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C.J.

*Realize deeply that the present moment is all you ever have*

About Me

~~I live in Calabasas where I have finally found some peace and some good friends. I believe there is nothing better than a smiling face when you can't seem to find your own. I try to stay positive through all of life's complications and accept things for what they are. I love music of all kinds but my passion in life is to let myself go on the dance floor and FEEL the music. Music is what drives me emotionally. I can hear a song and it's possbible for it to change my mood entirely. Dancing is my favorite form of expression; by watching someone dance you can see the way the music has influenced their body movements. Sometimes it can be completely different than what you've heard. Besides music, I love to feel the warmth of the sun on my face and I can always enjoy a good sense of humor. Laughter brings out the best in people.
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My Interests


Your Element Is Water
**A bit of a contradiction, you can seem both lighthearted and serious. That's because you're good at going with the flow - but you also are deep.

**Highly intuitive, you tune in to people's emotions and moods easily. You are able to tap into deep emotional connections and connect with others.

**You prefer a smooth, harmonious life - but you can navigate your way around waves.

**You have a knack for getting people to get along and making life a little more peaceful.

When my energy level is high... I love to go out and dance and have a good time, but in my free time when I'm trying to relax I work on my aquarium. It takes a lot of time, effort, patience, and money *wish I would have known that before I started* but it is well worth it all. You can just sit in a comfortable chair in front of the fish tank and just stare off into a completely different underwater world that you've created... pretty sweet.
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I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet new friends who are genuinely good people. I've had my fair share of fake, deceptive, insincere people who live fabricated lives to impress others... I'm done with that. Gimme the real thing!! ;)

"Life has a bright side and a dark side, for the world of relativity is composed of light and shadows. If you permit your thoughts to dwell on evil, you yourself will become ugly. Look only for the good in everything so you absorb the quality of beauty." Paramahansa Yogananda

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Music:

EVERYTHING!! There is no music genre that I can't appreciate. I regularly enjoy artists with soul like India Arie, Erykah Badu, Common, Leela James or Jill Scott. I appreciate artists that have original sounds that follow through as incredible lyricists like hieroglyphics and Rakim - basically anything that has a positive vibe when you hear it. I love listening to reggae and have a strong devotion to blues, jazz and oldies when the mood is right.

Movies:

Anything COMEDY!!!! I thrive off of comedy movies...you can never go wrong with laughter! Stand-up is an absolute must have! Eddie Murphy - Delirious & Raw, Dave Chappelle, Robin Williams - Live on Broadway, DANE COOK (who couldn't love Dane Cook?) Chris Rock - Bigger and Blacker & Never Scared, Anything from Ricard Pryor, All the Kings & Queens of Comedy, etc... so many inside jokes that fill my day with smiles come from stand-up. Then there is Saturday Night Live and all the classic faces that have taken off from it, Harold and Kumar go to White Castle; All the National Lampoon movies; I could go on all day listing the comedy movies that inspire me. There is only one "chick-flick" even worth mentioning in this list and it is one movie every girl should own and that is The Notebook... enough said...

Heroes:

My biggest hero in life is my dad... I know its a common statement and lots of people use it, but he really is the person I look up to the most in life!! I'll always be a Daddy's Girl!!