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Lung Cancer Awareness
I have some very strong opinions about smoking. If you watched your mom waste away from cancer far too young and knew it could have been prevented, you'd have some strong opinions about it too. I don't buy that crap that everyone has to die of something. Don't put the people you love through that. If you smoke, please do whatever it takes to quit. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for the people you would be leaving behind.
My mom passed away on Valentine's Day 2005 from lung cancer. I can't even begin to describe the pain I constantly feel. I'm only just starting to feel like I have some kind of hope again. What else can I say...it seems that lately the best way to describe myself is to talk about who I am now that I have lost her...but I also know that her unconditional love for me has and always will shape me even more than my grief.
One click on this site every day helps donate bowls of food to animal shelters. It's free to you and paid for by advertisers.
Please make a donation to this animal rescue organization who has helped me adopt out the puppies and their mom I rescued!! I couldn't have done it without Stray Atlanta.
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Somewhere out there is a unique place for you to help others - a unique life role for you to fill that only you can fill. - Thomas Kinkade
Do not look where you fell, but where you slipped. - African Proverb
Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here. - Marianne Williamson
In all people, there are two sets of feelings: one is fear, the other is love. If there is fear, then we shrink as a person. But love, wow! That can move mountains! - Jorgen Roed
Adversity is the stuff that shows whether you are what you thought you were. -American Proverb
The world is round and the place which may seem like the end may also be only the beginning. -Ivy Baker Priest
No matter what situation you are in right now, there is a purpose to that situation. By working with the specific conditions in front of you, you will begin to discover things about yourself that will give you clues to the next step. Your job will be to look, listen, feel, choose, and act. -Carol Adrienne
We enjoy warmth because we have been cold.
We appreciate light because we have been in darkness.
By the same token, we can experience joy because we have known sadness.
- David Weatherford
Do the thing you believe in. Do the best you can in the place where you are and be kind. - Scott Nearing
Live for something - do good, and leave behind you a monument of virtue that the storms of time can never destroy. - Thomas Chalmers
Charm strikes the sight, but merit wins the soul. - Alexander Pope
A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world: everyone you meet is your mirror. - Ken Keyes, Jr.
Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact. - William James
Every individual makes a difference. We cannot live through a single day without making an impact on the world around us. And we all have free choice - what sort of difference do we want to make? Do we want to make the world around us a better place? Or not? - Jane Goodall, wildlife researcher
Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man will not himself find peace. - Albert Schweitzer
I will prepare and someday my chance will come. - Abraham Lincoln
There are some things which cannot be learned quickly, and time, which is all we have, must be paid heavily for their acquiring. - Ernest Hemingway, Death in the Afternoon
When you rule your mind, you rule your world. When you choose your thoughts, you choose results. - Imelda Shanklin, writer
The happy and efficient people in this world are those who accept trouble as a normal detail of human life and resolve to capitalize on it when it comes along. - H. Bertram Lewis
The average dog is a nicer person than the average person. - Andy Rooney
There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face. - Bern Williams My favorite poem:
Solace
by Dorothy Parker
There was a rose that faded young;
I saw its shattered beauty hung
Upon a broken stem.
I heard them say, "What need to care
With roses budding everywhere?"
I did not answer them.
There was a bird brought down to die;
They said, "A hundred fill the sky-
What reason to be sad?"
There was a girl whose lover fled;
I did not wait the while they said,
"There's many another lad."
My pirate name is: Calico Jenny Flint
Often indecisive, you can't even choose a favorite color. You're apt to follow wherever the wind blows you, just like Calico Jack Rackham, your namesake. Like the rock flint, you're hard and sharp. But, also like flint, you're easily chipped, and sparky. Arr!
Get your own pirate name from fidius.org.
Which are you? FANTASIA

You don't apologize for anything. And why would you? You've had to battle through too many tough times to worry about what other people think of you. That's why you don't mind attention: whether it's having the cutest outfit at the party or the biggest singing voice on Idol. You never forget what matters most to you, though, and that's your loved ones. If you feel like you're not getting the respect you deserve, you can - and will - stand up for yourself. Just remember to choose your battles and save your energy for the things you truly care about.
Take this quiz.

My Interests


Okay, hands down, this is one of the funniest things I have EVER seen in my life - set to one of the greatest songs I've ever heard. Enjoy...
One of the best commercials ever!!

The other best commercial ever!

My interests are...singing, drawing and painting, decorating (eclectic cottage style, Shabby Chic, modern country, IKEA), animals, makeup, graphic design, the Jumble, psychic/supernatural stuff, reading, writing, grammar!
I have three cats and three dogs - they're my babies. I'm with the most wonderful guy who reminds me every day that real love does exist; he is always sweet to me and his patience is seemingly endless. I love kids, and all I ever really wanted to be was a mom...I hope I can be half as good at it as mine was. But I am a busy mom to my pets and a very proud aunt!
I have a severe addiction to buying makeup. It's like crack.
My relationship with God is important to me. My views on certain spiritual things have changed somewhat through my life experiences and just over time, but that doesn't mean I have let go of him.
I'm very wordy and long-winded when I write (not when I talk); most people compliment the way I use words, and some criticize me for being too lengthy, but it's who I am. I think words can be very beautiful, powerful, and healing.
Two of my biggest wishes for the world are for every girl and woman to be happy with herself and feel pretty, strong, confident, and capable and for all animals to be safe and loved. It makes me mad when people say, "You can't save them all." No, I can't, but I can do my part and save one or a few. Evil happens when good people do nothing.

