft., he has to have a cleanliness about himself. When I say that, I mean, hair cut or hair braided and edged up. I don't like my men looking trashy while I'm looking like class. If I take a few hours out of my day to look good for you while I'm in your presence then you should do the same for me. I love MEN who respect themselves as well as women. They have to have something going for them, like a good job, or at least in college and working. They have to have a car. I'm sorry but I don't feel like hauling you around everytime we go out, and no you're not driving my car. In other words what I'm trying to get at is that I don't want a lazy man in my life. I've had my share of those, and it didn't work for me.