MY BABIES!
Quote:"Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don..t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground that aren..t as good but easy. So the apples at the top think that there is something wrong with them when in reality, they are amazing. That is why you just have to be a little patient and the right boy, the one who takes a chance to find the good, right apple will come someday."
Music:
I have experienced and lived all of this: but in that life I was a caterpillar, but now, after it has all been said and done, I became strong by loving my own self more than any other person and discovering my own redemption was my own happiness. I then became free...thats when I lifted my wings and became a butterfly
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or
spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any
differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way
street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies.....You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman
PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget
them.
Movies:
I made some decisions
Detrimental to my life
Put my trust in some translucent people
Now I see through them just fine
I've come back to the real world
And put my bitterness behind
Cuz revenge is not as sweet as my freedom
And no one's taking mine
Promises Broken
With endless waiting
Been so many mountains
I've had to climb
I got this feeling
Something is waiting
My destiny's changing
I'm about to shine
Experience has taught me
What I need to take me far
See I can mingle with my enemies-
Cuz now I know who they are
I'm stronger then I've ever been
Got to be to survive
But I'll never make the same mistake twice
I'm goin to shine - amel larrieux
Heroes:
will always be there for you no matter what. You are a star in my world...and nothing will ever come between us. I love you charmaine