I'd like to meet:

Other "motherless daughters" and people with similar interests as mine. Rap Cat. My future daughter someday. So far, the really cool famous people I've met are Joy Williams, Clay Crosse, Jaci Velasquez, Jimmy Wayne, and The Wreckers. :) Oh, yeah, I also met the voice of Space Ghost (George Lowe).
I would give anything to be reunited with Lauren Maney...I've never forgotten you and will find you someday. I promise.

Music:

Joy Williams, Julie Roberts, Clay Aiken, Jimmy Wayne, Faith Hill, Martina McBride, Jessica Andrews, Keith Urban, SHeDAISY, Billy Currington, Rick Trevino, Rascal Flatts, Bethany Dillon, Rachael Lampa, The Wilshires, Third Day, Aslyn, Ritchie Valens, Clay Crosse, Jake/TAP, Nichole Nordeman, Natalie Grant, Jaci Velasquez, Lari White, Abba, Tanya Gordon, Dixie Chicks, Donovan, Maroon 5, Duran Duran, Zac Brown Band, The Wreckers (country with an edge - lots of songs about getting out of unhealthy relationships and girl power!!!), Taylor Swift, OneRepublic, pretty much any finalist from American Idol. :)

Movies:

The Notebook, A Walk to Remember, An Affair to Remember, Under the Tuscan Sun, The Stepford Wives (both versions), Serendipity, The Princess Bride, Team America: World Police, Dodgeball, White Noise, What About Bob?, Office Space, Napoleon Dynamite, Dark Water, Madagascar, Oliver & Company, Aristocats, The People Under the Stairs, Much Ado About Nothing, Dead Again, Where the Heart Is, Walk the Line, Narnia, A Christmas Story, Because of Winn-Dixie, Ernest movies - know what I mean?, Airplane, Bruce Almighty, BORAT.

If you haven't yet watched The Secret - go do it NOW! It really will change your life. Click the banner below...

Television:

Friends, American Idol, Roswell (why, oh WHY, did you have to end??? Thank God for Sci-Fi reruns), Ren & Stimpy, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, The Oblongs, MXC ("Right you are, Ken!"), Dog Whisperer, It's Me or the Dog, Supernatural, Veronica Mars, Charmed, Ghost Whisperer, The Dresden Files, Medium, Kyle XY, anything about the supernatural or psychic stuff, any kind of singing talent competition, decorating shows and anything on HGTV, makeover shows, and yes - I admit it - I love Matlock, Murder She Wrote, Diagnosis Murder, Perry Mason, Father Dowling, Columbo...all those cheesy murder mystery shows!

Books:

The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd
Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers
The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom
Please Love Me by Keith Miller - EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO READ THIS BOOK!
Feathers Brush My Heart by Sinclair Browning (stories of moms who contacted their daughters after their deaths)
Motherless Daughters by Hope Edelman
Jane Green books
Learning to Sing by Clay Aiken
Wicked
Agatha Christie books and most any mystery
Psychic stuff like Sylvia Browne
The Secret and books like it
Happy for No Reason by Marci Shimoff
Between, Georgia and Gods in Alabama by Joshilyn Jackson
The Book of Bright Ideas by Sandra Kring
Currently reading: Happy for No Reason on audio and the latest Cat Who... book in paperback.

Heroes:

I really admire people who have gone through adversity but never lost hope and kept going and also people who are trying to make a positive impact on those around them. I admire any strong woman who is not afraid to speak her mind and have opinions no matter who tries to oppress her!! My bestest friend of over 20 years is also my hero because she has taught me a lot about being content and loving myself for who I am and because she's just plain awesome. At the risk of sounding like I'm full of myself, I'd have to say I'm somewhat of my own hero...at only 27, I've already survived a divorce...I've gone through several deaths of my pets and, of course, my mom...I won't say it's ever easy, and I don't want to make it out like I'm just so strong and tough. I couldn't have made it without God and so many people surrounding me who love me. But I could easily have shut down, and there were times when I wanted to...but I refuse to.

My Blog

The story of the puppies who changed my life :)

On August 9th, 2007, I discovered a litter of seven German Shepherd mix puppies living with their stray mom in the crawlspace of the abandoned house nextdoor. I had looked out the kitchen win...
Posted by Jen on Fri, 24 Aug 2007 03:01:00 PST

I saved a wild bird yesterday :)

Yesterday, something very profound, in my opinion, happened...it was just enough to restore my faith in goodness and the fact that things do happen for a reason even when we don't think there could e...
Posted by Jen on Tue, 25 Apr 2006 01:15:00 PST