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Ren

Attraction isnt about loving a perfect person, but loving an imperfect person perfectly.

About Me


Get Code | Create Your Own!It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Primarily I find it appealing to engage in intellectual conversations, seasoned with a cerebral kind of love. ~ I'm here to make solid friendships first and foremost, male or female. There are more avenues to reach people than ever before, but there’s no substitute for face-to-face communication. Beneath my unassuming beauty, lies a gentle and girlish charm. I have a wicked ability to banter but also exhibit decorum at the appropriate time. I've filled my life with nautical adventures. My story is one of tragedy and triumph, poverty and prosperity. My adversities have been my best teacher. Ultimately, I have found fulfillment when I continually put myself in the center of God's love, attention and affection. By no means has my road to success been without challenges, but I overcome obsticales with an optimistic attitude...and at the end of the day (and often year) I will emerge as a stronger, more focused person. On a differant note: I do all things in moderation. Healthy conscience, healthy life-style and have good habits. Intelligent, cultured, refined and have all the social graces. I like to host little ching-dings with style and class. I keep a neat house and love travel. I have imaginative and subjective character who loves to infuse heart-felt conversations. I'm aware, sensitive, respectful, thougtful and vicariously experiencing the feelings others by either the past or present situations, in an objective, loving manner. We all want intimacy - we are wired to have it. We all want safety and security -we just don't want to spend the time nurturing a relationship in order to produce it. We all want sexual pleasure, but fewer and fewer of us understand it is the result of a healthy relationship, not the path to one. Sex has become as casual as a latte. And I'm NOT just looking for casual sex. If you are, keep looking please.

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My Interests

Have patience with all things but first with yourself. Never confuse your mistakes with your value as a human being. You're perfectly valuable, creative, worthwhile person simply because you exist. And no amount of triumphs or tribulations can ever change that. Unconditional self-acceptance is the core to a peaceful mind.

I'd like to meet:

Something hard to define, but easily recognized. Someone with realistic expectations of love and honesty. Someone who is more concerned with there character than there reputation. To me, character is what we really are, while our reputation is merely what others think you are. The measure of a man/woman in not in his/her strength, but nobility of character. I admire someone with courtesy..it is one habit that never goes out of style. The person I click with craves terrific conversation, exudes a well-mannered air, loves to travel, recognizes the power of a charismatic personality, and can be my partner in crime... (i.e. ~ throwing sticks at the park in front of roller bladders) LOLBut on a serious note: One who leaves a legacy of love to generations to follow and who has lived a life worth remembering... who leaves gentle footprints on hearts they touch or who has left a story worth telling filled with happy memories dancing in our thoughts. I cherish those who have given the gift of timeless moments worth holding in our hearts forever.

Music:


Movies:

The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.

Books:

I read a various of things. Mostly God inspiring books centered around Christian growth that is edifing to my spiritual growth... and that which brings about encouragement. The greatest book ever written was/is the Bible. It teaches, corrects, and inspires.

Heroes:

God, Jesus .... Love feels no burden, thinks nothing of trouble, attempts what is above its strength, pleads no excuse.All that is necessary for the forces of evil to win the world, is for enough good men to do nothing. Edmund Burke

My Blog

When I say I’m a "Christian"

When I say... "I am a Christian"I'm not shouting "I'm clean livin'."I'm whispering "I was lost,Now I'm found and forgiven."When I say... "I am a Christian"I don't speak of this with pride.I'm confessi...
Posted by Ren on Fri, 07 Sep 2007 11:35:00 PST

Lifehouse’s Everything Skit

View with sound ... you may identify! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyheJ480LYA
Posted by Ren on Tue, 04 Sep 2007 06:55:00 PST

Inspiration

J Inspirations J How to plant a garden& 1.    Plant three rows of peas: *Peas of mind *Peas of heart *Peas of soul 2.    Plant three rows of squash: *Squash gossip *Squ...
Posted by Ren on Thu, 30 Aug 2007 08:57:00 PST

The Art of Waxing...

Note: Often I am asked if I am a writter and although I do love to write... This did NOT happen to me and I did NOT write it.  (unknown author) Just thought it was halarious!!  My night...
Posted by Ren on Tue, 14 Aug 2007 02:00:00 PST

Mother's-Reclassification

As I reflected on "Mother's Day"  May 13th-2007I dedicate to you all you mother's: I was renewing my driver's license last year at the Secretary of State's office and I was asked b...
Posted by Ren on Wed, 13 Jun 2007 09:07:00 PST

Twenty Things To Remember

  1. Faith is the ability to not panic.   2. If you prayed, don't worry.   3. As a child of God, prayer is kind of like calling home every day.   4. Blessed are the flexible, ...
Posted by Ren on Mon, 14 May 2007 05:01:00 PST

To FUNNY!! Bumper Stickers

·       Boldly going nowhere. ·       How many roads must a man travel down before he admits he is lost? ·     &nbs...
Posted by Ren on Fri, 11 May 2007 06:23:00 PST

Random thoughts...

Not all those who wonder, are lost. It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool, than to open it and remove all doubt. Ever notice how most people are over-committed and...
Posted by Ren on Tue, 08 May 2007 11:04:00 PST

Mary Had a Little Lamb


Posted by Ren on Sat, 05 May 2007 07:07:00 PST

More Things to Ponder

FOR THOSE WHO LOVE THE PHILOSOPHY OF AMBIGUITY... 1. DON'T SWEAT THE PETTY THINGS AND DON'T PET THE SWEATY THINGS. 2. ONE TEQUILA, TWO TEQUILA, THREE TEQUILA, FLOOR..... 3. ATHEISM IS A NON-PROPH...
Posted by Ren on Mon, 30 Apr 2007 07:01:00 PST