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About Me


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I am a Widowed (they didn't have that choice) Christian woman, down to earth and past the partying stage. I am a very analytical person, love challenges and exploring new horizons. I have a great sense of humor, and love to make people laugh. I know the value of friendship, and don’t take life for granted. I am appreciative of the morning sun, a butterfly, a cool breeze, and rainbows. Oh, and I do smoke, and drive a green bug!
I was born and raised in Texas, I have a tad bit of Cherokee Native American Indian in me, but am totally mesmerized by the Native American culture. I listen to mostly Native American music, my favorite band being "Navajo".

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Below is a personality survey I took at eharmony:

I am best described as taking care of others

Words that describe me:

Understanding

Unquestioning

Humane

Selfless

Gentle

Kindhearted

Gullible

Indulgent

Original

Inventive

Thinker

Brave

Eccentric

Avant-Garde

Out-of-Touch

Unique

Casual

Informal

Compliant

Reliable

Solid

Dependable

Genuine

Emotional

Insightful

Perceptive

Sensitive

Self-conscious

Friendly

Gregarious

Full of Life

Unreserved

Spontaneous

Vigorous

I have a tender heart. Yes, I know that others need to learn to take care of themselves. Yes, I know they need to accept the consequences of their foolish or bad behavior.

But most of the time I am there to help when they need me. If they are in trouble, I offer compassion and go out of my way to be helpful. If they need someone who will listen, I am trustworthy and sympathetic. And I am direct with them; when they need advice or counsel, I offer it in a straightforward, direct manner, without beating around the bush.
I am also smart enough to know that I cannot take good care of others if I fail to take good care of myself, so I listen to my own wants and needs. If I’ve run out of sympathetic energy, I spend time restoring myself. I do know how to take care of myself, but my genuine interest is in taking care of others.

I think like an artist. Or better, I SEE like an artist. While most people look at life's straight lines, its height and depth and width, I am bending the lines with my imagination and turning black and white into shades of blue and yellow. I’ve piqued everyone's curiosity with my own original and inventive ways of thinking.
I can, if I must, think in conventional ways. But left on my own, I'll usually opt for the eccentric or avant-garde; in fact I’m usually bored with what everyone else is comfortable with. I learn from reading, talking, watching people and other fauna and flora, and simply sitting in the soft chair of my mind and wondering how people would learn how to count if they could only use uneven numbers. I am out in front of conventional ideas, bravely originally defining true and false, right and wrong, the good, the bad and the ugly.

I think well, and even my wildest fancies have their roots in the deep soil of sound ideas and tested beliefs. So even if some people don't want to drive at high speed with me, they will respect me for my courage as an innovative and unconventional thinker. I lend color and imagination to what would otherwise be the straight black and white lines of their work world and social environments.

When I take on a task at work or at home, I am reliable; I get the job done. In an organized way, I define the goal, lay out a plan, figure how long the task will take, and get to work "solid and dependable I".
But and this is important I am not a slave to the plan. I am committed to it, but not chained to it; the connection is more casual and informal. I know that sometimes "the best laid plans" fall off the tracks; when this happens, I clean up the train wreck and start over, undeterred.
Though not happening often, when plans change, I am okay with it. In fact, sometimes I change the plan. It's too nice of a Saturday to finish organizing the garage. Let's go for a bike ride instead. True, the next rainy Saturday will likely find me back in the garage, but for now the work can wait.
What an interesting combination of qualities in I am organized, but casual; solid, but compliant; and dependable, but informal. At home and at work, people know they can rely on me. I take great satisfaction in knowing that people think of me as disciplined and responsible, but I also know that I have something of a free spirit, and when this spirit moves me, off I go, following the impulse of the moment. I am rightly proud of my work ethic, but I also enjoy my willingness to lay the tools down, crank up the music and play like a child.

What a great life I have, and a great attitude to boot. I know when to buckle down and push ahead to get the job done and I do it well. I know when to lay the tools of my trade aside, grab my kite and head for the meadow where I can run with the wind. Many people will see and admire in me this lovely combination of a person who can focus, but who is flexible enough to know when to let the spirit move me in some new and livelier direction.
It's a life they aspire to, and they delight in seeing it played out in my life. They may ask my advice and turn me into a mentor of the full and balanced experience. They will want to know how I do it, what the costs are, and if I get frightened that I am not working hard enough or playing often enough. They may make me think about my own life more than I have, so I can share it with those who want to emulate this balance between flexibility and focus.

In situations where I feel very safe, when I know and trust the people I am with, I can be very kindhearted and unrestrained. I let my affection for and pleasure in being with others flow freely. I am wide open and when I get back this same kind of unrestrained warmth, I am deeply satisfied. Because I am so friendly and full of life, these are among my favorite moments.

Many people, most probably, will be glad to be in the room I am in. At work I make the environment livelier and the banter more interesting, so the time moves swiftly and the experience is a happier one. At home I keep everyone connected because I engage each of them in the conversational action, and as a result they are more connected as well with one another. I make home a warmer and more interesting place for everyone who lives there.
So almost everyone will be glad to be with me, I make life more interesting for those I live and work with, and I could help some of my friends who need just a little encouragement to open up and find in themselves the kinds of energetic and warm connections that I thrive on. Not that I am a pushover; in fact, I am often quite assertive. In taking care of myself I also make sure that others are engaged and energized.

