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You could be the most talented, good-looking, smartest person on the planet, but if you aren't focused on what you want and willing to go after it, your dreams will remain just that dreams. The one quality you need most to succeed is determination. Determination is the fuel to keep going ahead in spite of obstacles or discouragement. I think of a child who sees something and wants it. There is no hesitation, they're focused on it, and they go after it. If an obstacle is in their way, they go around it to get what they want. Thru my childhood I was taught I couldnt have all I wanted, to be careful and cautious, or told "No, you can't do that." But in order to make my dreams come true, I have to in a sense become that child again, focused on that idea of "I want and I'll have it, no matter what." I'm determined to make my dreams come true, and will give my all to accomplish it. ------------------------------------------------------------ ----------- How often have you heard the phrase, "Nobody's Perfect," or even said it yourself? This phrase brings to mind some unspoken judgment that you SHOULD be perfect, that you should be able to do and have it all. Well, did you know that unrealistic sense of perfection actually gets in the way of achieving your dreams? That inner critic, who is inside of us, is nothing but troublemaker! That nagging little voice inside of you that says, "I don't know if I can do that," or " I'm not good enough," or even " why bother trying when I know it won't work." That inner critic accepts nothing short of perfection! And lets face it, life is far from perfect! But back to our inner critic. What it is? It comes from lack of self-confidence, plain and simple. The funny thing about lacking confidence is that it doesn't mean you aren't capable. It has more to do with having unreasonably high expectations. When you accept only perfection, then who on earth can possibly measure up? What you really need to keep you moving forward are realistic, doable expectations, and the ability to keep positive outlook, even if you do make a mistake or fail in some plan. I keep on reminding others that "Once we all accept we are not perfect, then we'll develop some confidence." When you are self-confident-and I'm not talking about being a "know-it-all", you know and trust your abilities and set realistic expectations and accept the fact that you can make mistakes or even fail, without being wrong or incapable. So, myspace buddy's, the next time you find yourself expecting perfection, just remind yourself that "nobody's perfect". Not even you or me.
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