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Derek

a great lover isn't one who romances a different woman every night, a great lover is one who romance

About Me


A GOOD WOMAN----I believe that a good woman should be treated with all the respect that she deserves. When you find a good woman who works hard and treats you like a king, she must be treated like a queen. There is nothing wrong with surprising her with a candlelight dinner or a relaxing bath when she gets home. Moreover, she shouldn't have to ask for those special things that make her happy. Being successful and providing her with security and comfort is important, but understanding her emotional needs is what makes the difference. Making love should be done with extreme care and consideration for her feelings. A back and foot massage is sometimes all she needs. The most important thing that I do in a relationship is listen. I try to listen with more than my ears and feel with more than my hands. A good woman deserves the strength of a man, the support of a brother, and the loyalty of a friend. Therefore, I work to provide security, listen to provide consolation, and love to provide physical and emotional satisfaction. I will never be perfect, but I will try to be perfect for her.

My Interests

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NO GAMES---If someone would ask me, D what is it all about? I would say time. In fact, I believe time is our one true asset and once it is gone it can never be recovered.. Life is too short to be angry or hateful. I have always endeavored to not to live a life filled with regret. There is so much we can do with our lives besides fulfilling selfish material desires. I am amazed at how people allow themselves to become victims of corporate marketing imprisoned by greed and vanity. Unfortunately, nobody can provide you with all of the answers, you will have to find them for yourself. I have always tried to maintain a drama-free, stress-free lifestyle. Maintaining my health and appreciating the time that I have to pursue my passions provides me with physical, spiritual, and emotional wellness. I really enjoy being young, traveling, and experiencing the good things that life has to offer. I like associating with a diverse group of people who define their own sense of reality. I can usually be found in the company of successful people or completely alone. In fact, many of my friends are influential writers, actors, athletes, business and political professionals. If you are still living in the 20th century or feel that your identity and character can be purchased at a shopping mall or automobile dealership, we probably will not have a lot to talk about.

BEING HONEST--- A man should stand on his own and doesn't need a gang, group of homies, or relatives to make his life decisions. There is nothing sexy about looking dirty and unkempt while trying to make excuses for it by saying that you're keeping it hood or real. That behavior may work in the streets, high school or maybe even college, but at some point a man has to get his act together. The big question for men is, would they like for their female loved ones to be represented or dependent on an individual with a negative lifestyle or appearance. The bottom line is this, I'm going to do me and I encourage you to do you. But let's keep it real, some women do like the shirtless, pant -sagging thug, bad boy in the bedroom, but when its time to handle public business a man should present a socially acceptable image. We are not animals. We can choose to be slaves or we can choose to be men. I've realized that ladies also like attending church, eating at nice restaurants, going on cruises, and participating in community events and social gatherings. At least that's what my grown, sexy, intelligent, independent, strong, real, female friends and relatives tell me. PEACE OUT!!.

My Blog

Top 10 Reasons Men Cheat

                                              TOP 10 REASONS MEN CHEATCheating,viewed by some as a form of lying or stealing, can do irreparable damage to even the best relationships.  Whether the che...
Posted by on Wed, 04 Mar 2009 12:14:00 GMT

Top 10 Reasons Women Cheat

                                                             TOP 10 REASONS WOMEN CHEATCheating, viewed by some as a form of lying or stealing, can do irreparable damage to even the best relationships...
Posted by on Sat, 28 Feb 2009 12:00:00 GMT

Dereks Poetry Vol. I

Derek's Poetry Vol. IThe Lost VersesPOETRY CAN EXCITE US BY STIMULATING OUR MINDS AND WARMING OUR SOULS. GOOD POEMS ARE NEVER ORDINARY AND ENDEAVOR TO ENLIGHTEN. FOR ME, FINDING POETIC INSPIRATION IS ...
Posted by on Sat, 07 Feb 2009 20:25:00 GMT

Superwoman

SUPERWOMANFlying  through the nineties, with all its promises of prosperity and independence, into the 21'st century I  began to realize that I had become a prisoner of my ambition, vanity, ...
Posted by on Tue, 30 Dec 2008 19:56:00 GMT

The Holidays And Their True Meaning

Happy Holidays !! @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> The holidays are finally here and they provide us with special opportunities to bond with our family and friends.  In the...
Posted by on Thu, 18 Dec 2008 14:28:00 GMT

Being Honest

BEING HONESTA man should stand on his own and doesn't need a gang, group of homies, or relatives to make his life decisions. There is nothing sexy about looking dirty and unkempt while trying to make ...
Posted by on Tue, 16 Dec 2008 19:25:00 GMT

Independent & Sexy Repost

INDEPENDENT & SEXY Carpe Diem--Seize The Day!! Lets make today your day. It's your special day and the possibilities are endless. So, what ere you waiting for? It's time to get out there and exper...
Posted by on Fri, 17 Oct 2008 23:04:00 GMT

The Redeemed

 REDEEMEDJust when we think we've got it all figured out something always happens to remind us of how little really know.  Our lives are filled with so many wonderful things to see and experience.  ...
Posted by on Wed, 10 Dec 2008 11:39:00 GMT

Dereks Poetry Vol. IV The Lost Verses

DeDerek's Poetry Vol. IVThe Lost VersesPOETRY CAN EXCITE US BY STIMULATING OUR MINDS AND WARMING OUR SOULS. GOOD POEMS ARE NEVER ORDINARY AND ENDEAVOR TO ENLIGHTEN. FOR ME, FINDING POETIC INSPIRATION ...
Posted by on Wed, 03 Dec 2008 22:54:00 GMT

Dereks Poetry Vol. III The Lost Verses

  .. --> @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> Derek's Poetry Vol. IIIThe Lost Verses POETRY CAN EXCITE US BY STIMULATING OUR MINDS AND WARMING OUR SOULS. GOOD POEMS ARE...
Posted by on Mon, 01 Dec 2008 14:14:00 GMT