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helen

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About Me

hmm.. about me.. I was born in Taipei,Taiwan but was raised in San Jose, California. I like the fact that I'm bi-cultural because it allows me to see different aspects of a lot of situations I might have to face. I'm a UCR alumna. I graduated in June 2008 with a BA in Business Economics and a minor in International Relations.I have ambitions to go into corporate law.
Most people tend to assume I'm spoiled little bitch, but assumptions are a sign of ignorance. I don't judge people until I meet them, but it's hard to get the same respect back. To be honest, I try to keep life pretty simple..which to be clear, means no unnecessary drama or bullshit. Everyone has their baggage, but it's not fair to let that affect a friendship or make someone the scapegoat of personal issues. Once you get to know me, you'll see that I have a dry sarcastic/smart ass attitude that throws people off, but underneath it all I'm extremely loyal and overly protective of my family and my friends. I'm also one of the biggest sweethearts if I'm treated right. My honesty gets me into trouble because i'm not afraid to tell people what they don't want to hear. It's not a one sided street though, I apperciate honesty in all it's forms. I tend to take the blame if I know I'm in the wrong, and I try to make every situation into a lesson. I learn the lesson and I try to not make the same mistake twice, but I'm only human. I hate being on bad terms with people so I attempt to make ammends, but there's so much I'm willing to do before I break. However,that doesn't mean I won't stand up for myself. I don't fear death, but I know that waking up every morning is not a gurantee so I try to make the most out of life.
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

cHad from mudvayne because he's sooo yummy!! lol jkjp. umm..anyone really that's : drama free, honest, outspoken, sarcastic, smart (i'm no genius myself, but gotta have something up there in order for me to hold a conversation with you ) funny, and is going the same direction that i'm heading.but yeah i'm open to almost everyone so feel free to drop a line. i don't want to meet ppl that are so lacking in self confidence that they have to look down their noses and judge other people to make themselves feel better. everyone has too much bullshit in their lives to have to deal with that. i'm pretty sure everyone can agree with me on that.

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Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:

You have medium extroversion.
You're not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party.
Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences.
But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your "down time."

Conscientiousness:

You have high conscientiousness.
Intelligent and reliable, you tend to succeed in life.
Most things in your life are organized and planned well.
But you borderline on being a total perfectionist.

Agreeableness:

You have medium agreeableness.
You're generally a friendly and trusting person.
But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism.
You get along well with others, as long as they play fair.

Neuroticism:

You have low neuroticism.
You are very emotionally stable and mentally together.
Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly.
Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure.

Openness to experience:

Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality Test

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Prince Charming..

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Posted by on Sun, 29 Mar 2009 23:48:00 GMT

2008 awards

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Puppy Love

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Posted by on Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:54:00 GMT

the sappiest shit ever..

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Posted by on Mon, 31 Mar 2008 23:22:00 GMT

do any of us really know who we really are?

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Posted by on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 11:53:00 GMT

Puzzles

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Posted by on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 02:22:00 GMT

Prolonged foreplay

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Posted by on Sat, 08 Mar 2008 19:08:00 GMT

oops!

sol.. i'm having an excellent fucking week and i hope everyone is too. reason why you might ask? 96 on my macroeconomics midterm with no curve, made it through one round of interviews with an ask bac...
Posted by on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 17:47:00 GMT

about me.

i'm smart, stubborn, suspicious, and self sufficient. i'm always right even when i'm wrong.i don't make time for people who don't make time for me. i'm a competitor and i always get my way. i'm excell...
Posted by on Mon, 25 Feb 2008 23:27:00 GMT

this entire week

has been so fucking shitty. (warning: this is a rant and i am extremely irritated if you couldn't tell by the opening line) - I've been messing up at work b/c I've ben preoccupied with school. when ...
Posted by on Sat, 23 Feb 2008 10:58:00 GMT