My approach toward obligations is: FOCUSED AND FLEXIBLE

On Emotional Stability I am: VERY RESPONSIVE

The four things my friends say about me are:

a. Creative

b. Intelligent

c. Good Listener

d. Funny

Three of my BEST life-skills:

a. Using humor to make friends laugh

b. Finding pleasure and contentment in simple things

c. Making art and culture an ongoing part of my life

Five things that I "can't live without?"

a. Computer

b. My dog

c. coffee

d. being Creative

e. My Green VW Beetle

One thing about myself that only my best friends know.

I’m a problem solver

Intellect... I must have a partner who is bright and can share my understanding of the world as well as enjoy discussing important issues.

Sense of Humor... I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy the humorous side of life.

Relaxed... I must have a partner who is able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life.

Self-Confident... I must have a partner who knows and believes in himself/herself throughout life's ups and downs.

Curiosity... I must have a partner who is hungry for new information and knowledge and who strives to learn as much as possible.

Affectionate... I must have someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection.

Conflict Resolver... I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather than win arguments or conflicts within our relationship.

Staying In... I must have a partner who mainly enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends.

Patience... I must have someone who can handle life's frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady, demeanor.

Strong Character... I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough to do the right thing.

Lying... I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me.

Dependence... I can't stand someone who bases their happiness on me.

Pornography... I can't stand someone who views or owns pornography in any form.

Poor Hygiene... I can't stand someone who is not clean.

Materialistic... I can't stand someone who sees material items as a measure of success.

Racist... I can't stand someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which they belong is superior to the rest of humanity.

Cheating... I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.

Undependable... I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is unreliable.

Drugs... I can't stand someone who uses illegal recreational drugs.

Infidelity... I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a committed relationship.

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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

I would like to meet gentleman that knows the value of life and friends who is quick witted and lighthearted.
A gentleman, who is romantic, loves surprises and being showered with gifts.
Who is down to earth and is not looking for a one night stand, but a friendship that could grow.
I would like to have someone to talk to and enjoy the simple things in life with.
I do not like bar scenes, nor do I drink, and prefer that who ever I meet have the same values.
No, I am not a bible thumper, far from it, but I do believe in God, and that my husband is with him now.
I am a bit old fashion by the way I was raised, but I can change a tire on my car, and totally mess up your front alignment by attempting to change that really long pole that attaches and holds the front tires together. (Nobody told me you had to count the turns!?!?!).
So, I would really like to meet someone who knows about cars, but it is not a prerequisite. LOL. Just kidding.
I just want to have someone to enjoy life with again. Is it you?

Ok, I found this place to take Personality Compatibility Test, below are the results:

My Personality

Personal Characteristics

- Summary Your views and attitudes can be liberal or conservative, depending on the topic at hand You appear to be very ambitious You're very intellectual You are moderately conscientious At times you show integrity You sometimes seek out adventure You have a somewhat adaptable personality Occasionally you behave in a dominant manner

Money Attitudes - Summary

You realize the importance of money but it doesn't consume your thoughts Social Life - Summary Certain facets of your personality may occasionally make it challenging for others to interact with you Having a social network is somewhat important to you

Stress Reaction - Summary

It appears that your understanding of your own emotions and those of others is average In general, your reaction to stress is highly adaptive You display a few psychological traits that may interfere with your day-to-day functioning

Communication Style - Summary

You are comfortable being vulnerable to your romantic partner You need a lot of emotional intimacy You are somewhat open to accepting your partner's opinions, goals, and input in the relationship You communicate effectively and considerately with other people You have a moderate need for intellectual, thought-provoking discussions with partner

Conflict Resolution - Summary

You have relatively strong conflict resolution skills You are somewhat prone to conflict

Relationship Issues - Summary

You appear to be ready to commit to a serious, long-term relationship You're looking for a long-term relationship Generally, you believe romance should be preserved for special occasions You are very attentive towards your romantic partner You think that chivalry is important You have traditional gender role beliefs

Attachment Style - Summary

Your level of reliance on your partner is occasionally unhealthy

Sex Life - Summary

Traditionalist When it comes to sex and sexuality you are relatively traditional in your attitudes and behaviors When committed to someone, you are a faithful and loyal partner

My Ideal PartnerPersonal Characteristics Highly emotionally intelligent Has a positive self-concept Somewhat relaxed about rules and doing the "right" thing Flexible enough to handle changed or dropped plans Somewhat concerned with being neat and organized Has a tendency to stick to a daily routine but is flexible Handles stress with ease Strikes a balance between being dominant and encouraging equal inputAttitudes and Beliefs Optimistic Somewhat spontaneous and fairly open to new experiences Flexible and open character Political and social views are midway between conservative and liberal Has traditional perspective on gender rolesMedium Thinks that money is of some importance in life Spends wiselyCommunication and Conflict Able to communicate effectively Skilled at dealing with conflictSocial Life Has characteristics of both an introvert and an extrovert Places moderate importance on relationships with family and friendsRelationship Skills and Attitudes Tolerant and patient; is willing to divulge quite a bit about his/her daily life Needs a lot of emotional intimacy Somewhat tolerant individual Willing to rely on others Ready to be in a committed relationship Moderately adventurous sexual attitudes and behavior Faithful when in a relationship Willing to discuss his/her feelings Has independent and dependent traits when in a relationship Moderate need for control Emotionally steady; tolerant of occasional mood swings Has good control of angerSEXPLORATION TEST

YOU'RE A TRADITIONALIST!


Don't let the title fool you. As a Traditionalist, you're full of heat that so far you've released in pretty standard ways. When it comes to sex, Traditionalists are comfortable doing it, comfortable talking about it and good at listening to what your partner wants. Traditionalists tend to be faithful. For them, intimacy comes with trust. You're not always the aggressor, but boy are you ready to rumble when it's time for a little one-on-one.

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